Well I do know this through deductive reasoning....They once gave it up like you were a warden in a female prision with a fist full of pardon's....Now they are on the hunt for Mr. right but with...sooo many trophies makes it hard to catch a guy. Here we have the law of supply and demand. They got the kids and don't want no more yet they wan't the man who didn't have the fun making them and hope for honesty,faithfullness and all the qualities that are very hard to find with trophies in tow.

to let you know she graduated the day before she had her 2nd child and she graduated 1yr early.. and you dont know my daughter , she very mature for her age many people thought when she was 13, they thought she was 21 or in college someone even thought she was my son mom... as it sounds your putting teen mothers down.. im a former teen mother

Not to sound like Mr. Moral or whatever but I've seen so many profiles of girls under 21 that have children; some have as many as 3 or 4 with 3 or 4 different fathers!! If you are 19 and have 2 kids with 2 different guys, there is a problem. I know that at that age I was still a kid myself and could never handle a child. It's only been in the last couple years (I'm 29) that I've felt that if I met the right woman I could handle that kind of responsibility. And these girls are single...where are all the fathers??

excuse me? my daughter had 2 kids by the time she was 17 with the same father and she 25 now with 3 kids and same father of all 3.. and no there not together anymore infact she filed for divorce and she works 50hours a week works her butt off for her kids..

The biggest problem is that in the younger age bracket mostly.... the women are suckered into sex ... by guys that know how to sweet talk them, and dont give a crap about them. Their only interested in one thing self gratifacation...and who cares if they get pregnant! Wham ... Bam...
Thank you! Out the door and on to the next! The women have some blame also...they want sex...
but need to start being aware of birth control!

well...that sounded pretty condescending and judgmental to me... hope you feel better about yourself now...thanks for letting us bask in the glory of your perfection....

excuse me? my daughter had 2 kids by the time she was 17 with the same father and she 25 now with 3 kids and same father of all 3.. and no there not together anymore infact she filed for divorce and she works 50hours a week works her butt off for her kids..

no offense queen and please don't take this the wrong way... I never try and bash someone else's child. But... as hard working and mature as your daughter seems to be... think of how much more she could have accomplished if she wasn't a teen mom. Tho she loves her kids, it's a struggle. If she had waited to have children until she was in a more stable relationship, maybe she wouldn't have to work 50 hours a week now to support them. All I'm saying is that being a teen mom makes getting thru life so much more difficult...

ah, nice to see a insightful man of reason....cheers to you!!

So I understand what you're saying. However I had my first daughter at 19 and my second at 21. The father of the second child is very much around her life as well as my older daughters. I have made some mistakes in my life, but I do feel that my daughters are the best thing that has ever happened to me. They push me to be better in everything I do. I made it back to college because of them. I don't feel that every young mom is ready to make the choice that they made. I mean sure I struggle and it's tough at times, but I am such a better person because of my girls. Though I am the oldest of five so I have always been a little more responsible in taking care of children and laying in the bed that I made. I can't tell you all the reasons young girls are having babies. Like I saw someone else say some feel that if they have the baby the guy will stick around. I've known a girl that even went off her birth control without telling the guy in hopes to secretly get pregnant. I've also known a girl that got pregnant while on birth control. Some have the baby after getting pregnant because they don't believe in other options. Whatever the reason, I think you should keep in mind that not all young mom's are so unresponsible in their decisions. I do see where you are coming from but just so you know there are some of us out there that are responsible enough and for the record it's a very tough decision to make.

Not to sound like Mr. Moral or whatever but I've seen so many profiles of girls under 21 that have children; some have as many as 3 or 4 with 3 or 4 different fathers!! If you are 19 and have 2 kids with 2 different guys, there is a problem. I know that at that age I was still a kid myself and could never handle a child. It's only been in the last couple years (I'm 29) that I've felt that if I met the right woman I could handle that kind of responsibility. And these girls are single...where are all the fathers??

Well I do know this through deductive reasoning....They once gave it up like you were a warden in a female prision with a fist full of pardon's....Now they are on the hunt for Mr. right but with...sooo many trophies makes it hard to catch a guy. Here we have the law of supply and demand. They got the kids and don't want no more yet they wan't the man who didn't have the fun making them and hope for honesty,faithfullness and all the qualities that are very hard to find with trophies in tow.

Who wasn't dumb as a teenager? Seriously. If I knew then what I know now... I'm pretty sure my life would have ended up differently. And I'm also pretty sure a lot of people could say the same.