Only when it's REALLY, REALLY COLD!! ... but it comes back

My experience as a single custodial father has been that the "system" sets a double standard for single custodial fathers vs single custodial mothers in some states (Michigan being one of them) and that alone gives a stigma to the single custodial father that is negative in nature. I finally had to leave Michigan and return to California just to get away from all the negative impact that the State was bringing into our lives. And I could feel judgemental attitudes coming from a large number of the people there as well. California people seem much more accepting and even supporting of single fathers raising their children. Just my take, others may have had extremely different experiences.

I don't usually find the creative writing in these forums that grand, but this is awesome write. Thank you for sharing this with us.

my last girlfriend came onto this site and found a man in Arizona who was more to her fit and they do the once per month thing and it seems to be working out very well for them. She is in San Diego Ca. so it's not so far that they can't take turns traveling once per month.

As a recovering alcoholic/addict I have seen those words etched in lives of friends and lovers. We have known the same paths... the same spirits... the same pains... and the same joys.

Good going young lady!! Basic over yet?

Hey, I gotta ask... when you call your weapon a gun do they make you do the "This is my weapon, this is my gun, this is for fighting, this is for fun!" thing? And if so, kinda wierd for a girl to say?

Have you done the night infiltration course yet? Or the tear gas? Fun stuff, huh?

You get out of it what you put into it... have a blast!

at a time in my life when I was particularly disgruntled with my family I thought about making my last name blacksheep.... then I thought if I ever made it in porn I could go with johnson... my first name is Harry.

BUT... if youd like to rollover anyway... I'm your man!

No cell... never have... likely never will...

colder en' a witche's tit

You know, I do the same thing! Especially if I see a person posting a lot of wonderful or funny or profound statements on the forums. Besides, the searches seem to turn up all of the same results, like there are very few newbies on this site... haven't done a search in like months!!

I am in California and the news I saw on the baby in texas states that her family brought her to texas from mexico for treatment after she got the flu... so she contracted the flu in mexico, came to the states for treatment, was too late and she died...

I think it's a fanny pack... worn backwards... for to carry his important stuff...

Do you forget that it was the Bush regime that got us into this financial mess?

Yes, Please.

youre not gonna like just plain ole' decaf!!

I went this weekend to watch hannah montana with my girl friend because that's what she wanted to watch... Tampons? Bought them many times... grew up with three sisters... the most embarrasing part for them is when I call down the aisle and ask do they want the innies or the outies and what size are they needing this time??? It can be fun! holding a purse? It's the gentlemanly thing to do... and if my male friends tease me I hit them with her purse!!

It's all good...

And lucky dan!! would I love to shave my ladies legs... and beyond!

Thank You, I appreciate that. I have to give credit to God for that though, I couldn't have done it alone. (couldn't find a hugs smiley, but hugs to you my friend.)

Many things... but one time in my younger years I took a large amount of substances at a concert and at one point in the night after the concert ended I thought I had died and was just a spirit walking around, and I was okay with that... then I realized that others were trying to talk to me.... and I realized I had lost my memory... and my sense of reality... and that scared the hell out of me!!Took me three days to remember my name and about two weeks to feel like I was down to "normalcy" again... Soooo.... losing my mind and knowing it would rank pretty high up there for me.

Oh, and the thought of ever going back to drinking and drugging again after being clean and sober for 14 yrs..... that scares me.

Love the signature!! Gives me a whole new fantasy!! ... the witing is very thought provoking as well...