Don't tell me...something in a little BLACK dress with maybe a WHITE neck scarf and WHITE stockings?

Black's beach is much more populated, and long as you sre in the middle or south end it is much more family friendly. San Onofre is nice too, but much fewer people, however there are more of the swinger crowd at San Onofre per capita.

Well, Hell, young lady.... My mutton chops are yours to ride any time!! MY beard/stache adores face sitters!

Two small apples and one orange... gotta get the energy food for the 6 miles of rollerblading at 2:00 this afternoon.

I can't believe you said that either!! But I'm glad you did..

Yeah, like just the tips of the tongues dancing ever so lightly, exploring, and pulling the lips gently closed now and then to lightly suck on the lower lip (or upper, but not both at the same time like a hoover), then take a light breath and continue the dance of the tongues. Now and then a full on tongue embrace is not bad, but I do prefer the tongues dancing lightly most.

Congrats young lady!! My daughter graduated bacsic at Ft Jackson... which is the same base I was discharged from... and she spent 6 yrs in the Army before she became a civilian and is now working contracts as a civilian - gs9 position. What AIT are you doing? I did 05C20 Radio teletype there at Fort gordon... many yrs ago... 1970 to be exact.

This is really good food for thought indeed. In most matters I am a logically oriented person and tend to see things in black and white, rules are rules, past experiences and present circumstances dictate my actions and or reactions.

But, in matters of love, now that is something quite different. While, when I first meet someone I am not looking for an instant attraction or love at first sight, my mindset might well be analytical in nature. However, if Love has entered then I let my heart guide me. I believe the heart and spirit need to be the guiding forces in a truely loving relationship.

I once read that Wisdom is the perfect balance of knowledge and love.And a wise man would not analyze nor give up on love, but rather accept that love as unconditional and grow in spirit as in love.

I have only felt in love one time... and I let her go.... the hardest thing to do is to let go unconditionally. So much harder than to love unconditionally. My heart still aches for her sometimes. But I know that to love unconditionally I cannot hold another hostage in any way. So we are both free... from on another... and for one another.

You mean like going to street fairs, museums, hiking, dinner and a movie, strolls through flower fields, long talks along a seashore, rides into the hills or along the coast, etc?

Yeah, that's the stuff I go for on dates, even first dates. Sometimes even power walks around the lake, and I would love to meet a lady that would be willing and able to rollerblade with me or even ride a bicycle around the lake while I blade... good cardio...

And of course, when a man asks a lady what she would like to do on a date, be honest and tell him. I, for one, would try very hard to accomodate her wishes within reason.

That is SOOoooo bad!! You're funny!

Okay, I don't think you are gonna like hearing this, but it's not on your forehead that it is written, but perhaps in secret code it is written in a couple of your profile pics? I mean, I love the pictures of you gorgeous legs, but the pics are very sexy and will perhaps draw the "sex only" mindset to believe it is okay to address you in a sexual manner, even if your profile does state you are not looking for persons seeking intimate encounters.

And on another note, I think the quick to the sex meetings are going to get even more popular because of the current economy. What with more depression and feelings of financial inadequacy, people are more prone to seek the feelings of adequacy from the simplest and quickest ways they can achieve them... many times that is sexual contact, temporary as it may be.

I for one, have always been very open minded sexually, but always conduct myself as a gentleman especially when I first meet someone. Open sexuality does not mean being borish and impolite, but rather treating a potential partner with the respect they deserve, both in and out of the bedroom.

Just my two cents...

Well... here in the liberal state of California it turned into a bunch of flames getting together for porn and eating weenies!!

Not me though...

I still like pie!

My Beautiful daughter and I on her wedding day walking in unison.. sharp pic I think.

My secretary!!

My My, how could such a beautiful lady have spent FOUR YEARS lost in ASCII land?!?

HHhmmmmm ... I think if you really P!ss off the moderator of the site and several of the fellow mingleites that the mod will kick you off the site... never to return...

But, you don't seem to have it in ya to be mean...

Hi Debbie!! And if it's okay to ask, what seems to be having your life so unsettled? Hope it gets settled sooner than later.

Bro, are you looking for a hostage? Or a relationship?

If you are not all that into "all that crap" that defines a large part of who she is or what she is comfortable with then it would stand to reason that you are not all that into her either. Ergo, involving yourself in a "relationship" with her is nothing more than taking on an emotional hostage. Give her freedom, and you too will experience freedom.

not likely, but that dog's history!

I consider your course of spiritual studies to be very wise indeed.

We are first and foremost spritual beings. Various spiritual beliefs teach us different avenues to reach principled constructive lifestyles and the principles taught are predominately the same in most teachings. Religion, however, is the practice of traditions that may or may not be spiritual in nature.

When reading from Buddhist teachings I may intellectualize the exact same principles that are taught by the Native American spiritual guides, but in a manner that may hit my heart more effectively. And yet, some of the manners of teaching the same principle in another "religion" may be more effective still.

And so, I read on Buddhism, Native American spirituality, Christianity, and would like to study more avenues of spiritual growth.

One of the best pieces I have read referrencing the changes in the Catholic church during the very early Celtic practices versus the Roman Catholic practices and the eventual "demise" of the celtic tradition is called "Listening for the heartbeat of God". I thought it a shame that the Celtic Catholics were dimished as they were.

Another book that is very inspirational to a person such as myself is called "Living Buddha, Living Christ" and gives me the opportunity to see from the author's perspective how closely our principles, when spiritually applied instead of religiously applied, are related.

When one thinks of the benedictine monks, the native americans, and the celtic practices, there is such similarity that one cannot help but to believe we are all spiritually connected and have the same spiritual wants and needs.

Altruism, what a concept!