And I know some women you keep their electric toothbrush in their bedside table ;)

I would hope to God the person ur kissing or sharing a toothbrush has good dental hygiene. Lol I run my toothbrush under scalding hot water before and after lol

It's not wrong and neither is it right. It's what's right for the person.


is it wrong 4 a lady to be a virgin till d wedding night.dat is why my guys are leaving me.l need my advice

I respect and admire your commitment to God, even though I do not feel the same way myself.

Well, as a christian... the Bible itself does not encourage sex before marriage, i'm just 23 and loving each day.. ... i'm keeping that for the man who deserves it...
i fall for a man's personality and how he carries himself also his sense of humor and maybe.... looks too... but damn... he's got to be EDUCATED!!!

what a weird opening statement to make? I think you are still confusing sex and intimacy. I reserve real intimacy with my life long partner not my out of relationship sexual encounter. Those are never intimate for me. I look at it the same way as I look as self masturbation. (just a way of getting your 'rocks' off)

I frankly could care less about the human race and it's survival . I love sex for what it is intimate moments thinking about nothing else or anyone else except the person in your arms.

Not crazy, perfectly normal for most. Not everyone is the same though.

years after menopause my desire for sex seems to be stronger than ever am I crazy?

I'm on your side with the hairy chest preference :)
I could not go out with anyone who wears a rug on his head over over-combes.


I honestly don't have a preference. Each man looks differently with bald hair so its really hard to say.
If he is happy with the way he looks ,that's all that really matters to me.
As for the rest of him, I like him to be natural...love a hairy chest.

I like my men to be like men with all the hair possible. I'm definitely not into smooth bodies and definitely not into men who shave their pubes to look like boys.
I can see why some sportsmen would do it though.

The body waxing thing that some guys get these days is called a "back, sack and crack". They do it because some women don't like a guy with a hairy back and arse I suppose. The only other waxing that men go in for that I've heard about is sportsmen, like cyclists that do it because of chafing or something.

I agree, with the exception on women ( although there are the one in 1,0000000000000 who can pull it off)

Bald is beautiful!

each to their own :) No ways I would have any part of my body waxed. I love body hair (except on women) The guys that tend to wax themselves are the ones that usually pump iron and want to show off their hard work (again - No comment!)
My partner is growing his hair long at the moment and has a very full beard (The hippy lumberjack look) - His long hair just doesn't do it for me though, not at age 50. Would suit younger guys better IMHO.

I don't know about the low matinance or sexy deal but to each his own. Myself i'm not going bald neither and prefer "the hippy" look for myself as well as a mustache, beard combination "especially in the winter"but change up periodically with facial hair. But seeing all these advertisements on television about"men waxing" their body hair as well made me wonder what the story was for that? Guess i have to wait for a womans view when they wake up.

I can only speak from my own experience, I too have delved into experiencing a lot of my fantasies, most were great! and repeated many times. Some on the other hand never measured anywhere close to my actual fantasy and are best forgotten.
Some of my, what I call my wilder fantasies, I prefer to keep them as that, as in reality it's not something I would really in all honesty, like to experience.

I'm actually struggling to think of any sexual fantasy that I have that I haven't actually done and no, I'm not particularly into talking about it. I just do it. I'm open minded though and open to suggestions. Actually felt a bit flattered a while a go when a girl asked me to take her up the shiter and didn't mind at all when she said that she didn't like it because I'm bigger than her vibrator.

nothing wrong with opening up to your partner and exploring each others fantasies = We ALL have them, some I know would not like to admit some ;)
My fantasies are kinda boring
Yes I would share but he would prolly smile at me, say "thats cute..but tell me your real ones now"

I would love to know the ones you keep to yourself

Yeah I'd share! I think its a way of keeping things new and fresh! I want for him to share with me too. I keep some to myself as well

Definitely have shared fantasies with my partner in the past... Have had fantasies fulfilled... Some I do keep to myself... Other fantasies will have to wait until a later date...

Why is it in todays fashion that most men shave their head? Is it Fashion or preference? Or is it just preferred by Women now for a Hairless Man, not only head but body as well? Let me know you preference or opinion please!

AHHHH!! the 5th. date syndrome, not unlike the 7 year itch ;)

.. personally I haven't had a bad first date yet.. it starts . going off the tracks around the 5th date.. they start getting all needy..lol.. time for another first date...lol

I have always been gay, regardless the fact I had a girlfriend in my younger teens. During that time, it was a huge struggle for me. I thought I was the only "odd" guy out there with these feeling which I fought so hard to suppress. I dated and had sex with girls (ALWAYS fantasizing having sex with men) at the time as it was all that I was taught society expected of me. I literally fell out the closet at 16 after visiting my 1st. gay club and found out that I was not alone.
And in answer to your question yes I did refer to girls as "chick's back then - what the hell did I know?
I would hope and think that I do know better now, that's all :)



Let me see if I follow you then. You can remember a time when you were younger where it seemed alright to call females birds or chicks. Then you realised that you were gay and it then seemed like a juvinile thing from the past. Well, it would do I suppose.

"Vague" :)
I know....

OMG! Really? :) ........Yes, we kiss our partners and we put our mouths and tongues in "unmentionable" places at times, however I don't share my toothbrush as a general rule.


Sharing a toothbrush with ur lover/booty call/hubby/wife/partner?