thank you for stiking up for me ladies.....ladies always know what I
mean,and a few nice guys too

Well,what if you got divorced and found someone new and the new person
was all clingy and followed you around like a puppy all the time. Then
add to that some uncomfortable measure of unhealthy jealousy, pretty
soon you have a new disaster on the way. On the other hand, some extra
time for your own interests, as you go through the years might be a nice
thing to have. His obvious comfort with your relationship could work to
your advantage as time goes on. If the biggest complaint you have is he
likes the computer too much, that might not be too bad.

well...his interest in the computershould not overshadow his
interest....not only in just me,but his kids too.....me and the kids are
a package deal,and you gotta be there for both

I don't think it is the computer is what you have a problem with Hon. It
is the person sitting in front of it.

Is an inanimate object more important than a persons wife? I don't think
so.

Maybe in some cases!

I've always wanted a close knit family,who would do anything
together,and I know we don't always get what we want,...Im certainly
willing to compromise alot,....but when is enough

Did he know how to express his feelins to ya before yall got married?

slick ...why you gotta be so cynical.Was your wife that much of a *****?

Speaking of which, I have family coming over, so as much as I would love
to flame some ppl, I have more inportant things to do woth my life.....

Veronica, you have a good evening and keep up the good work you are
already doing.

Hugs,

Fire

well red,he was certainly more willing to compromise.....he wasn't such
a homebody

I don't know mabye I should wake up and smell the coffee

Smell something!

Has there been any broken promises? No matter big or little? By either
of ya? Somethin has happened, and after the brain detects deceit it is
hard to tune it out. I honestly don't know what to say. Does he have any
dudes he hangs out with?

I just wish I could find a way other than divorce....but then,sometimes
it is how it is

I,m sorry if I was rude Veronica!

Divorce is more expensive than you think. Everyone looses. Better to be
a little bored and then savor the good times as they come along.

actually red .....he doesn't even hang out with anyone,guess it takes
time away from what he'd rather be doing,.....the funny thing is.....we
havn't had internet service that long,.....only 2 months

thank you slick.....I just want you to know that ...if anything ....Im
not a clingon

Divorce shouldn't be an option, honestly. Both of yall took those vows,
both of yall need to respect them. Slap him in the back of his head and
unplug his computer and TELL him yall are goin out. Tell him that ya
married him, not the TV, not the computer, but you. Tell him you're
thinkin of leavin and see what he says. Just tell your friends in case
he goes skitzo on ya. If ya hit him with brutal honesty, you'll get it
back.

everything has just been so difficult because I am a stay at home
mom,and my eldest has autism,and my husband is never there,....I just
want someone who comes home at the end of the day,and let's me know he
is there for me.