Topic: i dont get it
itsmetina's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:06 AM
ok heres my last words for tonight while laying in your bed all alone i want you to think about what it would be like to have my warm sweet smelling body next to youlaugh

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Sun 04/06/08 12:06 AM

why are men still expected to make the first move
to say the first hello
to ask for the first date
to go in for the first kiss
arent they? it seems to me they are


nahhh i have sent the first email many times. even went in for the first kiss..

although it seems that some guys dont like it when a woman makes the first move, On one site i sent a guy an email didn't get any response and than about a month later he sends me an email as if nothing ever happened. I know he read my email that I sent cause the site showed when it was read.

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Sun 04/06/08 12:07 AM
guys make it way more obvious that they are interested in a girl
if the girl is interested too she shouldnt wait for him not these days

itsmetina's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:07 AM
well he got screwed thenlaugh

azrae1l's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:07 AM
i have absolutely no problem going up to any girl and and hitting on them. sometimes i do if they strike my interest enough, but if a girl is interested in me i fully expect her to at least be able to come up and say hi, how are, fine weather we're having not just sit there and wait and wait and wait.

itsmetina's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:09 AM
this is so worth our time why not just ask skip the bs

Monier's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:10 AM

ok heres my last words for tonight while laying in your bed all alone i want you to think about what it would be like to have my warm sweet smelling body next to youlaugh


Devious

Lily0923's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:11 AM

guys make it way more obvious that they are interested in a girl
if the girl is interested too she shouldnt wait for him not these days


I wouldn't call it waiting so much as wanting the quality guy who is willing to take it upon himself to make the first move.

itsmetina's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:11 AM
laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 04/06/08 12:11 AM

ok heres my last words for tonight while laying in your bed all alone i want you to think about what it would be like to have my warm sweet smelling body next to youlaugh
:angry: grumble GREAT,,,now I know I can't sleep. lol

itsmetina's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:11 AM
yeah and flowers be nice 2

azrae1l's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:12 AM


guys make it way more obvious that they are interested in a girl
if the girl is interested too she shouldnt wait for him not these days


I wouldn't call it waiting so much as wanting the quality guy who is willing to take it upon himself to make the first move.


so whats wrong with us wanting the same thing?

Winx's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:12 AM
Ladies like a man with some character and some class.

This includes courting us. Not us going after them.


itsmetina's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:13 AM
are you talking about in person or online

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Sun 04/06/08 12:13 AM


guys make it way more obvious that they are interested in a girl
if the girl is interested too she shouldnt wait for him not these days


I wouldn't call it waiting so much as wanting the quality guy who is willing to take it upon himself to make the first move.

i can understand wanting the guy to make the first move
i want the girl to
but i don't know that the guy thats willing to make the first move is of any higher quality he might just want to get laid more

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:13 AM
If I tell a guy I'm very attracted to him in every way and he doesn't make a move to come see me, well he's assed out, isn't he. I made the first move, he should oblige. Guys who don't just SUCK!

Lily0923's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:14 AM



guys make it way more obvious that they are interested in a girl
if the girl is interested too she shouldnt wait for him not these days


I wouldn't call it waiting so much as wanting the quality guy who is willing to take it upon himself to make the first move.


so whats wrong with us wanting the same thing?


There is nothing wrong with it.... But for me.... I just don't do it....95% of the time.

Winx's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:14 AM

are you talking about in person or online


If you are talking to me - both.

itsmetina's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:15 AM
agreed lily

itsmetina's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:16 AM
because in person if you can't tell i like u then u r just senseless