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I had...otherwise I wouldn't be writing here....but....obviously I am having confusion....
hence the request for help in the context...not matters of what I "could be doing"! |
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of course not silly...
I guess I just ask because a couple guy friends said to NOT reply at all...leave it.... but.... as you could guess, given I was broken up with via text...(at an age it is not a mature thing to do/have) I am still thinking about him...wanting to tell him my day, accomplishments, etc..... but have been a "good girl" and respected his desires....(the "break up") and not said a word...(no matter how much I wanted to!) THEN his msgng me to tell me some random thing in his life??? Friggen confusing to the woman that was "told" it was done!! |
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If u want him back, do whateva u want, cuz we both know u will listen and follow ur heart, and not other people's advice. If u were my sister or daughter I would say stay away from him and move on. His loss! Let him rot in hell. That maybe a bit judgmental... true nonetheless! I obviously will ultimately make the choice best suited to me...but...honestly...the advice from you kind men is a GREAT HELP!!!(otherwise I wouldn't ask!!!) I can appreciate your comment about "if I was your sister or daughter"....never actually talked to my Dad about it...but stil waiting on my brother to get back to me...( I trust HIS judgement more than my Dad's...) Thank you VERY MUCH for your reply and input! |
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.. I would tell him to go sit and think about it really hard for a while..  . just my humble opinion..phD..
suggest I say exactly that? or how?? I thank you for your care to reply!! |
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Long story short...(will add more if people don't mind )
Met a guy via "online"(him:41..me:36)...dated for just over 4 months.. QUITE serious(both were looking for marriage from the get go)....to point of discussing me moving myself, my house pets & horses out to his farm quite soon.... Out of the blue one night as I slept....got a TEXT MESSAGE :breaking up with me... We shared a text/call convoy 5 days later(he started it...)and I drove to his place...spent the weekend(Easter weekend..family and all...) then the day I drove home he dropped the final goodbye type comment.... I have gone about my life... Doing my activities, enjoying friends, sharing time with my horses...etc etc(to stay in a healthy mindset after the breakup) Today after just over 2 weeks since I drove off his property.. I got a text in the middle of my workday from him... telling me..(probably can't quote here..not sure)very exuberant hello.. telling me the outcome of the loaner truck he got while his truck is in the repair shop.... in the message he mentions things about the loaner truck that were things we both talked about as something WE would have when we had a truck for US.... I congratulated him on his truck obviously being repaired... he continued to talk about it..&..send me pics!! I replied " I am happy for you.. But I must admit..QUITE confused about getting a message from you!" his response(no quote unless permitted) he said he was just saying hi..that he should be leaving me alone..hope all is well....(with LOTS of simile faces & exclamation points.... Guy friends @ work gave some insight...awaiting insight from my little brother, and best friend(guy) But.... Really.....what should I do/say...if anything? To me (and maybe it is my hopes getting up...?) but the point of him saying he "should likely leave me alone" almost sounds like a question from him (knowing how he talks and such) REALLY REALLY need some sound, nonjudgmental advice from MEN mostly...but ladies welcome... Thank you all! |
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My caution to you is this, dont let the next girl you find just be a filler for an empty spot. It would not be fair to either you or them if they are the rebound girl. Very well put! Thank you for stating that!!! It's hard going through divorce as any of us that have been there know... First and foremost.....be true to YOURSELF!!!!!! Once THAT is good.....we know that we are "fit for another" |
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I can also sympathize.... I am quite close to 37 and get "carded" when my little brother (7 yrs younger doesn't) or when on a date with a man my age or a few years older.....
I say....ENJOY IT!!!! I know I have good genes, so....even though one of the commenter s says "wait until you are 40..." I say....ppphooey!!! not ALL @ 40 look 40!!! Live your life as YOU wish, and the one happy to be there and enjoy your mature life yet youthful exterior is somewhere around the corner..... |
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Topic:
First Impressions
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Better to be honest now or suffer the consequences later!
I agree! Some very few are ACTUALLY here to find a chance to meet that one special someone!!! That is what the site is for.... if you want a general "hook up" ... go to your local "questionable area" and there are MANY willing to tell you the lies you seem to need....and share.... Be respectful as this individual in the quote, and be true to YOURSELF, and give the good people a chance!!! |
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But we don't want that. Thats stff you can do with someone you have are dating or in a long term relationship with. You can't do that with someone you just meet. HERE HERE!!!! Quite true!!! pretty outputting to have this once we as women give you the chance to have our personal information and THAT is the first thing to come through!!!THIS amongst other very private things should be saved for when there is a definite connection of monogamy! |
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Was asked if I know how to cast spells.....that he wanted to be turned into a cigarette so he knew how it felt to be carried in a woman's purse....he was quite adamant about it!!Wouldn't take kind "brush off" as a sign of deterrent....
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Topic:
What Do Men Really Look For?
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a man walks upon a beach picks up a stone.. rolls it over in his hand.. looks at it throws it away.. another man comes along. takes up the same stone.. rolls it over in his hand... looks at it intently.. cleans it polish it.. puts the time and energy into it.. and winds up with a pricelis diamond... same stone the the other man simply threw away... pretty sure there's a point in there somewhere.. very nicely put!!! I take this to mean that to each there is a value unseen to others, and THAT is what makes that "other half" special and valuable to them! To each their own, and forget what others think...to YOU they are the most precious person! :D |
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Topic:
Chat???
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Thank you for the reply. The individual states that the "IM" doesn't work on an iPad....is this correct, or is it a "ploy" to get me to contact them with private menas?
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Thank you very much "Pacific Star48"
would you care to elaborate? and since you have commented on each and every one of my "posts" may I ask, are you an administrator or a "part "of this site as such? |
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Topic:
Horse's
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Bless your heart for giving that precious soul a good lot in life!
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Topic:
Chat???
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Is there a secure chat function on here that I and the individual I am corresponding to are curious to utilize for safety/security of self?
Something like a chat screen that stays within the site, and does not ask you to offer your personal (skype, msn, yahoo, etc)IM/ chat ? |
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We could, but I am not here for general conversation, I am here to find a mate.
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Topic:
ACCIDENTALLY deleted ALL
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dcastlemissy is correct. Once they are deleted, either by the member or after 30 day, they are purged. Kim Site moderator Thank you. I will take this as a sign I was not meant to read those ones.. Thanks for the input! |
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My one horse follows kittens all over the place and got down on his front legs and tried to crawl under the grain silo to follow the kitten....When it jetted out the back...he jumped up and started playing "hide n seek" around the trees and fences....the silly guy sure loves and is SOOOO careful with anything smaller than him :D
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Topic:
my horse , my love
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I can only imagine What is in your heart, What do you feel When we are apart? My horse, my love, I have given you my all Do you dream of me, Do you think of me at all? My horse, my love, I gaze into your eyes Your presence fills the air Ever the same, ever a surprise My horse, my love, Do you care for me? I dream of you at night When you are all I see   
Very beautiful! They DO dream of us! Just look into those big warm eyes and know that they see and feel the love that you have for them compounded tremendously! |
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Topic:
ACCIDENTALLY deleted ALL
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Once you delete them, they're gone. Sorry. Thanks, ... but... I would expect they are SOMEWHERE! This is the internet! NOTHING actually disappears.... |
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