clementine
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If you're in a relationship, you damn well know the difference between the silent treatment and backing off as a preventative measure...The silent treatment is a game of control, a test of wills...It just makes a bad situation worse...It's immature and beyond stoopid...Backing off to avoid saying something or doing something that can permanently damage the relationship is a sign of self control and genuine caring for the other person... I agree 100%, when you live with someone who wants complete control and doesn't care what they say to hurt others. It is easier to walk away than to cause pain. |
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open minded
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Welcome to mingle if you wait they will come
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Dream on
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well im new
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Welcome to Mingle hope you find what you are looking for. It is snowing here
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Oh, the asterisks.
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This isn't a cheap-shot at the rules. I'm just throwing out a question - How does everyone on here feel about the blocking of "swear words" on this site by replacing them with asterisks? Do you feel it's age-appropriate given that you have to be 18 to be on here? Does it impede your ability to say what you want to as freely, or does the restriction force you to reconsider the language you use? Give me your feels, folks. I can get my message across without using swear words. look who it is it was your ***** that got blanked |
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Oh, the asterisks.
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It forces you to rethink your language I was blanked once for using the word ***** referring to a cat, lets see what happens this time
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I work for an ex military, when he says jump you are supposed to say how high, not put it where the sun doesn't shine. He screams and yells at everybody else except me. I have an evil twin and invented her just for work, comes in very handy. As long as you are polite and follow protocol there is nothing they can do. Also never have closed door meetings, always make sure you have witnesses
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Hi...
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Welcome to mingle, good luck with your search
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Welcome to mingle hoe you find what you are looking for
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I guess it depends on our age, if we were brought up that you don't make the first move. Sometimes we just aren't used to being in the dating scene and honestly don't know what to do or how to approach someone.
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So what are you strategizing
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nothing to say..
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Yes.. silence is golden.. I often say more with my lips closed.. then.. I could ever say with them open.. if you know what I mean... Winky winky...lol.. You will have to ask Jars |
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I see someone who is beautiful and full of love someone who is not afraid of their age, and is comfortable with who they are and proud of their accomplishments. I see someone that no matter what has happened in the past is ready to go forward and deal with the future. Who cares for everyone regardless of who they are or what they have done.
Have just found out that I am going to be a grandmother and am highly delighted. |
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Hi there seem to be a lot in Ontario am hailing from Georgetown
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seeking partner
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Welcome to mingle and good luck with your search
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attention all
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Welcome to mingle you have come to a good place to meet people, good luck in your search
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"BE YOURSELF",really?Really?
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I am who I am if you don't like it to bad I have two sides to my personality one side will do anything for any one, my other side is the evil twin she only pops up when I am afraid of being hurt I can always draw her out and she takes care of business. Ask jars
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New with time to spare
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Well you have obviously been here for a little while if you want to talk to people the forum is the place to be, welcome to Mingle, hope you enjoy yourself
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Some Men Are Funny
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I realize I really hate to describe things in life as a good old cliche but yet again, I'm being pulled into that direction by a message I got from a dude I'd just told, again, I'm not into dating and relationships as of now. The message is as follows: "U know... I hear u... Sometimes I don't think I'm in the right place for dating or relationships either.. I had a BAD break up in the spring time about 2 months before I started talking to u. But I think you are an interesting person. So if u would be open to taking it light and starting off as friend I'm totally down with that. And perhaps that would better for me too. Would u be open to grabbing a cup of joe with me?" Where's the nearest cheese grader so I can run my face on it? Dude, I flat out told you no three times. Why do guys keep doing this? I am passed the stage of mild annoyance and more into the comedic aspects of this guy's bravado of going in for a fourth time after the emphatic no was shoved forward. Any ladies have this happen to them recently? Yes but mine was different this guy has been trailing me since I joined Wants to meet, determined to meet, tells me what a nice guy he is, what a great lady I am, when the meet shows up he doesn't show always a great excuse. Told him today I am guilty of giving people more chances than they deserve but when I'm done I'M DONE. don't think he gets it when I came on site tonight there he was on my profile again. I am normally a very nice person but my evil twin is about to take over God help this dude, if she catches him he is history |
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