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Topic: advice for guys an comments welcome
mamacat2007 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 67	Thu 06/05/08 08:10 AM
I've had that happen to me many times, I think it's just a normal part of dating. It sucks I agree. The problem is that people say that they want to hear the truth, but really most times they don't. So you go out on a date with someone and he or she gives you the typical "yea I had fun we'll do it again sometime" but really they don't plan on it. Maybe they don't want to be rude. Maybe the last time they were truthful they got snapped on and yelled at. (happened to me) I just don't think people should get so mad if someone doesn't want to go out with you again after only 1 or 2 dates. Or MAYBE you were just a bad date... JMO I agree no one should get ticked off if someone doesnt want to see you again..thats why i mentioned being honest about it..you said you went through it..wouldnt you have liked the person to follow some of the advice i give here?

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Thu 06/05/08 08:10 AM Edited by No1sLove on Thu 06/05/08 08:10 AM
We all have our own set of rules and standards of operations in here. JMHO opinion that IMHO is a priceless tool for avoiding just this kind of response.

mamacat2007 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 67	Thu 06/05/08 08:10 AM
I've had that happen to me many times, I think it's just a normal part of dating. It sucks I agree. The problem is that people say that they want to hear the truth, but really most times they don't. So you go out on a date with someone and he or she gives you the typical "yea I had fun we'll do it again sometime" but really they don't plan on it. Maybe they don't want to be rude. Maybe the last time they were truthful they got snapped on and yelled at. (happened to me) I just don't think people should get so mad if someone doesn't want to go out with you again after only 1 or 2 dates. Or MAYBE you were just a bad date... JMO I agree no one should get ticked off if someone doesnt want to see you again..thats why i mentioned being honest about it..you said you went through it..wouldnt you have liked the person to follow some of the advice i give here?

mamacat2007 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 67	Thu 06/05/08 08:11 AM
oh I don't know...maybe because all you did was btch about all men. Hmm maybe I have lost my grip on the use of the english language since college but last i checked btching was "all men do this an that,there all users,excetra" Your reading into it not taking it as is well, dip my in ignorance and throw me to the Christians then. I'm gonna go sit in a corner now. Sorry hun,didnt mean to upset you...try to have a better day and ignore me LOL

mamacat2007 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 67	Thu 06/05/08 08:12 AM
We all have our own set of rules and standards of operations in here. JMHO opinion that IMHO is a priceless tool for avoiding just this kind of response. Ok now IM ignorant what is JMHO and IMHO???

CleanBathroom Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5544	Thu 06/05/08 08:15 AM
Just My Humble Opinion (JMHO) and In My Humble Opinion (IMHO)

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Thu 06/05/08 08:15 AM
JMHO just my honest (sometimes humble) opinion IMHO in my honest (or humble) opinion.. depends on the poster.. generaly H=honest

CleanBathroom Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5544	Thu 06/05/08 08:16 AM Edited by CleanBathroom on Thu 06/05/08 08:16 AM
JMHO just my honest (sometimes humble) opinion IMHO in my honest (or humble) opinion.. depends on the poster.. generaly H=honest Right on cue Izzie.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 06/05/08 08:17 AM
I've had that happen to me many times, I think it's just a normal part of dating. It sucks I agree. The problem is that people say that they want to hear the truth, but really most times they don't. So you go out on a date with someone and he or she gives you the typical "yea I had fun we'll do it again sometime" but really they don't plan on it. Maybe they don't want to be rude. Maybe the last time they were truthful they got snapped on and yelled at. (happened to me) I just don't think people should get so mad if someone doesn't want to go out with you again after only 1 or 2 dates. Or MAYBE you were just a bad date... JMO I agree no one should get ticked off if someone doesnt want to see you again..thats why i mentioned being honest about it..you said you went through it..wouldnt you have liked the person to follow some of the advice i give here? I'm just pointing out that there are many reasons that people don't always tell the truth. The way I see it is if someone doesn't call me back or isn't truthful to me, it's their loss and he isn't for me. Time to move on

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Thu 06/05/08 08:19 AM
JMHO just my honest (sometimes humble) opinion IMHO in my honest (or humble) opinion.. depends on the poster.. generaly H=honest Right on cue Izzie. the offical JSH transelator is here!!!!

CleanBathroom Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5544	Thu 06/05/08 08:19 AM
I've had that happen to me many times, I think it's just a normal part of dating. It sucks I agree. The problem is that people say that they want to hear the truth, but really most times they don't. So you go out on a date with someone and he or she gives you the typical "yea I had fun we'll do it again sometime" but really they don't plan on it. Maybe they don't want to be rude. Maybe the last time they were truthful they got snapped on and yelled at. (happened to me) I just don't think people should get so mad if someone doesn't want to go out with you again after only 1 or 2 dates. Or MAYBE you were just a bad date... JMO I agree no one should get ticked off if someone doesnt want to see you again..thats why i mentioned being honest about it..you said you went through it..wouldnt you have liked the person to follow some of the advice i give here? I'm just pointing out that there are many reasons that people don't always tell the truth. The way I see it is if someone doesn't call me back or isn't truthful to me, it's their loss and he isn't for me. Time to move on You deserve the good sh"t girl. You know, the stuff they have to go out back to retrieve because it's not kept in the case up front. GET 'EM JILLY!!

mamacat2007 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 67	Thu 06/05/08 08:19 AM
I've had that happen to me many times, I think it's just a normal part of dating. It sucks I agree. The problem is that people say that they want to hear the truth, but really most times they don't. So you go out on a date with someone and he or she gives you the typical "yea I had fun we'll do it again sometime" but really they don't plan on it. Maybe they don't want to be rude. Maybe the last time they were truthful they got snapped on and yelled at. (happened to me) I just don't think people should get so mad if someone doesn't want to go out with you again after only 1 or 2 dates. Or MAYBE you were just a bad date... JMO I agree no one should get ticked off if someone doesnt want to see you again..thats why i mentioned being honest about it..you said you went through it..wouldnt you have liked the person to follow some of the advice i give here? I'm just pointing out that there are many reasons that people don't always tell the truth. The way I see it is if someone doesn't call me back or isn't truthful to me, it's their loss and he isn't for me. Time to move on true maybe my soap box is a little to high for this world but wouldnt it be better to NOT have to go through it at all?? It wouldnt kill any of us to have what shouldnt be higher standards but just normall standards of honesty..guess its to much to sak of some people ...Not you dear poster lady who replyed to the subject

mamacat2007 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 67	Thu 06/05/08 08:21 AM
JMHO just my honest (sometimes humble) opinion IMHO in my honest (or humble) opinion.. depends on the poster.. generaly H=honest Right on cue Izzie. the offical JSH transelator is here!!!! Thank you for the advice I will remeber that if I ever even dream of getting on my soap box again

CleanBathroom Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5544	Thu 06/05/08 08:21 AM
JMHO just my honest (sometimes humble) opinion IMHO in my honest (or humble) opinion.. depends on the poster.. generaly H=honest Right on cue Izzie. the offical JSH transelator is here!!!! Can you convert/translate emoticons to Mandarin 'cuz I'm going to start posting in China?

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Thu 06/05/08 08:22 AM
JMHO just my honest (sometimes humble) opinion IMHO in my honest (or humble) opinion.. depends on the poster.. generaly H=honest Right on cue Izzie. the offical JSH transelator is here!!!! Can you convert/translate emoticons to Mandarin 'cuz I'm going to start posting in China? sure why not!!

CleanBathroom Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5544	Thu 06/05/08 08:23 AM
JMHO just my honest (sometimes humble) opinion IMHO in my honest (or humble) opinion.. depends on the poster.. generaly H=honest Right on cue Izzie. the offical JSH transelator is here!!!! Thank you for the advice I will remeber that if I ever even dream of getting on my soap box again Bringing up the issues is cool as long as we can keep it civil. All's well that ends well and productively. You're alright by me.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 06/05/08 08:23 AM
I've had that happen to me many times, I think it's just a normal part of dating. It sucks I agree. The problem is that people say that they want to hear the truth, but really most times they don't. So you go out on a date with someone and he or she gives you the typical "yea I had fun we'll do it again sometime" but really they don't plan on it. Maybe they don't want to be rude. Maybe the last time they were truthful they got snapped on and yelled at. (happened to me) I just don't think people should get so mad if someone doesn't want to go out with you again after only 1 or 2 dates. Or MAYBE you were just a bad date... JMO I agree no one should get ticked off if someone doesnt want to see you again..thats why i mentioned being honest about it..you said you went through it..wouldnt you have liked the person to follow some of the advice i give here? I'm just pointing out that there are many reasons that people don't always tell the truth. The way I see it is if someone doesn't call me back or isn't truthful to me, it's their loss and he isn't for me. Time to move on true maybe my soap box is a little to high for this world but wouldnt it be better to NOT have to go through it at all?? It wouldnt kill any of us to have what shouldnt be higher standards but just normall standards of honesty..guess its to much to sak of some people ...Not you dear poster lady who replyed to the subject in a perfect world yes

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Thu 06/05/08 08:24 AM Edited by No1sLove on Thu 06/05/08 08:25 AM
We all have our own set of rules and standards of operations in here. JMHO opinion that IMHO is a priceless tool for avoiding just this kind of response. Ok now IM ignorant what is JMHO and IMHO??? It's Just My Humble Opinion and In My Humble Opinion. Makes a clear statement that you're not trying to inflict your beliefs onto others, but just sharing your own views on a subject. Invaluable here really, unless you specifically want a debate. Fast draw there Izzy and CB...didn't read you first loves.

CleanBathroom Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5544	Thu 06/05/08 08:25 AM
UMMMMMMMM... No1s???? AHEM New Thread??!!

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 06/05/08 08:25 AM
If someone isn't truthful with me, and just wants to run and hide without a word I just consider him to be a coward. I don't want to date any cowards so I let them go and hide until they can become big boys