oh I don't know...maybe because all you did was b*tch about all men.

No one asks for someone to put anything out here ,its all unslicited advice,opinions what ever..did someoen twist your arm and force you to read this?? Do you dissagree that humans should treat each other with common courtsey and respect??

Hmm maybe I have lost my grip on the use of the english language since college but last i checked b*tching was "all men do this an that,there all users,excetra" Your reading into it not taking it as is

No where did I say or suggest that ALL men are this way or do anything

.......lets all just have another cup of coffee....it is a legal stimulant you know!

I agree with your sentiments but I'm not sure this diatribe qualifies as paradoxical in comparison to the message. Presentation and tact are key components to actively espousing the principles you advocate.

If you read my post again...i said it was the ATTITUDE that would make me run away...not the advice...there is a nice way to say things...and there is the wrong way...the way you come off is as someone who has been hurt...recently...whether it was from rejection or a recent relationship...but hides behind it because you somehow think you are inferior to others. the attidude summed up comes across like this..."I have my SH!T figured out...and you need to do it like me!" it's bogus. There is nothing wrong with the advice...it is the way you said it...so before looking to take the spec out of your brothers eye...remove the plank in your own eye first...who said that?...oh yeah JESUS!

yes

WOW,,,,Who pissed in your cherrios!!!!!!!!

I've had that happen to me many times, I think it's just a normal part of dating. It sucks I agree. The problem is that people say that they want to hear the truth, but really most times they don't.
So you go out on a date with someone and he or she gives you the typical "yea I had fun we'll do it again sometime" but really they don't plan on it. Maybe they don't want to be rude. Maybe the last time they were truthful they got snapped on and yelled at. (happened to me) I just don't think people should get so mad if someone doesn't want to go out with you again after only 1 or 2 dates. Or MAYBE you were just a bad date... JMO

well, dip my in ignorance and throw me to the Christians then. I'm gonna go sit in a corner now.

I totally agree with common courtesy. People should be more decent to one another overall. Respect however in my opinion is earned. No one just gets my trust and respect right from the start.

Thank you finally a human with some intelligence and CONSTRUCTIVE advice..I laid it all on the line because most people dont get it if you beat around the bush and hint at things

I'm intelligent...just not your brand of "human" lol

Who did it Jilly???!!!

I'll hunt them down and poor muratic acid into their coffee.

whoo hooo someone is on my side

See that, common courtesy works for us all. I made your point and mine all at once.

now I got back up

nice way huh...ok next time you want to get a point across to someone try the really sugary long route and see where it gets you..yes it can work but from other posts I have seen, no one listens to the long way around..No i dont think I am inferior in any way..if I did I wouldnt have had the nerve to put this out there..once again this is ONLY MY opinion of the way people should: treat others

inferiorty complex anyone?