Topic: advice for guys an comments welcome
aLittleBird's photo
Thu 06/05/08 07:41 AM
oh I don't know...maybe because all you did was b*tch about all men.

mamacat2007's photo
Thu 06/05/08 07:41 AM

unsolicited advice



Ummmm ... Thanks......

(where is the sarcastic emoticon???)




No one asks for someone to put anything out here ,its all unslicited advice,opinions what ever..did someoen twist your arm and force you to read this?? Do you dissagree that humans should treat each other with common courtsey and respect??

mamacat2007's photo
Thu 06/05/08 07:43 AM

oh I don't know...maybe because all you did was b*tch about all men.


Hmm maybe I have lost my grip on the use of the english language since college but last i checked b*tching was "all men do this an that,there all users,excetra" Your reading into it not taking it as is

mamacat2007's photo
Thu 06/05/08 07:44 AM


oh I don't know...maybe because all you did was b*tch about all men.


Hmm maybe I have lost my grip on the use of the english language since college but last i checked b*tching was "all men do this an that,there all users,excetra" Your reading into it not taking it as is


No where did I say or suggest that ALL men are this way or do anything

no photo
Thu 06/05/08 07:46 AM
.......lets all just have another cup of coffee....it is a legal stimulant you know!bigsmile drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker

CleanBathroom's photo
Thu 06/05/08 07:46 AM
Edited by CleanBathroom on Thu 06/05/08 08:17 AM


unsolicited advice



Ummmm ... Thanks......

(where is the sarcastic emoticon???)




No one asks for someone to put anything out here ,its all unslicited advice,opinions what ever..did someoen twist your arm and force you to read this?? Do you dissagree that humans should treat each other with common courtsey and respect??


I agree with your sentiments but I'm not sure this diatribe qualifies as paradoxical in comparison to the message. Presentation and tact are key components to actively espousing the principles you advocate. glasses

isaac_dede's photo
Thu 06/05/08 07:47 AM


unsolicited advice



Ummmm ... Thanks......

(where is the sarcastic emoticon???)




No one asks for someone to put anything out here ,its all unslicited advice,opinions what ever..did someoen twist your arm and force you to read this?? Do you dissagree that humans should treat each other with common courtsey and respect??

If you read my post again...i said it was the ATTITUDE that would make me run away...not the advice...there is a nice way to say things...and there is the wrong way...the way you come off is as someone who has been hurt...recently...whether it was from rejection or a recent relationship...but hides behind it because you somehow think you are inferior to others. the attidude summed up comes across like this..."I have my SH!T figured out...and you need to do it like me!" it's bogus. There is nothing wrong with the advice...it is the way you said it...so before looking to take the spec out of your brothers eye...remove the plank in your own eye first...who said that?...oh yeah JESUS!

no photo
Thu 06/05/08 07:50 AM
yes




unsolicited advice



Ummmm ... Thanks......

(where is the sarcastic emoticon???)




No one asks for someone to put anything out here ,its all unslicited advice,opinions what ever..did someoen twist your arm and force you to read this?? Do you dissagree that humans should treat each other with common courtsey and respect??

therooster's photo
Thu 06/05/08 07:50 AM
noway WOW,,,,Who pissed in your cherrios!!!!!!!! laugh

Jill298's photo
Thu 06/05/08 07:52 AM
I've had that happen to me many times, I think it's just a normal part of dating. It sucks I agree. The problem is that people say that they want to hear the truth, but really most times they don't.
So you go out on a date with someone and he or she gives you the typical "yea I had fun we'll do it again sometime" but really they don't plan on it. Maybe they don't want to be rude. Maybe the last time they were truthful they got snapped on and yelled at. (happened to me) I just don't think people should get so mad if someone doesn't want to go out with you again after only 1 or 2 dates. Or MAYBE you were just a bad date... JMO

aLittleBird's photo
Thu 06/05/08 07:53 AM


oh I don't know...maybe because all you did was b*tch about all men.


Hmm maybe I have lost my grip on the use of the english language since college but last i checked b*tching was "all men do this an that,there all users,excetra" Your reading into it not taking it as is


well, dip my in ignorance and throw me to the Christians then. I'm gonna go sit in a corner now.

Jill298's photo
Thu 06/05/08 07:54 AM


unsolicited advice



Ummmm ... Thanks......

(where is the sarcastic emoticon???)




No one asks for someone to put anything out here ,its all unslicited advice,opinions what ever..did someoen twist your arm and force you to read this?? Do you dissagree that humans should treat each other with common courtsey and respect??
I totally agree with common courtesy. People should be more decent to one another overall. Respect however in my opinion is earned. No one just gets my trust and respect right from the start.

mamacat2007's photo
Thu 06/05/08 08:04 AM



unsolicited advice



Ummmm ... Thanks......

(where is the sarcastic emoticon???)




No one asks for someone to put anything out here ,its all unslicited advice,opinions what ever..did someoen twist your arm and force you to read this?? Do you dissagree that humans should treat each other with common courtsey and respect??


I agree with your sentiments but I'm not sure this diatribe qualifies as non-paradoxical in comparison to the message. Presentation and tact are key components to actively espousing the principles you advocate. glasses



Thank you finally a human with some intelligence and CONSTRUCTIVE advice..I laid it all on the line because most people dont get it if you beat around the bush and hint at things

aLittleBird's photo
Thu 06/05/08 08:05 AM
I'm intelligent...just not your brand of "human" lol

CleanBathroom's photo
Thu 06/05/08 08:06 AM

I've had that happen to me many times, I think it's just a normal part of dating. It sucks I agree. The problem is that people say that they want to hear the truth, but really most times they don't.
So you go out on a date with someone and he or she gives you the typical "yea I had fun we'll do it again sometime" but really they don't plan on it. Maybe they don't want to be rude. Maybe the last time they were truthful they got snapped on and yelled at. (happened to me) I just don't think people should get so mad if someone doesn't want to go out with you again after only 1 or 2 dates. Or MAYBE you were just a bad date... JMO


Who did it Jilly???!!! :angry:

I'll hunt them down and poor muratic acid into their coffee.

Jill298's photo
Thu 06/05/08 08:07 AM


I've had that happen to me many times, I think it's just a normal part of dating. It sucks I agree. The problem is that people say that they want to hear the truth, but really most times they don't.
So you go out on a date with someone and he or she gives you the typical "yea I had fun we'll do it again sometime" but really they don't plan on it. Maybe they don't want to be rude. Maybe the last time they were truthful they got snapped on and yelled at. (happened to me) I just don't think people should get so mad if someone doesn't want to go out with you again after only 1 or 2 dates. Or MAYBE you were just a bad date... JMO


Who did it Jilly???!!! :angry:

I'll hunt them down and poor muratic acid into their coffee.
drinker drinker whoo hooo someone is on my side

CleanBathroom's photo
Thu 06/05/08 08:08 AM




unsolicited advice



Ummmm ... Thanks......

(where is the sarcastic emoticon???)




No one asks for someone to put anything out here ,its all unslicited advice,opinions what ever..did someoen twist your arm and force you to read this?? Do you dissagree that humans should treat each other with common courtsey and respect??


I agree with your sentiments but I'm not sure this diatribe qualifies as non-paradoxical in comparison to the message. Presentation and tact are key components to actively espousing the principles you advocate. glasses



Thank you finally a human with some intelligence and CONSTRUCTIVE advice..I laid it all on the line because most people dont get it if you beat around the bush and hint at things


See that, common courtesy works for us all. I made your point and mine all at once. flowerforyou

Jill298's photo
Thu 06/05/08 08:08 AM
now I got back up :wink:

mamacat2007's photo
Thu 06/05/08 08:08 AM



unsolicited advice



Ummmm ... Thanks......

(where is the sarcastic emoticon???)




No one asks for someone to put anything out here ,its all unslicited advice,opinions what ever..did someoen twist your arm and force you to read this?? Do you dissagree that humans should treat each other with common courtsey and respect??

If you read my post again...i said it was the ATTITUDE that would make me run away...not the advice...there is a nice way to say things...and there is the wrong way...the way you come off is as someone who has been hurt...recently...whether it was from rejection or a recent relationship...but hides behind it because you somehow think you are inferior to others. the attidude summed up comes across like this..."I have my SH!T figured out...and you need to do it like me!" it's bogus. There is nothing wrong with the advice...it is the way you said it...so before looking to take the spec out of your brothers eye...remove the plank in your own eye first...who said that?...oh yeah JESUS!


huh nice way huh...ok next time you want to get a point across to someone try the really sugary long route and see where it gets you..yes it can work but from other posts I have seen, no one listens to the long way around..No i dont think I am inferior in any way..if I did I wouldnt have had the nerve to put this out there..once again this is ONLY MY opinion of the way people should: treat others:wink:

isaac_dede's photo
Thu 06/05/08 08:08 AM




unsolicited advice



Ummmm ... Thanks......

(where is the sarcastic emoticon???)




No one asks for someone to put anything out here ,its all unslicited advice,opinions what ever..did someoen twist your arm and force you to read this?? Do you dissagree that humans should treat each other with common courtsey and respect??


I agree with your sentiments but I'm not sure this diatribe qualifies as non-paradoxical in comparison to the message. Presentation and tact are key components to actively espousing the principles you advocate. glasses



Thank you finally a human with some intelligence and CONSTRUCTIVE advice..I laid it all on the line because most people dont get it if you beat around the bush and hint at things

inferiorty complex anyone?noway