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Topic: i dont get it
wickedlluccy's photo
Sun 04/06/08 10:49 AM

why are men still expected to make the first move
to say the first hello
to ask for the first date
to go in for the first kiss
arent they? it seems to me they are



....dude you want me to forward you all the emails where I stepped up and the guy didn't even have the nads to say hello back......give me a break...like you dont ignore the attempts women make that you R "not" interested in.....noway noway noway I do not have my hipster boots on....gettin to deep for my regular boots.....


:heart:~wicked~:heart:

hikerchick's photo
Sun 04/06/08 10:58 AM

why are men still expected to make the first move
to say the first hello
to ask for the first date
to go in for the first kiss
arent they? it seems to me they are


cuz you blocked my e-mails!!!

hikerchick's photo
Sun 04/06/08 11:01 AM




When a girl makes the first move she loses a lot. Girls like to be "chased" or whatever you want to call it. If a guy can't make the first move then he is pretty much a ***** and thats so not attractive.


but it's alright for the guy to lose alot by pretty much being forced to do all the work?


if you are a real man then you shouldnt be afriad to make the first move


I'll buy that. If you're really inspired by somebody, you should pursue with everything that you are.

Some just don't want to be confused with the large number of guys that pursue almost every woman that they see. That could be why some guys are hesitant.


that explains why no one ever contacts me! Thanks! flowerforyou

hikerchick's photo
Sun 04/06/08 11:02 AM


yanno........you think too much!!!! 5 pages and you havent got it yet???? noway

i'll never get it
mmaybe some woman will sweep me off my feet someday
i over think everything im neurotic that way


I'll do it.Let me get my broom!

hikerchick's photo
Sun 04/06/08 11:03 AM


you just tell the way i look at a guy iif i like him


or the arm touch, or the laughing at his dumb jokes that aren't funny. or the intent way you listen when he talks... ya most guys don't get that....


but all of that stuff is rather difficult to intuit on here, don't you think?

OneOfAKind4U's photo
Sun 04/06/08 11:04 AM
if you dont understand it you never willlaugh womem just women get use to itdrinker

longhairbiker's photo
Sun 04/06/08 11:14 AM
I'm aggressive with my harley racebikes. I'm gentle with women because you don't want them to explode. Parts fly everywhere. Extreme internal damage.

itsmetina's photo
Sun 04/06/08 11:16 AM
i'm not getting it eitherlaugh

smuflicker's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:08 PM

personally, I'd LOVE to not have to make the first move for once. I'd love for guys to get some of the balls they used to have and quit whining. I never see any guys do any work for me. so :tongue:
some men are just tired of trying and being turned down,so we just don't try any more. I can be very agresive but when your always turned down then why try anymore. I would just rather the woman come to me.

smuflicker's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:13 PM
If a woman looks at me or just glances at me with some kind of interest or smile then i may aprotch her. But anymore i'm not going to put a lot of energy into it. some of you my understand and some may not,anyway...........

solestria's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:15 PM

When a girl makes the first move she loses a lot. Girls like to be "chased" or whatever you want to call it. If a guy can't make the first move then he is pretty much a ***** and thats so not attractive.


There's a difference between "can't make the first move" and a girl knowing what she wants and going for it. Personally, I DON'T want to be chased. If I said no, I meant no, and anyone who continues to pursue me at that point is clearly a creep.

smuflicker's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:20 PM
I'll talk to a girl for one minute if no spark i quit

Guyonline123's photo
Sun 04/06/08 02:11 PM

There's a difference between "can't make the first move" and a girl knowing what she wants and going for it. Personally, I DON'T want to be chased. If I said no, I meant no, and anyone who continues to pursue me at that point is clearly a creep.


A lot of guys know this and do not want to be considered creepy, or a stalker, because there are a lot of girls who would not give some of us the time a day(Not saying anyone on here). So because of this they tend to either, talk to the girl and even if there is interest they believe there is not so nothing happens, or they automatically assume there is no interest.

solestria's photo
Sun 04/06/08 03:37 PM


There's a difference between "can't make the first move" and a girl knowing what she wants and going for it. Personally, I DON'T want to be chased. If I said no, I meant no, and anyone who continues to pursue me at that point is clearly a creep.


A lot of guys know this and do not want to be considered creepy, or a stalker, because there are a lot of girls who would not give some of us the time a day(Not saying anyone on here). So because of this they tend to either, talk to the girl and even if there is interest they believe there is not so nothing happens, or they automatically assume there is no interest.


Asking once isn't creepy--it's direct and to the point, and then you can both move forward in whatever direction you'd like. Not asking at all is likely to lead to a lot fewer apportunities and disappointment all around.

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