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Wed 07/25/07 08:54 AM
You are always thinking Massage.


Question 1...doesn't matter, I'd still tell. The reason is that we are assuming that one party only is my friend. If it's both parties....that's tricky because it is not clear as to where my loyalties lie.indifferent In that situation I'd let them sort it out themselves and try to be a friendly ear to both. That way I might be able to see that they are only hurting themselves with their behavior.

Question 2...Absolutely. If there is a cheating spouse, then the marriage is already destroyed

Question 3...yes

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Wed 07/25/07 07:39 AM
Thanks Vis! That's pretty cool!blushing blushing blushing


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Wed 07/25/07 07:38 AM
*Eyes real wide an innocent, batting them just a tad* What?

bigsmile

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Wed 07/25/07 07:21 AM
LMAO *gasps*...you are going to get me in trouble at worklaugh

Sappy doesn't really work for me...not all the time anyway. Sure it's fun to get all sticky every now and again, but it's way more fun to laugh. I save the sappy/sticky stuff for people I get to see offlinebigsmile

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Wed 07/25/07 07:06 AM
As for me, I love with my heart, my whole heart and nothing but my heart. I have varying degrees of love of course...but in the end it all comes from one place.

I don't let other people dictate my actions either, which can be difficult when I love somebody (because love is unconditional).

However, my brain helps me to be smart about it. Even if I love someone, that doesn't make them infallible, and it doesn't mean they love me back. I have to be cold and intellectual in realizing that my love is one-sided, that I need to love myself and not become a doormat. Too, when a loved one does something inappropriate, I have to give them tough-love. No matter what type of love I'm giving though, it always comes from the heart.:wink:

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Wed 07/25/07 07:06 AM
As for me, I love with my heart, my whole heart and nothing but my heart. I have varying degrees of love of course...but in the end it all comes from one place.

I don't let other people dictate my actions either, which can be difficult when I love somebody (because love is unconditional).

However, my brain helps me to be smart about it. Even if I love someone, that doesn't make them infallible, and it doesn't mean they love me back. I have to be cold and intellectual in realizing that my love is one-sided, that I need to love myself and not become a doormat. Too, when a loved one does something inappropriate, I have to give them tough-love. No matter what type of love I'm giving though, it always comes from the heart.:wink:

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Wed 07/25/07 06:59 AM
Yeah, it's pretty much the best movie ever, lol!

*Whips out glowsticks to techno version of 'Scotty'drinker

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Wed 07/25/07 06:54 AM
Hmmm, since Mike is already up there...

Tomo means friend in Japanese, and as far as I know it can be a unisex name.bigsmile

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Tue 07/24/07 07:31 PM
The way I have always looked at the whole, "Ask and ye shall receive," philosophy - which also needs to maintain harmony with "free-will" is this:

Many of us will have influential people in our lives, people whom we idolize, admire, and seek to emulate. For me, morally the person that acts as my mentor is my father. Not because he helps me with any situation that ask him to help me with, but because by his example and by all that he has taught me he continually helps me in everything that I do.

In the same way, Jesus/God helps us whenever we ask it; by praying we are recalling the Lord and are able to draw strength from the knowledge that should we truly need it, He is there. However, He knows better what we need, allowing us to fall at times, and then pick ourselves up. With God, prayer is that phone call you make to your folks, or to a mentor when you need to feel good...you know the one.

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Tue 07/24/07 07:13 PM
You have to switch computers and light a squirrel on fire.

Trust me, it's the only way.indifferent

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Tue 07/24/07 07:10 PM
It's not really a tough decision for me, I'd tell the friend. I might lose the friend that way, but I don't really have a choice. To me, it's about what is right, and what isn't. To let my friend be deceived like that is unacceptable.

I think of it this way, if my friend wanted to buy a car, and I could tell that he was about to be ripped off, I would tell my friend what I knew to be true and why...if they didn't believe me I'd drop the issue and let make their decision.

Basically this is just a more verbose version of Allsmiles comment, but it was a comment worth repeating.

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Tue 07/24/07 02:02 PM
But I think the ladies can look lovely in make-up!laugh

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Tue 07/24/07 12:02 PM
Mmmmmm, Maple Syrup, *drools*smokin

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Tue 07/24/07 09:49 AM
Well...there is the fear of imminent death...so I was understating:wink:

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Tue 07/24/07 08:27 AM
LOL, I wish I had school as a separator! My problem is that my "creepy ex" is also my secretary explode

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Tue 07/24/07 08:20 AM
Well...unless herself is a sick freak who wishes harm upon all that surrounds her.


...Ok, if she's naked then that's still kind of hot:tongue:

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Tue 07/24/07 08:18 AM
Scotty doesn't know that Fiona and me
Do it in my van every Sunday.
She tells him she's in church but she doesn't go
Still she's on her knees and Scotty doesn't know!

Oh Scotty doesn't know!
So Don't Tell Scotty!
Scotty doesn't know!
Scotty doesn't know!
So Don't Tell Scotty!

Fiona says she's out shopping,
But she's under me and I'm not stopping...

Because Scotty doesn't know!
Scotty doesn't know! (X3)
So don't tell Scotty!
Scotty doesn't know!

Don't tell Scotty!

I can't believe he's so trusting,
While I'm right behind you thrusting.
Fiona's got him on the phone,
And she's trying not to moan.
It's a three-way call and he knows nothing!

Scotty doesn't know!(X3)
So don't tell Scotty!
Scotty doesn't know!(X3)

We'll put on a show!
Everyone will go!
Scotty doesn't know!(x3)

The parkin lot
Why not? It's so cool when you're on top!
His front lawn in the snow
Life is so hard because Scotty doesn't know!

We did it on his birthday...

Scotty doesn't know!(X4)

Scotty doesn't know!
Scotty won't know!
Scotty doesn't know!
Scotty's gotta know!
Gotta tell Scotty!
Gotta tell him myself!
Scotty doesn't know! (X10)


[Chant] Scotty doesn't know! (x7)
[Chant] Scotty's gotta go!


**laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh , I love that movielaugh laugh laugh

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Tue 07/24/07 08:10 AM
Bloomingdales summer room collectionbigsmile

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Tue 07/24/07 08:08 AM
LOL, yeah, I'm an addict alright!bigsmile

It makes it interesting since I work with computers and the internet all day anyway...so even when I'm not goofing off cause I have to buckle down...it's there waiting for me like a really creepy ex-girlfriend that I can't stop sleeping withlaugh

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Tue 07/24/07 07:43 AM
When she's wearing a modified She-ra costume:wink:

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