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Are we happy?
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Yes very much so, and try to get people to laugh, sometimes hard to find others with a sense of humor 
 Agree totally, That's one of my purposes in life as far as i'm concerned! Then there's the "Devil" in me to be aggravating "in fun only" too many take life too seriously without adding Fun!! No dirty talk intended! But here as of late i'm the near or last post to shutdown a topic???  Cardiac Stimulation ? 
You didn't shut it down, not many people here... So hard to get a giggle or laughter. I was just reading a lot of posts in the community, people ask for comments and then complain about it... we need more happy people who are not so judgemental and stressed out.
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First thing i'm not putting anyone down for the way they want to live!! But money might make you "comfortable" in life but it "does not" make you happy and i don't care what sex you are!! I've grown up poor and those were the happiest years of my life!! Now after working my butt off to achieve a goal set by me to retire i'm not too sure it was all worth the effort because i know when i die that stays behind" I can't take it to the grave"!! But at least my daughter will be Ok and deserve it!! As in my next post on here "Officially- Unofficially Homeless" You will see why!! My Daughter thought i was Crazy!! But its been the best relaxing time in my life without a lot of Stress!! And I'm sorry i didn't do it 10 years sooner!!
Most of us don't live quite the extreme as you do, but I am very extreme compared to others. I have a very inexpensive place to live, I could care less about having the newest or best of anything. It took me a lot of years to find this life style and would not trade it for anything. I live without stress and drama and will enjoy my "golden years".. I deserve it. I can see why you love it and don't hold that against you one bit
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Sometimes we can't see the trees for the forest being in the way. I don't comment often... people make fun of me, but I will say this: If I found the perfect gentlemen, which I do look for ... but there was something about him which deep inside troubled me (reflecting on a past experience) such has the way he drive the car(because I was in a bad crash) or he talks way too much, I would not continue the relationship. Better to leave one early than much further down the road. You may have not done anything wrong, but in her eyes you were not meant for her.
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I found one once who was a fan of Final Fantasy. I asked her about her user name since I figured it was a reference to it and I was right. I don't recall what her name was and even if I did I probably wouldn't give it as I doubt she would want to be harassed by everyone in this thread. hahaha Absolutely correct... I play with hundreds, sometimes thousands on facebook. Depending on how deeply involved I want to be, i.e. how bored our lives become. Most are women and if they get harassed, they can get the person banned.
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what attracts u to him/her
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It's not so much physical appearance, don't get me wrong it would help if he were short, hairy and intelligent. It's more about his likes and dislikes. I don't want him to be exactly like me of course... prefer one that works with his hands... tools, woodwork, fishing, gardening. I find they are much better than couch potatoes.. and to me this is sexy. Even another man told me long ago.. .a guy who gardens has a very good soul. Personality makes a huge difference... I want to laugh and giggle with someone, can't do this if their nose is always in a book lol
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Cant find any1 i match with!
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Too fussy, possibly, difficult to tell from a few sentences. Thing is, if the click isn't there, there's nothing much you can do about it. And no, do NOT settle for less. Why should you? Wouldn't be fair to the other, nor to you. Just enjoy life and at some point you'll meet the right guy
Perfect answer, thank you for saying that.... I will never lower my standards, nor should any woman looking. Be proud of who you are, never stoop or you will be very unhappy... been there, done that years ago. Age makes us wiser, listen to your heart
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Topic:
WHO ALL CRIED WHEN
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You turned 40 and realistically..was it a life changing event for you? not really... when the hair on the back of my head turned white from an accident, that bothered me for a while.. until it all started turning grey lol .... now I fit in at the community where I live 
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Guys,why don't you ignore the non-active accounts,shades wearing accounts,non-white accounts,no pic accounts and "foreign" accounts!!?? Simple as that! Getting cranky might give one an ulcer you know!? Goodluck with "overhauls"! Getting cranky no... I'm a realist.. stating a fact.. there will be no "overhauls" I'm sure |
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I think this site needs an overhaul... mine is full of inactive accounts in my area.. also I would like everyone to have a profile picture of themselves.. I just got viewed many times only one had a picture.. this is terrible.. needs to be fixed or I will close my account. Most of those that come through are black men... no offense but I'm white and I will never, ever go out with another race... we need filters for these things in a hurry... I'm getting very cranky. and I use all filters that exist for mail.. I Don't want these people viewing me, they are here just to stare and too chicken to show their faces
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It may not be what is wrong with you.. rather.. what is wrong with society. I grew up in a small town where everyone knew everyone. And we could knock on the door and have coffee and chat at anytime.. we were welcome with open arms. I moved to Florida in 1972. Only once had a nice neighbor who would act like those did so many years before. I am finding a lot of folks here just want to look, stare, nudge and not really know anyone. A lot of them have no picture, wear sunglasses or from other countries. They should just go to the beach and stare ... In my area no one.. not anyone is ever on line.. that tells me a lot right there. I suggest going to the community, get to know others there... Remember.. a lot of ladies do not like a man with a bad mouth... Be impolite one time and they will remember you for sure.. one to avoid. Good luck.
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the true kind of love
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That's what we call true love yes, true love indeed, very hard to find and hold on to it when you do find it 
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Older men and younger women
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Is it wrong for older men(50&up) to want to date or mate with younger women.(30's or so) Who is the judge and what is the virdict. Maybe the question should be is it wrong for younger women to date and mate older men. whats your thoughts? What are you feeling guilty? Guess so.. your hiding behind dark sunglasses.... I just wanted to get that off my chest.. I don't usually speak to anyone wearing sunglasses here or without a photo.. as for your topic.. that is your business... |
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pissed off
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this is a great post abhi. There are many people who will benefit from the information you're discussing here. You are not alone in your confusion and it would be great to clear up the misunderstandings about this. I totally agree. The problem being most of those that need to read this never visit the community. So many are just out there with no description of themselves at all. If you have read any of my posts to this community you will know that I am not doing well here on this site at all in the regard to "men". Start with a good description of what you are looking for and describe yourself, then start learning to make good conversation about it. A lot of women will not be friends or favorites, send kisses etc. with a stranger because they want to know a person well, which would be the foundation for a relationship. |
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what's wrong with men
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Guess they are all in the dark cave... they can stay there for all I care if they only want to think about their brains between their legs... there is much more to life than this~!
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Most of the men that approach me have children. I've had mine.. I don't want another ready made family.. if fact I don't want a man that has a young child. I state that in my profile, but they don't read. So I've shut off chat.... with hope more will read before messaging. I have seen zero people from my area online... no one... on occasion one will chat looking for sex.. that has been the only exception.... all they want is sex... that is not why I'm here... this is just my experience.
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Why do you need a hug?
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Hug? Well I hug my cat... it's been so long since I have received one from a man... I don't really remember one very well... Yes, I've had my shower and wear my deodorant~!
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looking for a nice gal
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you want love and sex and too bashful to post your face.. hahahahha... good luck... I slam the door on anyone just looking for sex
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theres noone to talk too
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All they can see is a yellow shirt and an red background
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try to fix it or open a new account. Most that don't use pictures.. don't get the time of day here. I see those that lie about their age and just pass them on by.....
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Topic:
Are we happy?
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Yes very much so, and try to get people to laugh, sometimes hard to find others with a sense of humor
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