Topic: How would you feel.....
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Sun 01/25/09 07:37 AM
If someone told you that you were not good enough to date the person you liked and that you are separated and you need to know that ppl don't date "separated" ppl????

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Sun 01/25/09 07:39 AM
That is not always true.Do not worry about what other people think.flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou glasses smokin pitchfork

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Sun 01/25/09 07:43 AM

If someone told you that you were not good enough to date the person you liked and that you are separated and you need to know that ppl don't date "separated" ppl????


:smile: I would be pissed off:smile:

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Sun 01/25/09 07:58 AM
I know they wouldn't be saying much else to me after they said something like that :angry: I'd teach them how to mind their own damn business:angry:

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Sun 01/25/09 08:00 AM
if i even understood what you said i'd help, rofl

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Sun 01/25/09 08:01 AM
I would punch them in the face...with a batflowerforyou

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Sun 01/25/09 08:07 AM
I'd tell em to f*ck off and mind their own business.

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Sun 01/25/09 08:09 AM

If someone told you that you were not good enough to date the person you liked and that you are separated and you need to know that ppl don't date "separated" ppl????



Well im separated.... that dont matter!! I have dated since my separation.. yes there are people that tell me thats wrong.. but why put my life on hold when i know the divorce will happen.. i dont want to waste my time.. Im not getting any younger.. I have myself and my kids to think about.
You do what you feel is right for you.. dont let anyone else tell you otherwise!! Its your life!

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Sun 01/25/09 08:09 AM

I would punch them in the face...with a batflowerforyou
rofl rofl rofl

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Sun 01/25/09 08:14 AM
Being seperated Never stopped me from dating!!

& as far as not being good enough tell them to go pound sand.

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Sun 01/25/09 08:20 AM
:angry: that's cruel! :angry:

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Sun 01/25/09 08:39 AM

If someone told you that you were not good enough to date the person you liked and that you are separated and you need to know that ppl don't date "separated" ppl????

i'd worry about how the person i liked and wanted to date felt about it.

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Sun 01/25/09 08:43 AM

If someone told you that you were not good enough to date the person you liked and that you are separated and you need to know that ppl don't date "separated" ppl????


I would say "you're probably right, but that isn't going to stop me from trying! Man!"...then I would defy reality and date them, down the road probably about 3 months or so the relationship would dismantle because of lack of communication and I would fall back to where I am now...nothing lost, nothing gained.smokin

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Sun 01/25/09 08:49 AM
smokin It's not about being good enough. It's about not being officially (or legally for that matter) available.oops

I'd be more concerned what the person you liked thought about your status. Personally I like dating detached (ie, not on the rebound) guys.:wink:

Even dating a guy who was just seeing another woman .. I'd like some space between the two dynamics, but marriage is a much deeper committment and any counselor would tell ya .. give yourself some space.

Breathe in, breathe out.

Seriously, where's the fire? glasses

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Sun 01/25/09 01:11 PM
Maybe they're worried that it's just a seperation and not a final ending. They might be using cation.