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JMHO just my honest (sometimes humble) opinion IMHO in my honest (or humble) opinion.. depends on the poster.. generaly H=honest Right on cue Izzie. Thank you for the advice I will remeber that if I ever even dream of getting on my soap box again |
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JMHO just my honest (sometimes humble) opinion IMHO in my honest (or humble) opinion.. depends on the poster.. generaly H=honest Right on cue Izzie. Thank you for the advice I will remeber that if I ever even dream of getting on my soap box again Bringing up the issues is cool as long as we can keep it civil. All's well that ends well and productively. You're alright by me. Thanks for the flower HOLY COW I had no idea some people would read so much into it and forget that this IS a forum for expressing opinions an you know what they say about opinions every one has one ... My main intent was to MAYBE hopefully save another female or male, the heartache of people doing things that no one should do..forgive me for I have sinned IF I hadnt seen others comment on bad situations like this or if i wasnt willing to follow it myself I would NEVER have posted...I guess many just like to bury there head in the sand and HOPE the world gets to be a better place or the next guy is honest with them excetra.. |
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UMMMMMMMM... No1s???? AHEM New Thread??!! |
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JMHO just my honest (sometimes humble) opinion IMHO in my honest (or humble) opinion.. depends on the poster.. generaly H=honest Right on cue Izzie. Thank you for the advice I will remeber that if I ever even dream of getting on my soap box again Got to love a sense of humor |
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First peice of advice would be to realize we are NOT you,we dont know you,your quirks,what sets you off and so on..Geez just tell us so we DO know . 2nd ,if you were recently out of any kind of relationship YOU DONT BELONG HERE..get yourself together and deal with the issues BEFORE trying dating again Most of us out here have already dealt with the situation that caused us to be single and really dont want to hear again and again about how much of a B**** your ex is,how she screwed you over excetra..Sharing is one thing, complaining is another..deal with it an move on..honesty..if you say you like us and want to see us again..make SURE you mean it and follow through..there are wonderfull inventions called,telephones,Instant messaging (often can be found free in places )text message,tell a friedn what ever so you can let the other person know your not available like you thought you would be.. NEVER just dissappear after saying you like and want to see someone again These things used to be called COMMON COURTSEY , COMMON SENSE and HONESTY I am learning those values dont exsist very much now a days Seriously people, if you wouldnt want someone to any given thing to you,lie to you,disrespect you excetra then treat others the same way HOW CAN YOU DECIDE HOW LONG A PERSON NEEDS TO GET THEMSELVES TOGETHER Sounds like you need to step back and look at your own life. |
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Good piece of advice, but it can be flipped 180 and pointed right back at ya. Just my two cents. I was going to write something but it's already done been said. No need to tell her twice. |
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First peice of advice would be to realize we are NOT you,we dont know you,your quirks,what sets you off and so on..Geez just tell us so we DO know . 2nd ,if you were recently out of any kind of relationship YOU DONT BELONG HERE..get yourself together and deal with the issues BEFORE trying dating again Most of us out here have already dealt with the situation that caused us to be single and really dont want to hear again and again about how much of a B**** your ex is,how she screwed you over excetra..Sharing is one thing, complaining is another..deal with it an move on..honesty..if you say you like us and want to see us again..make SURE you mean it and follow through..there are wonderfull inventions called,telephones,Instant messaging (often can be found free in places )text message,tell a friedn what ever so you can let the other person know your not available like you thought you would be.. NEVER just dissappear after saying you like and want to see someone again These things used to be called COMMON COURTSEY , COMMON SENSE and HONESTY I am learning those values dont exsist very much now a days Seriously people, if you wouldnt want someone to any given thing to you,lie to you,disrespect you excetra then treat others the same way HOW CAN YOU DECIDE HOW LONG A PERSON NEEDS TO GET THEMSELVES TOGETHER Sounds like you need to step back and look at your own life. WHERE did I say that there was ANY time frame involved???reading into it something that was NOT said.... again |
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I agree!!! All people should be over their ex and the feelings before they try and get into a new relationship.
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I agree!!! All people should be over their ex and the feelings before they try and get into a new relationship. MY GOD someone gets it!!!!! I think Im in love |
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Im sometimes smarter than a 5th grader!!!
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Im sometimes smarter than a 5th grader!!! I watch the show an dont know if I could win...glad you can though..invite me to coffe with the winnings *hug* |
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you do have to get in line for the marriage proposals though!!!
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you do have to get in line for the marriage proposals though!!! Shucks thats always my luck |
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Edited by
BlueskyJ
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Thu 06/05/08 10:11 AM
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I agree with everything you say as long as you realize this works both ways as i've experienced these things from women more times than i care too....and recently too...
First peice of advice would be to realize we are NOT you,we dont know you,your quirks,what sets you off and so on..Geez just tell us so we DO know . 2nd ,if you were recently out of any kind of relationship YOU DONT BELONG HERE..get yourself together and deal with the issues BEFORE trying dating again Most of us out here have already dealt with the situation that caused us to be single and really dont want to hear again and again about how much of a B**** your ex is,how she screwed you over excetra..Sharing is one thing, complaining is another..deal with it an move on..honesty..if you say you like us and want to see us again..make SURE you mean it and follow through..there are wonderfull inventions called,telephones,Instant messaging (often can be found free in places )text message,tell a friedn what ever so you can let the other person know your not available like you thought you would be.. NEVER just dissappear after saying you like and want to see someone again These things used to be called COMMON COURTSEY , COMMON SENSE and HONESTY I am learning those values dont exsist very much now a days Seriously people, if you wouldnt want someone to any given thing to you,lie to you,disrespect you excetra then treat others the same way |
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we're on the do-not-call list!!
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