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Topic: is there life after seperation
nickelback9 Joined Wed 03/04/09 Posts: 544	Mon 03/09/09 03:36 PM
it is so hard for me to get a date everyone finds out that i am still married and they just go ahhhh i see and run the other way?

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Mon 03/09/09 03:37 PM
No one wants to be the rebound girl.

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Mon 03/09/09 03:38 PM
You should only create one thread in the rate me section. Rule five. Besides, this is really in the wrong forum, isn't it?

nickelback9 Joined Wed 03/04/09 Posts: 544	Mon 03/09/09 03:39 PM
thats what sucks , they allways think that , but i have already had my rebound and then some, so what is the problem?

GlamorousLyly Joined Sat 11/29/08 Posts: 942	Mon 03/09/09 03:39 PM
it is so hard for me to get a date everyone finds out that i am still married and they just go ahhhh i see and run the other way? just wait till divorce .is normal

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Mon 03/09/09 03:40 PM
thats what sucks , they allways think that , but i have already had my rebound and then some, so what is the problem? Just lie and say you're divorced already

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Mon 03/09/09 03:42 PM
There are so many different types of separation. Many do not want to go near. It's a huge red flag. Separation means you are still married. End of story for most.

Mayhem_J Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 14265	Mon 03/09/09 03:42 PM
Quit wearing the ring...lol.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/09/09 03:45 PM
it is so hard for me to get a date everyone finds out that i am still married and they just go ahhhh i see and run the other way? Get the divorce finalized

nickelback9 Joined Wed 03/04/09 Posts: 544	Mon 03/09/09 03:45 PM
i dont wear the ring at all they just ask me and i tell them then they just go i got to go

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Mon 03/09/09 03:46 PM
Divorce. Problem solved.

nickelback9 Joined Wed 03/04/09 Posts: 544	Mon 03/09/09 03:46 PM
i figured as much that i do need to get one right away ,

struble32 Joined Sat 02/07/09 Posts: 1	Mon 03/09/09 03:47 PM
How about someone who is separated but never got married but has kids?

Serchin4MyRedWine Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 3483	Mon 03/09/09 03:47 PM
even though water boarding torture is more fun then divorce...you still need to get it done...what are you waiting for.....thats a big red flag.

lilbug Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 14791	Mon 03/09/09 03:49 PM
1. Still married. 2. Chance of getting dumped cause you and the wife patch things. 3. You're lying, not really separated and just cheating. 4. Chance that wife is a nut case and will come after one or both of us. 5. Plenty of great single guys without the entanglements to choose from. (if I could get any of them to write to me, lol!)

Serchin4MyRedWine Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 3483	Mon 03/09/09 03:49 PM
How about someone who is separated but never got married but has kids? how could you be "seperated" then....you were never hitched?

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Mon 03/09/09 03:49 PM
How about someone who is separated but never got married but has kids? How can you be separated if you were never married? You are apart if you were never married... Of course it's a huge difference. MARRIAGE IS A CONTRACT!!!! A LEGAL BINDING CONTRACT!!!!

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Mon 03/09/09 03:51 PM
I'd date a guy who was separated. However, there'd have to be certain things going on before I'd do so. If he never introduced me to his friends and/or family, I'd wonder. I'd like him to invite me over to his house, or over to his place of work for lunch, so that I could see for myself that he and his wife didn't actually live together any longer. I figure that there are no guarantees my divorced boyfriend isn't going to find a new girlfriend; neither are there that a separated person is going to reunite with their spouse. Each relationship is a chance.

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Mon 03/09/09 03:52 PM
Like I said, if you really feel like you are ready to move on, just lie and say you're divorced.

MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Mon 03/09/09 03:54 PM
I feel ya brother. No one wants to be my rebound guy either. I don't need to rebound. I've worked through my feelings and am ready to move on but once they hear they are the first, they are out.