I believe there are more cons than pros to sex. Let me break down my view.

+Don't get me wrong!!:

-Sex is a beautiful thing when it's with someone that you are involved with.

-I rather enjoy it when I am doing it with the one I am with, not just any one off the street (no disrespect to anyone here )

-*HoWeVeR*-:

-I hate sex for the following reasons:

1. It can make or break a relationship in a lot of cases.
2. It is supposed to be involved with morals, not a random activity.
3. "If you lay a guy right the first time, you can walk all over them forever". Well, this is not always true. If you don't give it to him for a while, he will think you don't love him. That leads me to my next reason:
4. People think sex and love are interconnected. THEY'RE NOT!!!! You don't have to have sex to show that you love them, or even that you are interested in them. This is what a lot of people don't realize.
5. STD possibilities. Condoms don't always work because they can fall apart, and birth control will stop pregnancy (most of the time), but will not protect against an STD.

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This is what I believe, not what you have to believe. Sorry, I'm old fashioned, and if I can find a guy that has those same beliefs, it's a long shot from hell, I know, but it would be a miracle, and he would truely be my soulmate. :)

Exactly, I hear ya! :)

honestly .... just having sex never works either you get feelings for her or she gets feelings for you. and if that's all you're looking for i worry about you dearly. Not to mention be careful with just wanting sex because 1 in 7 have an std and not to mention aids, and what i would think is women with a high self esteem wouldn't just give their bodies away, my thing is if you don't want to date me or you don't want to get to know me for me then you're not gettin any I want a serious relationship ( well i have one) i'm not looking to waste time with some little pos who doesn't know what he wants besides to get laid, buy a fake vag and call it a night dude.

I like women who enjoy making love, but to do that you have to know em, not just a one nighter!

I think it's rather aragant to say that no one can just have sex. People have differnt views on sex. It's ok, and should be respected. Just because a girl or a guy wants to have sex without a comitment, doesn't mean they have low self esteem. To say that means sex defines your worth. I completely disagree with that. As far as the 1 in 7 chance, thats very misleading also. condoms eliminate alot of it, and the chance is about 1 in 23, if you take out things like herpies symplex 1 (a simple cold sore that goes away). I certinly am not known for sleeping around, reguardless i'm not so foolish as to think my views on sex are everyone elses.

I LOVE SEX, but people who only want to use you are not sexy. Sex is like ice cream, there are a lot of flavors. Why settle for vanilla (aka- one night stand) when you can have rocky road, strawberry or even make up your own flavor.

... does that mean we can find you there and hook up.. ;)

LOL. what kind of girl doesn't like sex.

you are trying to get these women to break woman rule # 13 "never admit to having sex, and if it is known, then make sure people know you did it for the man's pleasure"


simmer down bretheren. you know what they like. just keep spittin game

Well I LOVE sex! But that doesn't mean I screw everything that moves.Sex is great when you the person, and even better when you love them.

I love sex, and can be a bit of a freak...but I don't just do it with random men off the street. I find sex is very enjoyable when I know the person and know when its over I can still have respect for myself and them. And still know I can turn to them for things besides sex as well! I understand that many people don't have a problem with casual sex, and thats fine for them, but it ain't for me!

sex is good, but after the last couple of relationships that were based on sex I think. I am looking for long term, with lots of sex LOL

Seriously, I LOVE sex...but it has to be with the right person. I'm not one of those girls who has random hook-ups, although if you're into that, fine. It's just not me. I'd rather have a relationship before having sex because it's more meaningful that way =]

But yeah...sex is pretty awesome =D

haha, ditto!

wow your a freekin homo!

Oh, I was most definately a "mr.rightnow" girl until I met aaron.

There are girls like that, believe me, i know a lot of them.

i agree. i dont jst have sex randomly but i def have it ina relationship. and honestly i think its an important part of a relationship. if you cant be intimate with your partner then why get really involved.

Yes there are girls like that, but I think they pretend not to be that way, where as a guy will be more straight up.

As much as I love sex and as much as I wish I was getting it more often, I cannot do the friends with benefits/one-night stand thing. I won't knock anyone who likes it (have fun and accidentally reproduce), but I prefer being in a meaningful relationship (with lots of sex with it!).

i think both girls and guys these days are equal when it comes to wanting sex. just girls can control it better then guys can

you know, i lost my virginity to a guy i wasn't in a relationship with, and didn't care about, and it wasn't that great... i had sex with people i was in a pointless relationship with... still wasn't that great... then i met my fiance, and i had sex with someone who i truly love... and its AMAZING... the emotional aspect makes it a million times better... so i am glad that i found a Mr. Right... because sex with a Mr. Right Now just sucks...