It is an endeavor that we will have until we find the one. When we are growing up, we have preconceived notions as to who the one will end up being. What we do not know is that it can take many years to find the one who will truly make you happy. How is it possible to find the one, how would you ever know? Is there really any such thing as love at first site? If you have never loved; how would you know what love is? Many questions asked as you go on your quest to find the one. You might be able to appreciate life more when you do find the perfect match. It is one of those things that cause you to think about the things that are most important in life. As you do get older you are able to put details that you did not think about when you were growing up. The additional attributes that a woman or man must possess to be supportive in life.

You learn that you are not capable of doing everything to the best of your ability. Sometimes you learn a little late that you might not have been as prepared as you thought you were with the choice of who you wish to be with for the rest of your life. It is not always the way you want life to be, you came to the world with challenges unbeknown to anyone or even yourself. You find out after some trial and error that the one you look for will help you understand life. You find that the person you are looking for most will be someone that will listen to you, support you, will help you to cross bridges, to meet the challenges in life head on, to overcome obstacles and pick you up when you feel your worse. You find out that you want to be able to have someone to be there for you that you can talk to about anything. It is about finding your match, someone that you are comfortable with. You need to find someone to compliment you in your weaknesses. In the event that you are not strong enough to go on, you need someone that will support you back to your feet, to continue on life's journey.

I believe that in everyone's heart they have the virtue to be anyone's true love, to be the one. You have to ultimately believe in yourself and learn to love yourself in order to find the best for yourself. To think of you in such a way is not to be selfish, but to be able to value yourself.

Remember to live life without fear, do not fear rejection. Learn from it, you can truly be happy if you are able to face your fears.

i mean every word that i say ,

the ladys always want comitment so i give it to them you never know one day i might find miss right

Think thats your problem...why do you feel so compelled to get married....with your track record...maybe you should just have a long lasting relationship first...JMO

I doubt you have anything to worry about...I'm sure you have lots of guys that would want to grow old with you

If someone told you that you were not good enough to date the person you liked and that you are separated and you need to know that ppl don't date "separated" ppl????