women ;) .... and I have MANY times.
Don't get me wrong, I 'love' women,..... just not in the sack.
Been there done that, worn the T shirt and thankfully discovered my true self many years ago sometime during the jurassic period :)

Long distance relationships are a crapshoot in my opinion and don't work.
Interracial relationships can and do work providing there is s100% upport from both family sides.
Hope that helps.

perhaps you need to invest in a "gaydar" ;)

Since you're the one thinking about your ex, I can only assume she was the one that broke up with you and it wasn't mutual. I just don't understand why it bothers you so, that she is now with an older guy?
Surely you cannot be that insecure?

Perhaps it's time for you to move on to greener pastures and forget about your ex altogether.

I certainly wouldn't pine over anyone that was not interested in me period! I would cut my losses and move along. Life's too damn short to waste on others that are not prepared to invest themselves in you.

Good luck!