Damm Dane I hope I didn't come off sounding like THAT was what I
was wanting of them,,,lol
I want ALL couples to TRY THEIR DAMM-DEST to work out their problems
when they have children ,,,,,
I have witnessed the full growth of kids from broken homes and I HATE
IT.......AND IT'S ALMOST ALWAYS BECAUSE MOM AND DAD don't give a ****
enough about STAYING together as to just LEAVING and splitting up, and
so what, the kids will be fine,,,,
YEAH, THE KIDS GROW OK, BUT THEY ARE CHANGED FOR LIFE BY THE PARENTS ACT
OF DIVORCE!!! SORRY, ---not trying to fix ones self and marrage is a
problem in and with LIFE that bothers me GREATLY..

Awwww ya sweet Dane

But Catch is so right try to really work it out. My ex was into the
screaming and the verbal abuse along with the cheating so no there was
no working it out in my book that is one you do to me there is no
forgiving but that is just me anything else as long as there is no abuse
can be worked out if both really try to make it work but it does take
two to do it one can not do it by them selves. And if the other one is
not willing to work it out then you have to make that choice to move on.
I'm a single parent with 2 kids I raised on my own for 15 yrs and both
are very stable and are doing very well for themselves at the moment. As
far as raising kids in a single parent home I disagree that they don't
always turn out for the best my kids got more attention with just me
then they did when I was married instead of agueing with there dad I
spent my free time with them instead so it can be done and sometimes the
kids are better off.

Ok! I just read thru the whole thread..

It would be a good idea Veronica if you made piece with yourself first.
you came on this site looking for a gurl friend to hang out with.
because your bored at home, so when he gets home from working 50 hrs.
you want him to entertan you.
Now that you've found out your son has special needs make it a
mission to find out everything you can on it & what you can do to help
him develope to his full potental..
contact every resorce in your area & see where you can go to learn.
there will be groups in the area of other moms there is your friends
... If you haven't a job or the schooling to suport yourself you
should really think about that before you do anything..