Like a guy in his early 30's (teens or 20s) thinks about sex all the time is a huge revelation. lol. Come on, this is normal in a guy. I've seen stats on this before and it's like every minute a guy in that age range thinks about sex. Some more than others in the time frame and age range.

If a guy doesn't then I'm wondering about his sexuality.



This isn't rocket science.

Me either. ?

Lol. Cute.

Some people just thrive on creating drama out of their own insecurities and doubt. And that doesn't just refer to a couple of females on here, there's a male also. And I don't know why but I've fallen into the abyss commenting. I am always thinking there's got to be something to move these people forward but I'm wrong. Nothing changes and everything stays the same.

Not my definition at all. Just want to be clear about that. I don't live in the romance fantasy world of illusion.

For me, yes he is good looking (but good looking is all in the eyes of the beholder). Tall, short hair, fit and in shape but he's a good person with moral character. Has Principles and lives up to those principles. Treats a woman with respect. Hard yet can be gentle. Hard working but doesn't have to be wealthy and I'd prefer someone who doesn't work a gazillion hours a week. I'm talking about a regular man who gets up in the morning, goes to work, comes home and talks to his partner. Shares his day. Takes care of the homestead. I'm talking about a simple guy, not a complicated person.

Find a new interest or hobby. Go to the gym and meet new people there. I would not bounce into a new relationship immediately contrary to other advice. Give yourself time to move on but stay busy so you don't have time to dwell or tempted to go back or contact the previous relationship.

Ignore the advice of anything coming from no1phD. Bad bad juju. He is not to be believed.

I may have grown up different than you. I've never expected anything from anyone. When I receive I'm happy and love it. But do I depend on others for my life, no I don't. It's not a we or they situation. You make for yourself and be happy with yourself and then you will be able to be happy with another. Maybe that's the approach you should look at going forward. But I'd let go of the "they are not worth my time" theory.

Yes, there any number of words that have been hijacked.

I've found there are plenty of REAL men who are also gentlemen around. I guess it's all in who you attract or are attracted to. I grew up with 5 brothers. I love men, I'm just not into the metrosexual type guy who dresses in skinny jeans and has long hair. I don't care that he is able to cry or is terribly sensitive or has found his "feminine" side. I want him to be masculine.

Which heels do you prefer?

Huh? lol

You're so narrow minded!

Haha. The first time I saw this thread I thought it said "lets go topless".

Absolutely.

I will usually reply unless the person is obviously a scam profile. However, I have received messages that start out "I really want to f*** you" or something along that line. That gets a block without a 2nd thought.

Anything rude or crude. Block.

I was just checking on Outlander, it's on one of the premium channels. But, there's a free viewing weekend going on now. One of the channels is replaying prior seasons. At least I can record those episodes and check it out.

Hmmm. I just got hooked on Viking. Have to DVR it. Never watched Outlander but I'll have to add to my DVR and check it out. I never watch anything when it's originally on. I loved "Hell on Wheels" and miss that it's over.