i hope these folks told you how ridiculous your question was/is.
you're too old to ask stupid *** questions like that imho.

if you are really so ignorant, why does it matter to you anyway. do you want to boink an older woman, and lack the balls to deal with her lol?

fyi 420 friendly means you indulge/use yourself. it doesn't mean folks who don't mind if others smoke ok. just sayin lol

excellent reply brother.

1st. ms. let me tell you the truth. quitters don't get jack ****, but unsatisfactory leftovers if that.

ALso you're wrong about the older we get ... I'm 53, & i'll be 54 in jan.
i search by age from 40 - 60 usually. knowing that the 40 age range is a long shot usually and that by 60 many women as well as men are so stuck on a bunch of accumulated societa crap that i don't want them.

yet, i still have to leave my options open, so it is what it is. I have to keep moving, and if someone suitable appears I'm ready to deal with her.
i suggest the same to you sister.

i would also suggest that we not be so exclusive when deciding on who we might want to get involved in. leave room for folks who don't always feet so neatly into our comfort zones. that ups our options considerably too.

i posted in why is it so hard for older women to find love. read my post and see if i made sense to you. if you read it & you get it fine if not then you'll know why at least. take care

i agree with the quote above to sa point. yet, the issue of blaming spammers for an older womens inability to find love is farcical. which leads me to the essence of why it's so hard to do.

it's because many woman are just not practical/reasonable when they are younger and as time goes by the lack of these 2 important qualities cripples them in various ways.

also women don't like to listen to men who tell them the truth on dealing with men. Women have started to act like stupid *** men, and wonder why it's not working out for them lol. which point right back to the lack of practicality/reasonableness.


There are a bunch of older women who have simply lost touch with reality too. for example many woman are taking a class that seems to tell them it's ok to show pictures of their face, in twenty ways, but you better not show your body so a an can figure out what the rest of her looks like !

they speak about the more important inner aspects of a person that matter more. while ignoring the simple fact that a man sees a stranger and is usually attracted to what he sees or not, just like woman are.

yet these women choose to ignore this reality of human nature wrapping themselves in thinking a man should only want the inner jewels. It's outright ridiculous really, but you can't tell most women that truth today because they are in denial.

one of the biggest things that turn a man off is how when a woman details what she likes, it's like the man doesn't matter if he's not a little sheeple type that will go along with all that the woman wants.

women want men that don't have any backbone it seems; and it seems they don't want men who have different interests than them either lol. Their selfish/superficial hearts/mind set has them flashing a sign to many men to steer clear except they don't realise that lol.

So why am i telling the truth about this ****? that's easy because all of this affects men and who they deal with or not. Yet, most women and men don't catch on to that relationship of strangers that affect most of us looking for love regardless of sex!

i agree with the quote above to sa point. yet, the issue of blaming spammers for an older womens inability to find love is farcical. which leads me to the essence of why it's so hard to do.

it's because many woman are just not practical/reasonable when they are younger and as time goes by the lack of these 2 important qualities cripples them in various ways.

also women don't like to listen to men who tell them the truth on dealing with men. Women have started to act like stupid *** men, and wonder why it's not working out for them lol. which point right back to the lack of practicality/reasonableness.


There are a bunch of older women who have simply lost touch with reality too. for example many woman are taking a class that seems to tell them it's ok to show pictures of their face, in twenty ways, but you better not show your body so a an can figure out what the rest of her looks like !

they speak about the more important inner aspects of a person that matter more. while ignoring the simple fact that a man sees a stranger and is usually attracted to what he sees or not, just like woman are.

yet these women choose to ignore this reality of human nature wrapping themselves in thinking a man should only want the inner jewels. It's outright ridiculous really, but you can't tell most women that truth today because they are in denial.

one of the biggest things that turn a man off is how when a woman details what she likes, it's like the man doesn't matter if he's not a little sheeple type that will go along with all that the woman wants.

women want men that don't have any backbone it seems; and it seems they don't want men who have different interests than them either lol. Their selfish/superficial hearts/mind set has them flashing a sign to many men to steer clear except they don't realise that lol.

So why am i telling the truth about this ****? that's easy because all of this affects men and who they deal with or not. Yet, most women and men don't catch on to that relationship of strangers that affect most of us looking for love regardless of sex!

Hi folks,
just wanted to turn you folks on to an ancient chinese secret that most folks don't even know exists.

It comes under the category of QIGONG/CHI KUNG in Chinese fitness.
It is also an internal exercise in that it works on all major, and minor functions of the human body to include the brain.

as an internal exercise it needs to be done on a daily basis to be effective.it this way it's also like tai chi chuan/taijiquan.

However, this zhan zhuang as it is properly called is very unique indeed.
it's benefits can be felt more quickly than doing taijiquan/most qigong types/other martial arts.

I ALWAYS ADVISE FOLKS TO STAND FOR 1-2 MINUTES at first and then gradually increase as your body says it can do/handle more time standing still. your initial goal is 5 minutes standing, next goal is 10, minutes, next is 15, until you can stand for at least 30-40 minutes straight at one time.

there are online resources on this type of qigong if you want further information/details on the practice .

enjoy it of you can, 3-6 mths you feel a difference, and things just get better from there for the vast majority of folks capable of doing this.

This skill/kung fu is very deep, yet simple too.

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL5AC656794EE191C1

you shouldn't be online asking the above. you should have sense enough to talk to a medical professional when dealing with these types of issues first.
then go online to seek alternatives/helps that the professional didn't mention.

you don't ask this type of stuff on a dating site if you're serious about your health/condition. you go to a fitness sight that deals with sports medicine and rehabilitation. you can view proper videos on youtube that will show you how, and what to do after getting proper 411 from the fitness/sports medicine sites.

I am a fan of tennis. i just don't get to watch it like i used too.
i can no longer play it though. grrr

i have a bad hip and need a hip replacement. my right rotator cuff/shoulder was actually injured many years ago and it stopped me from playing tennis. then i fell and slapped out lie in aikido and managed to reinsure the shoulder causing a tear. gulp, ouch, grrr lol.

RAPHAEL IS NICE I LIKE HIM, obviously i like his nemesis federer too, and a few others. of course venus is my fave in womens tennis. i just wish i could give her some alternative coaching starting at least 5 years ago. her issues are all involving her mentality/heart/spirit. it's obvious she has all the physical skills in spades

i came up in the bjorn borg era, that included jimmy connors, john McEnroe,
Ilie Năstase, & Guillermo Vilas. andre agassi, ivan lendl, mats wilander and a few others were the next wave; leading to pete sampras etc.

Back then i modeled my game after borg mainly, i had a 2 hand and normal forehand. my backhand topspin & slice were good as well as my volley skills and serve. the match i played with Virgil Love was what inspired me to practice more.

i was whipping him pretty effortlessly that day and was in the zone. he called off the end of the match as he was losing badly. sO HE SAID IT WAS TOO DARK lol. i reminded him that we had played in darker conditions many times before lol. Virgil was a beast in non-tournament play. in tournament play he would choke though.

At least now i have a tv and can watch occasionally/more often.

i never heard of that specific version of a macrobiotic diet, but i do know my senior turned to it in his youth. he said while he was on it he never felt stronger in his life. btw he's not the type to just talk trash.

maybe this will open your heart on the subject. never dive in and try anything until you understand the basics/details of it first. just be practical.

I'm getting tired of various meats now too. the flip side is i have some venison that's the bomb. yet even though i eat it i have an issue with killing the deer when not absolutely needed. grr :(

tell me what you think seriously. peace & thx.

Hi folks,
well, i play and occasionally teach Taijiquan privately.

many folks don't know what it is. even more who have heard of it have many erroneous ideas concerning Taijiquan.

If anyone is in my area and knows how to do tuishou i'd love to hookup with you so we can play & share our kung fu.

disclosure about kung fu and what it means.
kung fu basically means skill at whatever it is that you do.
if you are a mechanic/teacher/chef/dog groomer etc. and are good at your job, they would say that you have good kung fu = skill.

So, even though many chinese misuse the term kung fu to mean chinese martial arts they too are wrong lol.

Taijiquan is first and foremost a chinese martial art. Yet,Taijiquan isn't taught as a martial art by most teachers. There are two major reasons for this.

1st. is because most taijiquan teachers don't know any martial applications because they were never taught them; and the ones who do don't share that information with casual students.

2nd. reason is that most students aren't suitable to learn taijiquan with the main focus being martial functionality. So what i mean is this. The avg. person isn't tough enough mentally/physically to endure this type of training. Which is far more grueling then most would ever think lol.

I started on my own with no teacher approx. 1978/79. joined the marines and learned the basics of cinco teros from Sensei Arseni J. Advincula . he's best known as the premier Isshin Ryu Karate man on the planet. Yet, he is a filipino american who's also teaches Arnis, which is one of the blade arts from the philippines.

i finally caught up to him on facebook lol. i was just glad to know he is still alive, and still teaching martial arts. If you deal with Sensei for any length of time you will learn much more than martial arts. I feel are good teachers are this way with few if any exceptions myself included.

My formal Taijiquan training started in the summer of 1995. This was the same year that the World Wushu Championships came to balto., md.
I joined the Baltimore Tai Chi Chuan Study Association, founded by Dr. John Wan-Yuin Chang.

I stayed long enough to be one of the few who received the simple certificate which says i learned... It is signed by my senior and friend Mr. John W. Oden one of Dr.Chang's most senior students. Dr. Chang has returned to wu-qi now. However, while he was alive i was fortunate to be able to visit him in his home quite a few times and enjoy the hospitality of his awesome wife Mrs. Elsie Chang. This was because I hung out with Mr. oden often.

we do still have our annual picnic at double rock park in parkville. This year was really cool as they all seem to be lol. All are welcomed to attend btw. if u want an invitation just let me know ok.

I am available for private lessons. Yet, i want all to know that you can not buy my kung fu. Taijiquan Kung fu/skill only comes to those who train daily.

the only guarantee i make is simple. If the student does what she/he is told to do on a daily basis & really makes quality efforts both mentally, and physically to comprehend Taijiquan better they will make the progress that is expected without fail.

People learn Taijiquan for various reason to include. they want to exercise in a way that simple isn't that strenuous, they want to rehabilitate a health condition in their bodies, they want to prevent health issues from arising, they want to explore dealing with their own beings in a more holistic fashion, they want to increase their various fitness components of balance, leg strength, mental alertness etc. there are other reason ,but these are the most common ones.

Taijiquan teaches us how to deal with and manipulate force. both our own force and that of an opponent. This naturally affects how we work/play in our lives away from training. this is the real benefit of taijiquan on a practical daily basis.

The art also allows us to start to view the world and our place in it in a different way that has many fringe benefits that appear along our taijiquan journey.

what most folks don't know is that as an internal martial art Taijiquan's relationship to how it affects our bodies will not allow practitioners to cheat in their training. So, what I mean is this. if you practice everyday as you should you will feel/make progress naturally. at this point there are folks who then start to train sporadically thinking to themselves hey i have this taijiquan down pat.

they quickly find out what all do when they train this way. the progress you made/felt will reverse itself. Yup, i sia dit and all taijiquan teachers know this fact. Only it's not something that is usually shared with prospective students. the teachers don't want to frighten the students away.

which leads to the fact that the attrition rate for taijiquan is the worst in all of martial arts. if a teacher can keep 10 % of students that start until they are well trained it's considered a awesome thing lol.

I do answer questions, but please limit your questions to things that you can answer by looking online yourself first. I'm not here to answer anything that pops up in your head that is related to taijiquan for those who are just curious.

I can usually help those with issues who already play/train taijiquan.
Though i play/teach Yang style Taijiquan i have some limited knowledge of other styles of taijiquan, as well as hsing i chuan, baguazhang, wing chun, and a few other styles. none of which am i well versed in or would be considered an expert in. yet, what I do know is legit.

It's many things i still don't know about taijiquan and martial arts. I'm only 53 going on 54 so i still keep a beginner's mind. Yet, there are many who are not as skilled and know far less than I do yet call themselves SIFU/SHIFU. While others have produced videos that have sold well; and still do not show legit taijiquan in them.

Thanks folks. i sure hop i get to play some push hands = (tui shou) with you in the new year.

just a little frustrated because i can't ride most motorcycles now because of my hip.

so looking to test drive a piaggio MP3 400/500 . supposed to be in state by end of april 2015. based on my situation and safety concerns it's the best choice for me imho. as long as i can afford the insurance i should be good to go.

i have looked at bikes with really low seat heights, various trikes, and maxi scooters too.

it is painfully obvious that most posters don't have a clue as to the reality of bike prices.

As of right now $4,000 is still expensive for a road/mtn bike for the vast majority which includes most riders except professionals .

To buy a proper bike pay attention to the frame material first & foremost.
match the ride quality of the frame material to the type of riding you favor/can endure.

stiffer frame usually means a more harsh ride. Yet, they have made so many advances in tweaking frame materials and marrying them with shock absorbing forks, handlebars and the like that there will be plenty of exceptions that will make many riders happy and suit them.

next attention are the wheels because of rotational mass; which governs speed. width of tires is based on the type of riding/surface you will ride over.

last but not least comes the component group, this is chosen based on various issues. 1st. being cost, 2nd. being performance/functionality and 3rd being durability. all 3 of these issues combine in different ways based on what that bike is designed to do.

So you can now get a really nice frame & wheels with a lower end component group that will suit most riders. the options/combinations on gearing & accessories are vast. yet, most riders can buy a stock bike off the shelf
that doesn't cost them anywhere near $ 4,000 ! from 500-1,000 will be the price range for a decent bike suitable for most all; but the hardcore thrill seekers or pros riders

how about you post up a couple decent photos. does wonders for attracting strangers who might like you. by now you should have gotten that memo. :)

hey bro,
u sound like a cool dude. yet i'm gonna tell you the real deal.
it's hard for a brother to find a good one. it's even harder if your an african brother from the motherland.

You will have to defeat the stereo types that are associated with african men. i have seen many women put african men on notice in their dating summaries/info lol.

They are quite familiar with the old bait, and switch tactics that men use to get their foot in the door.

so with that said act accordingly. keep it genuine and someone is going to recognize that sooner or later. then yall can vibe, and love each other properly.

wish you all the best bro. if i was younger like you i'd wouldn't be so pressed to find a nice lady. take advantage of your youth.

the answer is and always has been yes.

dude the question is older than you and me and i'm 53 almost 54 lol.

when i was younger i was always attracted to older women, and i did a good job at getting them too lol. i dealt with women in my age range too though.

now that i'm older i don't give a rats *** how old the woman is as long as we vibe well and are compatible. i like younger women too, but my grey hair kills me lol. i could pass for 40 if i didn't have so much grey hair; the grey started at 16.

also the younger ones are superficial on steroids lol, not all of them but so damn many it's just ugly & lamentable.

so can i extrapolate that that is because you get so freaky when your toes are done you only want that special someone to have them; & not just any old fling dude?

just guessing mind you. :)

damn i had to increase the text size. i wasn't sure that was an "r" lol.