First peice of advice would be to realize we are NOT you,we dont know you,your quirks,what sets you off and so on..Geez just tell us so we DO know . 2nd ,if you were recently out of any kind of relationship YOU DONT BELONG HERE..get yourself together and deal with the issues BEFORE trying dating again Most of us out here have already dealt with the situation that caused us to be single and really dont want to hear again and again about how much of a B**** your ex is,how she screwed you over excetra..Sharing is one thing, complaining is another..deal with it an move on..honesty..if you say you like us and want to see us again..make SURE you mean it and follow through..there are wonderfull inventions called,telephones,Instant messaging (often can be found free in places )text message,tell a friedn what ever so you can let the other person know your not available like you thought you would be.. NEVER just dissappear after saying you like and want to see someone again These things used to be called COMMON COURTSEY , COMMON SENSE and HONESTY I am learning those values dont exsist very much now a days
Seriously people, if you wouldnt want someone to any given thing to you,lie to you,disrespect you excetra then treat others the same way

Good piece of advice, but it can be flipped 180 and pointed right back at ya. Just my two cents.

i will add to his few cents......that will give you a nickle.......put it towards a good shrink!

you sound like the friendly non-judging type...My only piece of advice is to say...who are you to tell anyone what THEY are supposed to do? Common courtesies yes...but honestly if you came at me the the attitude you are portraying here anywhere in the real world...i'd run as fast as i can. that's just me though. Good luck.

Good morning sunshine!!!

Yes, this isn't just for men. It happens with both genders.

S ound's like SHE had a bad expierence! Maybe it's her attitude?

EEEKKKKK...yet another list of things you can't do...no glamor shots, no big words, etc, etc,...see post...http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/127643

and now if someone is recently single you aren't allowed here...

there are just too many new rules..

If I didnt follow my own advice I wouldnt put it out here.
This isa forum to express ideas ,opinions an thoughts..that doesnt mean I would give anyone the lecture.One person said they would run the other way..i guess that person wants to or doesnt mind being lied to..good Lord..it was generall advice for all (though obviously i have dealt with only men out here )
to be open and honest,to examine yourself to make sure your ready for a relationship before going into one...I have met to many out here who are still hung up on what there exs did/still do,i saw a post from another person sying the same thing i wrote here so I know its not justa me thing. the person met someone and they seemed to get a long,the other person said they wanted to meet again and then disapeared off the face of the earth

What defines a big word? Gotta know so I can start chopping up my dictionary and burn the bad parts!

I think a big word is anything over 5 letters.

LOL I didnt say that just because your newly single you shouldnt be out here if you READ the WHOLE THING in context it says to make sure your ready for a new relationship first,get over your last BEFORE trying to move on

I did read it darlin....just talking about the spirit/intention of your whole post.

unsolicited advice



Ummmm ... Thanks......

(where is the sarcastic emoticon???)

Unsolicited...big word! Not allowed!

you follow yours.....we will follow ours.....its better that way. everyone has to learn from "their" own mistakes.....its called life!

I am not the only one who has had these experiences that is why I felt it ok to express an OPINION and give GENERALL advice that should apply to any relationship, honesty n common courtsey

incomprehensible

Um Ok then if you read it,how did you get that it was meant in any negative way???