Topic: She has 12 kids by 7 different fathers and also a grandmothe
Winx's photo
Wed 04/02/08 08:18 AM


Well, I just hate to see anybody putting anybody down.
People behind the monitors have feelings.


And if they get hurt from a typed statement on a public forum... maybe those people shouldn't be here.

There is a huge difference between refuting opinions and putting someone down. We are all subject to interpet things differently. As is our right. We can have opinions on others opinions. Your views that a poster is denegrating another is your opinion. It seems to me, the poster in question does not view it the same way. Of course, that is just my opinion. :wink:


This is not a poster denegrating another? Our opinions differ.


"appears you have a failure to read and comprehend as well as failure to think and understand: "


yellowrose10's photo
Wed 04/02/08 08:28 AM
winx...off topic...but I explained that i, myself, have bit my tongue. insults and attacks come in many shapes and sizes flowerforyou :wink:

Winx's photo
Wed 04/02/08 08:30 AM

winx...off topic...but I explained that i, myself, have bit my tongue. insults and attacks come in many shapes and sizes flowerforyou :wink:


flowerforyou

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 04/02/08 08:58 AM
Edited by yellowrose10 on Wed 04/02/08 09:05 AM
I fully support the states that provide training and help to better the lives of those on welfare. welfare, to me, is still to be used to HELP not SUPPORT if the person is capable of working

lilith401's photo
Wed 04/02/08 08:58 AM
Edited by lilith401 on Wed 04/02/08 08:58 AM

There is a huge difference between refuting opinions and putting someone down. We are all subject to interpet things

This is not a poster denegrating another? Our opinions differ.

"appears you have a failure to read and comprehend as well as failure to think and understand: "



My point was that the person this statement was intended for did not seem to feel she was being denegrated. You do. You are both entitled to your subjective interpretations... hence forming an opinion.

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 04/02/08 09:35 AM
i remember Judge Judy saying once to someone in that woman's situation (just not that many kids lol)...YOU chose the guys...maybe YOU should accept responsibilty for the choses YOU made.

gotta love Judge Judy....she says it like it is...she's my hero laugh

although I agree that they men certainly have responsibility...the topic doesn't say if there is child support or not. depending on the dad's income...may not be alot of money and depends on how many the dad is supporting.

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Wed 04/02/08 01:34 PM
Edited by Dragoness on Wed 04/02/08 01:36 PM



Well, I just hate to see anybody putting anybody down.
People behind the monitors have feelings.


And if they get hurt from a typed statement on a public forum... maybe those people shouldn't be here.

There is a huge difference between refuting opinions and putting someone down. We are all subject to interpet things differently. As is our right. We can have opinions on others opinions. Your views that a poster is denegrating another is your opinion. It seems to me, the poster in question does not view it the same way. Of course, that is just my opinion. :wink:


This is not a poster denegrating another? Our opinions differ.


"appears you have a failure to read and comprehend as well as failure to think and understand: "




Winx flowerforyou thank you for the support. I have been personally attacked by some constantly. I will let the chips fall where they may on that one. I am not a tattle tail and I am a big girl who doesn't worry about people who really don't know me who think they have valid opinions of me. I am not including lilith or yellow in this catagory, they were just passionate about what they feel, is all.

I have seen your posts and you are always fair, kind and considerate. I appreciate you defending me but do not feel you have to.flowerforyou

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Wed 04/02/08 01:49 PM

I like your new photo, Cutemom.

thanks.:heart:

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Wed 04/02/08 03:19 PM
Any religion that teaches that contrceptives are wrong probably also teaches that sleeping with random guys and making babies is wrong.

Lindyy's photo
Wed 04/02/08 03:50 PM


I like your new photo, Cutemom.

thanks.:heart:


CLDMom:

Wow, beautiful pic!

Well, obviously the woman with 12 kids cannot be from CLDMom's family, just look at her Bunny, poor thing will probably never reproduce. Just kidding!

Really, there has to be something wrong somewhere with a woman who has that many children, uses no 'protection' and has no concept of what those children's lives will be like at time of birth or in their adult lives because of the family situation.

She is, IMO, living off the welfare system with no conscience. BUT, there is a 'gloomy' situation awaiting for her. Once the children are 18 years old, no more welfare money for them and THEN she will have to earn her own keep.

People just do not think.

Lindyy
:heart:

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 04/02/08 04:25 PM
i still stand by that welfare is meant to HELP not SUPPORT the abled bodies drinker

lilith401's photo
Wed 04/02/08 04:39 PM

i still stand by that welfare is meant to HELP not SUPPORT the abled bodies drinker


I totally agree! happy

caamken's photo
Wed 04/02/08 04:43 PM




Well, I just hate to see anybody putting anybody down.
People behind the monitors have feelings.


And if they get hurt from a typed statement on a public forum... maybe those people shouldn't be here.

There is a huge difference between refuting opinions and putting someone down. We are all subject to interpet things differently. As is our right. We can have opinions on others opinions. Your views that a poster is denegrating another is your opinion. It seems to me, the poster in question does not view it the same way. Of course, that is just my opinion. :wink:


This is not a poster denegrating another? Our opinions differ.


"appears you have a failure to read and comprehend as well as failure to think and understand: "




Winx flowerforyou thank you for the support. I have been personally attacked by some constantly. I will let the chips fall where they may on that one. I am not a tattle tail and I am a big girl who doesn't worry about people who really don't know me who think they have valid opinions of me. I am not including lilith or yellow in this catagory, they were just passionate about what they feel, is all.

I have seen your posts and you are always fair, kind and considerate. I appreciate you defending me but do not feel you have to.flowerforyou
huh

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Wed 04/02/08 06:03 PM
Edited by Disaronno on Wed 04/02/08 06:03 PM

I have been personally attacked by some constantly.


Ahhh..the 'sympathy' card gets played...Oh ..poor me, I am being personally attacked by some constantly...please take up for me...oh poor pitiful me....the bad man is picking on me.....
Was wondering how long that would take.

Let's see - in one forum - you told *3* professional soldiers with around 40 years collective service time that they were wrong in dealing with a situation and area in which you know nothing about.

You personally called me 'uncouth and uncivilized' And as you are fond of saying "You don't know me at all" Seems you dislike when people assume things about you - perhaps you shouldn't do it either.

You were handed your rear-end in the forum in which you tried to tell Lilith and Yellow they were wrong, when BOTH clearly demonstrated a greater understanding than you. You even went so far as to claim 'authoritative knowledge' due to a Mental Health training you took going so far as to diagnose (you are not a Dr.) from a newspaper article.

You go on to claim "Oh - I don't tell people about myself" Yet don't mind pulling out "I am a Mental Health Professional" trying to defend yourself - but strangely don't want to answer up about vehicles, gardens and savings. Conveniently though, you claim a 4 cylinder was your first choice, that you rarely use, you have a huge garden. (cough*bullsh*t*cough)

In this forum, even StarSailor tagged you, as well as me, Yellow and Lilith. Can you say 'Copyrights violations'? Sure you can!! Right now you have zero credibility left, zero points in the debate area. You consistently fail to offer up your solutions to the problems you whine about - instead choosing to call 'uncouth and uncivilized' those that disagree with you.

If you don't like 'personal attacks' as you refer to them, I would suggest you quit making yourself a target. If you don't feel like doing that, then I suggest you get comfortable being downrange.

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Wed 04/02/08 06:12 PM
Whoot! Whoot!

Dragoness's photo
Wed 04/02/08 06:16 PM


I have been personally attacked by some constantly.


Ahhh..the 'sympathy' card gets played...Oh ..poor me, I am being personally attacked by some constantly...please take up for me...oh poor pitiful me....the bad man is picking on me.....
Was wondering how long that would take.

Let's see - in one forum - you told *3* professional soldiers with around 40 years collective service time that they were wrong in dealing with a situation and area in which you know nothing about.

You personally called me 'uncouth and uncivilized' And as you are fond of saying "You don't know me at all" Seems you dislike when people assume things about you - perhaps you shouldn't do it either.

You were handed your rear-end in the forum in which you tried to tell Lilith and Yellow they were wrong, when BOTH clearly demonstrated a greater understanding than you. You even went so far as to claim 'authoritative knowledge' due to a Mental Health training you took going so far as to diagnose (you are not a Dr.) from a newspaper article.

You go on to claim "Oh - I don't tell people about myself" Yet don't mind pulling out "I am a Mental Health Professional" trying to defend yourself - but strangely don't want to answer up about vehicles, gardens and savings. Conveniently though, you claim a 4 cylinder was your first choice, that you rarely use, you have a huge garden. (cough*bullsh*t*cough)

In this forum, even StarSailor tagged you, as well as me, Yellow and Lilith. Can you say 'Copyrights violations'? Sure you can!! Right now you have zero credibility left, zero points in the debate area. You consistently fail to offer up your solutions to the problems you whine about - instead choosing to call 'uncouth and uncivilized' those that disagree with you.

If you don't like 'personal attacks' as you refer to them, I would suggest you quit making yourself a target. If you don't feel like doing that, then I suggest you get comfortable being downrange.



Listen, I was not pulling a pity card, I was thanking someone who felt I was being attacked. She is being very kind and deserved appreciation for it.

You mean absolutely nothing to me and have no knowledge of me whatsoever and I really could not care less about how you think of me. If you would like I can start doing what I am supposed to do report your inappropriate behavior on here. I am bigger than that but I can. You can then deal with the admins on your behavior. I would rather not, the world is a big place and I can leave you be and you leave me be.

I speak on that which I know of or how I feel about something. Whether anyone else agrees or not will be up to them.

My speaking on this thread was from personal knowledge and schooling, whether anyone likes it or not, I cannot help that either.

I need no pity nor do I need any help from anyone. I post and I share, people either share with me or they don't. Will people disagree, oh yea, happens when people get together does it make anyone wrong, no.

As for you and I, I believe we should leave each other be for the betterment of both of us. I will leave your posts alone and you leave mine alone and that way no one else has to get involved.

If I offended you at any level, I am woman enough to apologize. But I will not continue to be harrassed by you either so decide what you want and then we will proceed.

Fanta46's photo
Wed 04/02/08 06:45 PM
Edited by Fanta46 on Wed 04/02/08 06:46 PM


Well, I just hate to see anybody putting anybody down.
People behind the monitors have feelings.


And if they get hurt from a typed statement on a public forum... maybe those people shouldn't be here.

There is a huge difference between refuting opinions and putting someone down. We are all subject to interpet things differently. As is our right. We can have opinions on others opinions. Your views that a poster is denegrating another is your opinion. It seems to me, the poster in question does not view it the same way. Of course, that is just my opinion. :wink:



HMmmmmmmmmm
what if it is your opinion that someone else is a DA????huh


laugh :wink:

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Wed 04/02/08 08:01 PM
ok...back to the topic....

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Thu 04/03/08 08:15 AM


As for you and I, I believe we should leave each other be for the betterment of both of us. I will leave your posts alone and you leave mine alone and that way no one else has to get involved.


You want to utilize your right to free speech, but want to restrict mine? Sorry - doesn't work that way. You post in a public forum, I am free to comment on it. Don't like it - tough. Welcome to America.



If I offended you at any level, I am woman enough to apologize. But I will not continue to be harrassed by you either so decide what you want and then we will proceed.


Your choice and your right to post or not post here as you see fit. You push your propaganda, I have just as much right to call you on it, as you did to post. Get used to it. Want to call others wrong, be prepared to be labeled yourself. Put forth b.s. judgments on others, be prepared to be judged yourself.

Seems you want complete freedom of speech for yourself, but are having troubles handling it when other make use of the same right. Tough.

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Thu 04/03/08 08:23 AM
Isn't cutting and pasting things considered spamming and subject to a report, requesting deletion?

Is that not a copyright infrigement, even if you quote your source?

How can you let an article or blog comment speak for you, without any sort of opinion or explanation?

Does anyone think we should start reporting the cut and pasted articles as spamming?