Who's making the matches here anyway?
Anybody matched up yet?

Read more, this vs reading ...
Tonight I choose this - reading threads

Self discovery, Spirituality, Be in the now and except things as they
are.

Hey nurse J

When I first joined, did plenty of them, but with a response rate of
.01%, the mood has changed to – Why bother. There is much more
interaction here on the threads

Cigars = Cuba

Hummmm, looken at all the single people





Oh wait - I am one

Maybe I should start looken if I want to change that uh?

Hugs = All night long

night all = night owl

one leg at a time = how you eat an elephant






errrr is that one toe at a time

can anyone make me happy?

No, only you can choose to be happy





Plans for tomorrow?

moon = pull up your pants!

Excellent Lex, sounds quite esoteric. I don’t have the background
knowledge and was asking the whole time reading ”who the heck is Ayn
Rand?”

I have heard of We the Living, but don’t recall anymore than the title.
Sounds like a good place to start. That one’s now on my list.
thanks


Hey, it looks like someone turned the lights out on ya!
Either that or you llamas are eating light bulbs again.

warm gum = stuck on the sidewalk

“Love is meant to be calm...” I agree Jess, it’s a warm stillness in
the center of our being. I believe it’s always there, we just experience
it to the level we allow it to express itself. That’s why I separated
it from euphoria.


Certainly lulu, experiences to add layers to us and how we respond in
the world depends on how we deal with those layers. And I for one do not
want to disregard my past, there have wonderful learning’s there, pain &
all.

They just found a planet that may have life. Gliese 581c.
Ok, so it's 20.5 light years away



Would you like to go visit them?

Now that’s an interesting idea lulu.
Do we experience less of that euphoria as we move through more & more
relationships and then we get closer and clearer on the underlying
truths and love?
(I may not be wording this clearly, but it’s an interesting idea)

That’s where trusting yourself come in jp.
Trust yourself to set boundaries, trust yourself to listen to what goes
on inside, trust yourself to act when needed.

Doesn’t mean we have to hang in bad situations even if its family. My
brother is an example. Booze has gotten to his brain and the way he
conducts himself in life is not healthy for my life. Haven’t talked to
him in 5 years or so. It hurts to put boundaries up some times, but I’m
not falling down with him.

nice ----> horse that snorkles

If the mind believes there is only one love for the heart on a planet of
3+ billion humans then that mind is stuck in scarcity thinking. I have
loved 2 wonderful partners and love my kids as well.

Yes the pain of an ended relationship was there and there were years of
restriction, But I full well know that I’ll meet someone who I’ll love
again.
How will I know that love is shared.? It will show up slightly
differently and yet the same deep emotional stirring. It will be
something beyond euphoria, something that when I check in with myself,
has a deeper stronger vibration. Something more stable than a fleeting
emotion.

OOOoohhhhh to get past that shut down. Trust, trust in my self. Trust
that I will survive no matter what. Trust that as I check in with myself
I will listen to what is going on and act accordingly.