Had blackberry pancakes this morning.

Sorry, that's not possible when dealing with human nature. lol

Well, I guess he's not terribly successful at acting like he's a straight guy. My gaydar went off immediately. Never watched the show obviously. And how surprising...working at a university in Cali. Not gay. lol

You know when the hairs stood up on the back of your neck when you were about to marry him? Dumb azz. You should have listened!

Who the frig is Sheldon Cooper? Never heard of him. Looks effeminate.

He's thinking you're gonna give him a doggie or human treat to eat. That's all he cares about. Food! Food! Food!

Good lord, but I'm tired of women whining and complaining. You aren't interested in younger men, fine. Set your filters. You don't like men older? Fine set your filters. You're insecure because you aren't young anymore, don't be on a dating site.

I have no issue being called a MILF or cougar. I enjoy younger men. Does that mean I'm going to marry them? I don't know but I doubt it. Do I approach them? No. I enjoy men of all ages, I've dated 30 yrs younger than myself. I've had fun.

I'm a gym nut, I enjoy working out and staying fit. I like men who are fit and in shape. A guy has a gut on himself, I don't care what his age is, I'm not attracted. That's it for me.

Is he mature? Does he have a good sense of humor? Can he carry on a conversation?

Then I might be interested.

Never been to a Carl Jr but love Sonic. Can't say I go there very often but on a hot night when they have the bargain sundaes or whatever ice cream treat it's fun to stop in. I will admit I love the tator tots there. Can't do that but once a year. lol. But Sonic is around every corner here.

Now that's a cool lunch. I'm jealous.

Hate "bucket lists". People who talk about their bucket lists are annoying to me.

I wouldn't say I'm overwhelmed by messages but I do get a couple dozen a day. I respond maybe to one and that's because they sound like they are real. Mostly it's a thank you blah blah. I don't say I'm not interested, of which usually I'm not. But if they message back I don't respond and as said before not responding = a response....I'm not interested. I don't think it's rude.

I wish I had enough confidence to get into something with a non drinking alcoholic or ex drug addict but I just don't have the confidence with people who in general have "addictive" personalities.

I would pass. I will say it could be situational. If that man was long term recovered and a health and fitness guy I might give him consideration. I just hate drama and too many people with addictive personalities seem to have drama follow them around like a black cloud.I don't do drama.

Op, the arrogance of your statement that you are perfect says it all. No one is PERFECT, contrary to their opinion of themselves.

Oh Kristi, come on. Like the modern day June Cleaver isn't the Stepford wives. lol.

Ahhh, that explains it. I never burn my brain with MSNBC. lol

Wow, that's how you interpret this WW? I sure didn't see that. I found a Stepford Wife type pic and after IamwhoIam1 mentioned the meaning of Dutch Rudder I searched on that. Dutch Rudder was a sexual term for assisting in a sexual act. How does that go with working wife? Please explain.

Op, please explain wth this means? "why people act over smartly infront of opposite sexx".

I'm just a simple person. I don't know what "over smartly" means.

Do you mean a "smartazz"?
Do you mean too smart?
Do you mean too intelligent?

I'm just so confused so I must not be over smartly.

You are not alone on that one. Neva heard of it. lol

Like this only applies to women? D'oh! Turn your phone sideways. lol

Gawd, there are any number of reasons both men and women cheat. Whether married or in a relationship. The list of reasons is an ocean.

I've seen my parents be married almost 70 yrs., seen a brother and his wife experience infidelity where I thought there was no way they would stay together and it wasn't because of finances. It was because of trust. Had another sister and her husband get unofficially separated for a year and thought that would never survive. Saw a sister who was married 30 yrs and that fell apart but that wasn't a surprise and it wasn't just his fault.

There is no rhyme or reason, everyone is different. The devotion or commitment is different in each situation. Why they stay together is different. For me? I've never cheated but have been cheated on. I still stayed amiable with the ex, yes it took a year but I don't believe in burning bridges especially when the man still is trying to appease me and get back together. But once the trust is gone, it's gone.

I don't believe anyone will ever figure out the answer to this question. It's situational.