Topic: i dont get it
wzrunner's photo
Sat 04/05/08 11:57 PM


When a girl makes the first move she loses a lot. Girls like to be "chased" or whatever you want to call it. If a guy can't make the first move then he is pretty much a ***** and thats so not attractive.


but it's alright for the guy to lose alot by pretty much being forced to do all the work?

Even if we fail, we still get experience. We still learn what works and what doesn't

DrX's photo
Sat 04/05/08 11:57 PM
actually, i get mauled. I'll just be sitting there at like a party, next thing I know, a girl's in my lap. Most of the time they are bufforilla's and scare me, but sometimes, sometimes I can run really fast.

UniqueBlonde's photo
Sat 04/05/08 11:58 PM
Edited by UniqueBlonde on Sat 04/05/08 11:58 PM


When a girl makes the first move she loses a lot. Girls like to be "chased" or whatever you want to call it. If a guy can't make the first move then he is pretty much a ***** and thats so not attractive.


but it's alright for the guy to lose alot by pretty much being forced to do all the work?


if you are a real man then you shouldnt be afriad to make the first move

EtherealEmbers's photo
Sat 04/05/08 11:59 PM
personally, I'd LOVE to not have to make the first move for once. I'd love for guys to get some of the balls they used to have and quit whining. I never see any guys do any work for me. so :tongue:

jenleah32's photo
Sat 04/05/08 11:59 PM
I am very agressive...When I want someone I go get him and if I want a kiss I come in for one and if I want...Well you know I go get that too...Any questions??bigsmile

Lily0923's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:00 AM

why are men still expected to make the first move
to say the first hello
to ask for the first date
to go in for the first kiss
arent they? it seems to me they are


because while you are getting ready to make the first move we are:

getting our hair done
getting our nails done
buying a new outfit
changing it 5 times
doing our makeup

that all takes alot of time and energy... you guys have to do something don't you?

kidatheart70's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:00 AM
laugh

azrae1l's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:00 AM
who cares what works and what doesn't, it's all a double standard.

guys are b!tches for not doing it
girls won't do it, but thats just peachy

i've been convinced no woman is worth my time, if they want me to look at them seriously and not like some lying cheating stealing b!tch then they need to have the guts to prove it, not wait for me to do all the work for them so they can feel special....

Guyonline123's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:00 AM
Basically it has become tradition for the guy to ask the girl out, and subconsciously expect it to be this way, though there are the exceptions of cowardly people, etc.

Basically, it isn't consider "Lady Like" for her to make the first move by traditional standards, and a male, loses his sense of pride, by not asking the girl out. This is my speculation on why things are the way they are though. <<< Opinion.

azrae1l's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:01 AM



When a girl makes the first move she loses a lot. Girls like to be "chased" or whatever you want to call it. If a guy can't make the first move then he is pretty much a ***** and thats so not attractive.


but it's alright for the guy to lose alot by pretty much being forced to do all the work?


if you are a real man then you shouldnt be afriad to make the first move


and if your a real woman you don't need to sit around and wait for the guy to do everything as an excuse for being scared.....

no photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:01 AM
i dont get it


:angry: Yea,,,,Me Niether..................lol

itsmetina's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:02 AM

who cares what works and what doesn't, it's all a double standard.

guys are b!tches for not doing it
girls won't do it, but thats just peachy

i've been convinced no woman is worth my time, if they want me to look at them seriously and not like some lying cheating stealing b!tch then they need to have the guts to prove it, not wait for me to do all the work for them so they can feel special....
hows that workin for ya??????????

no photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:02 AM
once i would have been expected to open the door pull up your seat
and you were expected to agree with me
times change

Lily0923's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:02 AM

who cares what works and what doesn't, it's all a double standard.

guys are b!tches for not doing it
girls won't do it, but thats just peachy

i've been convinced no woman is worth my time, if they want me to look at them seriously and not like some lying cheating stealing b!tch then they need to have the guts to prove it, not wait for me to do all the work for them so they can feel special....


**sigh** a true romantic.... how do I love thee, let me count the ways.....laugh laugh laugh laugh

azrae1l's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:03 AM


who cares what works and what doesn't, it's all a double standard.

guys are b!tches for not doing it
girls won't do it, but thats just peachy

i've been convinced no woman is worth my time, if they want me to look at them seriously and not like some lying cheating stealing b!tch then they need to have the guts to prove it, not wait for me to do all the work for them so they can feel special....
hows that workin for ya??????????


actually works pretty well. all the women who speak to me i actually know are interested in me not in what i'm going to do for them trying to get their attention.

no photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:03 AM
i admit it im a coward when it comes to talking to other people period

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:04 AM


why are men still expected to make the first move
to say the first hello
to ask for the first date
to go in for the first kiss
arent they? it seems to me they are


because while you are getting ready to make the first move we are:

getting our hair done
getting our nails done
buying a new outfit
changing it 5 times
doing our makeup

that all takes alot of time and energy... you guys have to do something don't you?



lmao... laugh laugh laugh so true..

Monier's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:04 AM



When a girl makes the first move she loses a lot. Girls like to be "chased" or whatever you want to call it. If a guy can't make the first move then he is pretty much a ***** and thats so not attractive.


but it's alright for the guy to lose alot by pretty much being forced to do all the work?


if you are a real man then you shouldnt be afriad to make the first move


I'll buy that. If you're really inspired by somebody, you should pursue with everything that you are.

Some just don't want to be confused with the large number of guys that pursue almost every woman that they see. That could be why some guys are hesitant.

UniqueBlonde's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:04 AM




When a girl makes the first move she loses a lot. Girls like to be "chased" or whatever you want to call it. If a guy can't make the first move then he is pretty much a ***** and thats so not attractive.


but it's alright for the guy to lose alot by pretty much being forced to do all the work?


if you are a real man then you shouldnt be afriad to make the first move


and if your a real woman you don't need to sit around and wait for the guy to do everything as an excuse for being scared.....


Every single person is looking for something different. Some guys want girls to make the first move, some girls are fine with making the first move. I am looking for someone to come to me and show interest in me. I make my opnion heard loud and clear, but I will not approach men first..and so far I haven't had a problem with that.

Monier's photo
Sun 04/06/08 12:05 AM

I am very agressive...When I want someone I go get him and if I want a kiss I come in for one and if I want...Well you know I go get that too...Any questions??bigsmile


That's awesome