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Topic: WIDOWS AND WIDOWERS
auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sat 05/31/08 10:03 AM
Amber, Haven't been up long myself. I have about a 1000 irons in the fire today and not sure where to start. lol I hate it when I do that. Need to finish one room before moving to the next.

Sharris Joined Sun 12/10/06 Posts: 7300	Sat 05/31/08 10:05 AM
I want to write, it would be so horrible and full of pain. I tend to veer from that. A lament..a sceaming lament.full of tears..and what good does it do to chaange the way life is right now? my energy is already spent for that..it is not in my budget.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sat 05/31/08 10:06 AM
You made a good point, Sadie. But, I will say this. It might not do anything to actually "change" the situation, but it often does help to get things sorted out of your head; to get it out either thru a good cry or writing. I wrote for many years after my husband died. I think it helped me.

peachiegirl28 Joined Sun 09/16/07 Posts: 19292	Sat 05/31/08 10:07 AM
group hug ((((((((((((((((((((((())))))))))))))))))))))))

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sat 05/31/08 10:08 AM
Group hug {{{{{{{{{{}}}}}}}}}}}

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Sat 05/31/08 10:12 AM
Sadie, force yourself to write. Just might be what you need to get a focus on the pain. I do it on occassion.

knightless Joined Sat 04/14/07 Posts: 402	Sat 05/31/08 10:43 AM
morning Amber , Sadie I'm getting things done around the house this morning, we have "another" inspection Tuesday. Got my living room dusted, all my can tabs put into jugs, sheets in the wash, and fixing to tackle dusting the bedroom...so many things I need to get done.lol Sadie, I'm so sorry about your dreams, I know it can sure make you feel lost.

Sharris Joined Sun 12/10/06 Posts: 7300	Sat 05/31/08 10:47 AM
Thanks, It was mainly, the blood, calling out , seeing him unable to articulate, seeing my Mary go through similar..so unable to do do anything...Realizing the screams are from you and no one hears..no one..

peachiegirl28 Joined Sun 09/16/07 Posts: 19292	Sat 05/31/08 10:47 AM
good morning knight

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sat 05/31/08 10:48 AM
Good morning Carolyn Do you work for hire? and What time will you be here??

knightless Joined Sat 04/14/07 Posts: 402	Sat 05/31/08 10:57 AM
lol...hey, I'm seriously thinking about doing that for real. It wouldn't be as hard as another full time job or as many hours. But I can't do a 2nd job until I move from here because it would go against my rent. But I always work 2 jobs when I need something, or would like to buy something. I haven't been able to the past 5 yrs., because my mind or my body wouldn't have been able to handle the stress..but I'm stronger now..so gotta get back to doing what I want.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sat 05/31/08 11:02 AM
That is great Carolyn! Proud to know ya!

peachiegirl28 Joined Sun 09/16/07 Posts: 19292	Sat 05/31/08 11:06 AM
positivity will do wonders for you my friend

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Sat 05/31/08 11:09 AM
Hello everyone Hurray finally got the internet and my phone working. now I can talk to all of you again without getting cut off ...I hope. Sadie I,m sorry you had such a bad night . Don I know you like pretty young arm candy well I make a good Rollaid Have a good day everyone

peachiegirl28 Joined Sun 09/16/07 Posts: 19292	Sat 05/31/08 11:13 AM
betty youre a hoot...have a wonderful day sweetie

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sat 05/31/08 11:16 AM
BETTY'S BACK!!!!!

knightless Joined Sat 04/14/07 Posts: 402	Sat 05/31/08 11:28 AM
Hi Betty Hope your here to stay with no more problems. Thanks everyone for being kind.

peachiegirl28 Joined Sun 09/16/07 Posts: 19292	Sat 05/31/08 11:29 AM


auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sat 05/31/08 11:29 AM
{{{{Carolyn}}}}} Ok I'm out for a while, y'all have a good afternoon and I'll see you tonight.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Sat 05/31/08 11:32 AM
betty youre a hoot...have a wonderful day sweetie Thank you ..how are you ? any more flirting going on Did I miss anything?