I have questions for men and I want them to be completely honest.
Do "real manly men" exist anymore?
Do real gentleman exist anymore?

Like bear grylls?

yep. they sure do

I'm a real manly man..ohh. dang it!!! I just chipped a nail typing that out..
now I'm not going to be even..

They do, but they are all looking for the womanly wimmins..

here in brum its like the men are turning into women, they get their eyebrows done and they get manicures. but the funny thing is their not gentlemen. if there are any their hidden well.

Yet another topic to promote sexist or stereotyping of gender roles? Sure looks like it. Appears to be an acceptable topic.

Should I have waited for the misandry before I ask?

I shore hope so because i know im not the only one left who believes in being a decent man for the right woman

I've found there are plenty of REAL men who are also gentlemen around. I guess it's all in who you attract or are attracted to. I grew up with 5 brothers. I love men, I'm just not into the metrosexual type guy who dresses in skinny jeans and has long hair. I don't care that he is able to cry or is terribly sensitive or has found his "feminine" side. I want him to be masculine.

Yes, absoloutely!

Yes, we have weeded out many of the wimps and girly men! When there is nothing left but us manly men, we will do battle by hand to hand combat to elect a king!! He will then help us divide up the wimmons fairly.

What I've found is most women who ask this question have a fairy tale ideal man in mind and anyone who doesn't measure up to that unrealistic ideal just won't do.

the answer is of course yes. most people, men and women, are ruled by their instincts regarding sex, material, and emotional security. when this gets out of wack, our natural instincts (which are necessary and helpful in many areas of life) become liabilities to a certain degree. not every single man is out of wack in these arenas, and there are plenty of great guys who have it together.

maybe if you give a more detailed description of 'real manly man' and 'real gentleman', we can answer more helpfully or get a good laugh.

Many guys are busy playing video games or anything to escape responsibility in life and talking about how it's all the woman's fault. After my experiences with men, I will never expect anything from a man, and will just do everything on my own, and will never do anything for a man again. No more, they are not worth my time.

I used to like that Gran Turismo game.. I highly recommend it to all you slackers out there..

I may have grown up different than you. I've never expected anything from anyone. When I receive I'm happy and love it. But do I depend on others for my life, no I don't. It's not a we or they situation. You make for yourself and be happy with yourself and then you will be able to be happy with another. Maybe that's the approach you should look at going forward. But I'd let go of the "they are not worth my time" theory.

Look what you 'man bashing women' did.........!!!!! If the men that you met aren't what you want, just turn around and beat a new path. This is getting ridiculous cos' all this man bashing will only result in woman bashing. NOT ALL MEN AND NOT ALL WOMEN ARE THE SAME!!!!

Can't you all just behave..... you are not kids who are uncontrollable!! IT IS SO SO STUPID!

I have a question for those who are doubters

how many people, men and women, does it take to convince you that there are good people in the world?

if you choose not to be convinced, then you won't be.

Define real men / gentleman ? it would help to be more specific about your definition of a real men / gentleman

This typically means rugged good looks, will put up with any BS the woman throws at him, is independently wealthy, works 140 hours a week, always has time for the woman, is never tired, loves ballet and opera, doesn't like football, and is exactly whatever she wants him to be. If he is lacking even one of her already nearly impossible demands, he's not good enough.