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.. tell me what you see...lol
You..know.. I wanted to make a topic.. so we may be able to discuss.. things we like or don't like about our selves.. I'm not talking physical attributes.. like my nose is a little bit crooked...no.... I'm thinking more... .... perhaps you look in the mirror and see.. your mother or father staring back at you.. . perhaps you look in the mirror, and see somebody that has been a bit dishonest... or to giving.. or naive ... perhaps you look in the mirror. .... And think I wish I would have.. finished college..... .. are you strong enough to honestly look in the mirror... . sometimes I am not strong enough.. .. I like Who I am for the most part.. .. and throughout my life... big or small I have done wrong to .some people..... never maliciously.... . but I know I could have done better.. .. perhaps been a little more honest.. .. perhaps not charged quite as much.... ... I could have put in a little more effort... with some family members... for instance.. perhaps call them first.. . ask how they are doing... ... sometimes I can overthink things. way too much.. and it keeps me from moving forward... it is like.. I think I know how it's going to end.. so what's the point... . sometimes when I'm shoveling my sidewalk.. it would be easy for me to quickly do my neighbors... walkways for her..... I feel bad for saying this.. but sometimes I don't shovel her walk ways for her..... I think to myself let her do them herself... but sometimes I do do them.. . so when I look in the mirror I can say.. I am NOT totally a bad person.. . and when I look in the mirror its my dad.... and my uncle..... who I resemble the most ... when you look in the mirror.. .. do you think there are things you wish.. you would have done different.. ... things you would like to change. .. or perhaps your ..just OK with everything.. . . . . |
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When i look in the mirror i see disgust....mainly for my past mistakes and for being a fool for love
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When i look in the mirror i see disgust....mainly for my past mistakes and for being a fool for love Sometimes we see in the mirror what we want to see..whether it's things we like or things we don't. We need to be able to see the image that is reflected back to us and to others - witch is a person of individuality and uniqueness. Think about the positive things that you have inside, that cannot be seen, but are reflected towards others. |
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Some 8 years ago I sat outdoors, and saw my reflection in a window and suddenly it was as if something shifted and I saw myself for who I really am. The real me, and I was totally flabbergabbered .. Sat there in awe, looking at my reflection, as if seeing myself for the first time, like really seeing me, without masks, shields etc. etc.
Now I see that almost every day when I look in the mirror, the light of my real true inner me shining out of my eyes .. So when I look in the mirror and see myself, I sometimes just stand there .. watch myself in wonder .. almost as if it's not me, but knowing and feeling it is me .. but it still amazes me .. It's just so beautiful! Eyes really are the mirrors of the soul 
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I am totally fine with myself. Everyone makes mistakes. You can't live with guilt and regret. It will consume and destroy you. Just roll with the punches and stop trying to please everyone else but yourself.
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Every time i look at the mirror i kept on saying to my self....
I hate these...I hate these! No more beach...No more beach, but I love the beach! Because of beach many freckles formed on my face.. I applied herbal medicine, some kind of cream they suggest but oh my gosh! not effective. Some of my friends kept on comparing my legs to my face that my legs is much prettier than my face. Reason not to wear a dress anymore! I feel so much uncomfortable and conscious... Any suggestion from the mingler? 
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Every time i look at the mirror i kept on saying to my self.... I hate these...I hate these! No more beach...No more beach, but I love the beach! Because of beach many freckles formed on my face.. I applied herbal medicine, some kind of cream they suggest but oh my gosh! not effective. Some of my friends kept on comparing my legs to my face that my legs is much prettier than my face. Reason not to wear a dress anymore! I feel so much uncomfortable and conscious... Any suggestion from the mingler?
Yeah, embrace your own beauty!! You got freckles, so what? That's what you are! Freckles are cute! As long as you feel awkward about your face and freckles, others will keep commenting on it, cos you yourself convey the message that it's unattractive. As soon as you accept it and see the beauty in yourself, WITH freckles, their comments will stop. I got freckles, so I never get an even tan (I don't get a tan anyways, I just burn). I must say I like my freckles, it's just really "me"! I don't hide myself, and if ppl comment on my legs being white, I don't give a flying **** - excuse my French  And cos I don't care, no one ever comments on it ... I got great looking legs, and no, they don't really get a tan, but they're still good looking legs, and I won't hide 'em!
Love yourself..
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I agree...^^ she does have nice looking legs...
 
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I agree...^^ she does have nice looking legs...
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Every time i look at the mirror i kept on saying to my self.... I hate these...I hate these! No more beach...No more beach, but I love the beach! Because of beach many freckles formed on my face.. I applied herbal medicine, some kind of cream they suggest but oh my gosh! not effective. Some of my friends kept on comparing my legs to my face that my legs is much prettier than my face. Reason not to wear a dress anymore! I feel so much uncomfortable and conscious... Any suggestion from the mingler?
Yeah, embrace your own beauty!! You got freckles, so what? That's what you are! Freckles are cute! As long as you feel awkward about your face and freckles, others will keep commenting on it, cos you yourself convey the message that it's unattractive. As soon as you accept it and see the beauty in yourself, WITH freckles, their comments will stop. I got freckles, so I never get an even tan (I don't get a tan anyways, I just burn). I must say I like my freckles, it's just really "me"! I don't hide myself, and if ppl comment on my legs being white, I don't give a flying **** - excuse my French And cos I don't care, no one ever comments on it ... I got great looking legs, and no, they don't really get a tan, but they're still good looking legs, and I won't hide 'em!
Love yourself..
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I agree...^^ she does have nice looking legs...
Hahaha  Thank you 
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.. tell me what you see...lol You..know.. I wanted to make a topic.. so we may be able to discuss.. things we like or don't like about our selves.. I'm not talking physical attributes.. like my nose is a little bit crooked...no.... I'm thinking more... .... perhaps you look in the mirror and see.. your mother or father staring back at you.. . perhaps you look in the mirror, and see somebody that has been a bit dishonest... or to giving.. or naive ... perhaps you look in the mirror. .... And think I wish I would have.. finished college..... .. are you strong enough to honestly look in the mirror... . sometimes I am not strong enough.. .. I like Who I am for the most part.. .. and throughout my life... big or small I have done wrong to .some people..... never maliciously.... . but I know I could have done better.. .. perhaps been a little more honest.. .. perhaps not charged quite as much.... ... I could have put in a little more effort... with some family members... for instance.. perhaps call them first.. . ask how they are doing... ... sometimes I can overthink things. way too much.. and it keeps me from moving forward... it is like.. I think I know how it's going to end.. so what's the point... . sometimes when I'm shoveling my sidewalk.. it would be easy for me to quickly do my neighbors... walkways for her..... I feel bad for saying this.. but sometimes I don't shovel her walk ways for her..... I think to myself let her do them herself... but sometimes I do do them.. . so when I look in the mirror I can say.. I am NOT totally a bad person.. . and when I look in the mirror its my dad.... and my uncle..... who I resemble the most ... when you look in the mirror.. .. do you think there are things you wish.. you would have done different.. ... things you would like to change. .. or perhaps your ..just OK with everything.. . . . . I don't really look at myself in the mirror. I just make sure Im halfway presentable before going out. |
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 Nope; won't fall for that again, nope not me, had the **** scared out of me then. So i turned all my mirrors backwards, Now i'm looking at YOU!! 
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when I look in the mirror I see someone I can be happy with.
kind of a dummy. still naive about a lot of things. biotchy days like anyone else. willing to look for the bright side. all in all, ok learning |
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what I see in the mirror depends on my immidiate mood - but very often I see two faces chalenging each other. The first one feels strong, satisfied with the fact that she has never been a hypocryt, she never made compromises about the values she felt as most important, even if it would bring her much easier life then she had. But the other face of her is a coward, undervaluing herself, doubting of herself, sometimes feeling pitty for herself. But the first face always asks the second: if you could change the way you lived, what would you do? And the second face always replies: wouldnοΏ½t change it and desapares.
No regrets. But yes, I would change one thing: be bravier and more self confident. Very often I overthink things that just wonοΏ½t happen. |
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A happy face..
A smile that hides a deepest secrets
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Edited by
dcastelmissy
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Thu 12/04/14 04:15 PM
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I've been through so much in experiences; in the end I love whom I have become; no regrets whatsoever! Anything encountered in life has made me stronger, more loving, and infinitely more understanding of others!
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Look in the mirror...everyday and say... to your image...
I love you. Everyday...Simply...honestly and completely... I love you. Even if you don't feel it...at first... Honestly and completely...continue to say... I love you. Everyday... Try it...for 30 days..and see... How much you find that...Simply, honestly and completely... You can say... I love you. 
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Hmmmm...I see a simple lady...way too kind...need to toughen up a bit...super friendly and way too generous...the thought of saying or doing something that could hurt someone's feelings...hurts mine more...perhaps I should put what I want and need first...hmmmm...probably not..honest to a fault...but hardly ever say what I should..when I try I usually put my foot in my mouth..trust and believe in everyone...good thing my heart broke along time ago...but hey...I am who I am...and I love me to bits...
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