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When a girl makes the first move she loses a lot. Girls like to be "chased" or whatever you want to call it. If a guy can't make the first move then he is pretty much a ***** and thats so not attractive. but it's alright for the guy to lose alot by pretty much being forced to do all the work? Even if we fail, we still get experience. We still learn what works and what doesn't |
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actually, i get mauled. I'll just be sitting there at like a party, next thing I know, a girl's in my lap. Most of the time they are bufforilla's and scare me, but sometimes, sometimes I can run really fast.
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Edited by
UniqueBlonde
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Sat 04/05/08 11:58 PM
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When a girl makes the first move she loses a lot. Girls like to be "chased" or whatever you want to call it. If a guy can't make the first move then he is pretty much a ***** and thats so not attractive. but it's alright for the guy to lose alot by pretty much being forced to do all the work? if you are a real man then you shouldnt be afriad to make the first move |
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personally, I'd LOVE to not have to make the first move for once. I'd love for guys to get some of the balls they used to have and quit whining. I never see any guys do any work for me. so
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I am very agressive...When I want someone I go get him and if I want a kiss I come in for one and if I want...Well you know I go get that too...Any questions??
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why are men still expected to make the first move to say the first hello to ask for the first date to go in for the first kiss arent they? it seems to me they are because while you are getting ready to make the first move we are: getting our hair done getting our nails done buying a new outfit changing it 5 times doing our makeup that all takes alot of time and energy... you guys have to do something don't you? |
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who cares what works and what doesn't, it's all a double standard.
guys are b!tches for not doing it girls won't do it, but thats just peachy i've been convinced no woman is worth my time, if they want me to look at them seriously and not like some lying cheating stealing b!tch then they need to have the guts to prove it, not wait for me to do all the work for them so they can feel special.... |
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Basically it has become tradition for the guy to ask the girl out, and subconsciously expect it to be this way, though there are the exceptions of cowardly people, etc.
Basically, it isn't consider "Lady Like" for her to make the first move by traditional standards, and a male, loses his sense of pride, by not asking the girl out. This is my speculation on why things are the way they are though. <<< Opinion. |
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When a girl makes the first move she loses a lot. Girls like to be "chased" or whatever you want to call it. If a guy can't make the first move then he is pretty much a ***** and thats so not attractive. but it's alright for the guy to lose alot by pretty much being forced to do all the work? if you are a real man then you shouldnt be afriad to make the first move and if your a real woman you don't need to sit around and wait for the guy to do everything as an excuse for being scared..... |
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i dont get it
Yea,,,,Me Niether..................lol |
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who cares what works and what doesn't, it's all a double standard. guys are b!tches for not doing it girls won't do it, but thats just peachy i've been convinced no woman is worth my time, if they want me to look at them seriously and not like some lying cheating stealing b!tch then they need to have the guts to prove it, not wait for me to do all the work for them so they can feel special.... |
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once i would have been expected to open the door pull up your seat
and you were expected to agree with me times change |
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who cares what works and what doesn't, it's all a double standard. guys are b!tches for not doing it girls won't do it, but thats just peachy i've been convinced no woman is worth my time, if they want me to look at them seriously and not like some lying cheating stealing b!tch then they need to have the guts to prove it, not wait for me to do all the work for them so they can feel special.... **sigh** a true romantic.... how do I love thee, let me count the ways..... |
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who cares what works and what doesn't, it's all a double standard. guys are b!tches for not doing it girls won't do it, but thats just peachy i've been convinced no woman is worth my time, if they want me to look at them seriously and not like some lying cheating stealing b!tch then they need to have the guts to prove it, not wait for me to do all the work for them so they can feel special.... actually works pretty well. all the women who speak to me i actually know are interested in me not in what i'm going to do for them trying to get their attention. |
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i admit it im a coward when it comes to talking to other people period
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why are men still expected to make the first move to say the first hello to ask for the first date to go in for the first kiss arent they? it seems to me they are because while you are getting ready to make the first move we are: getting our hair done getting our nails done buying a new outfit changing it 5 times doing our makeup that all takes alot of time and energy... you guys have to do something don't you? lmao... so true.. |
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When a girl makes the first move she loses a lot. Girls like to be "chased" or whatever you want to call it. If a guy can't make the first move then he is pretty much a ***** and thats so not attractive. but it's alright for the guy to lose alot by pretty much being forced to do all the work? if you are a real man then you shouldnt be afriad to make the first move I'll buy that. If you're really inspired by somebody, you should pursue with everything that you are. Some just don't want to be confused with the large number of guys that pursue almost every woman that they see. That could be why some guys are hesitant. |
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When a girl makes the first move she loses a lot. Girls like to be "chased" or whatever you want to call it. If a guy can't make the first move then he is pretty much a ***** and thats so not attractive. but it's alright for the guy to lose alot by pretty much being forced to do all the work? if you are a real man then you shouldnt be afriad to make the first move and if your a real woman you don't need to sit around and wait for the guy to do everything as an excuse for being scared..... Every single person is looking for something different. Some guys want girls to make the first move, some girls are fine with making the first move. I am looking for someone to come to me and show interest in me. I make my opnion heard loud and clear, but I will not approach men first..and so far I haven't had a problem with that. |
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I am very agressive...When I want someone I go get him and if I want a kiss I come in for one and if I want...Well you know I go get that too...Any questions?? That's awesome |
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