Exactly, I mean obviously whoever she (or you) are going on a date with is going to know what race you are, and unless you've adopted then they should have at least enough common sense to know that your children are at least what you are (whether bi or total).

Honestly if a guy doesn't want to date a person different from there race, I don't see why they'd even send you a message asking to get to know you more. I wouldn't. Be cautious as it may be a catfish faking dude, either that or some douchebag who just wants to get in your pants.

Ok I'm confused...

Why wouldn't you get the DNA test? It just helps you out in the end. If you don't want him to have anything to do with the child (and it's not his) then he won't.

(I'm not saying it isn't his child but I have no idea who you are, etc).

If it IS his child, then you have that proof. Use the law to your advantage and stay on top of it. That's pretty much all the advice I can give you.

Couldn't agree more

Or in my case a woman who lied and cheated on me for 5 months *high five*

Fair enough, but it's a pretty illogical joke.

Sounds like a real *** and a dead beat father.

You need to go to social services. He's one of those. My sister had to deal with the same thing and so did my ex wife. They base it somewhat on income from what I understand but it's possible he's lying because he doesn't want you to pursue it. Go to social services. Now.

Honestly should it really matter? They can't help who they are and if a guy doesn't want to be with you because of the race of your children then would you be interested in having a relationship with him anyways?

To address your question, I'd say: Yes, definitely be honest about it either before or during the first date. Be blunt and say "You don't think that's a problem do you?" If they do, "Check please" That's what I'd do.

Because women who don't have children don't have sex. Keep telling yourself that. Just because a woman has a child doesn't mean they want the same sexual relationship they've had with other men either. Think with your big head instead of your small one dude. It's guys like you that give us a bad name. Might want to head over to adult friend finder if that's all you want.

I feel ya man, I'm in the same boat.

^^^This guy right here, this guy here...not worth your time.

It can be two sided really. It depends on why they are single AND a mother. Are they single because of what happened to myself? (I.E. because they were married and their husband cheated on them so they left them) or are they single because THEY are the ones who cheated and got kicked out? It works both ways, and (at least to me) it's important and I will ask. I don't want and cannot trust someone who betrayed someones trust like that.

Now for those were were never married it could be two sided as well. Do they have kids because they were promicuous and never wanted a child and now they take care of them because their father doesn't want anything to do with them? Are they single with children because the father died and they are a widow? I mean all these questions are important and matter.

It can't just be generalized into "well what do you think about single mothers."

In my case, if it's the same situation, then I feel their pain and they are probably ready to move on and find someone who will be faithful. That's what I'm looking for. There will never be another biological mother for my daughter but at the same time, I don't want to be alone and anyone I get involved with needs to realize a child can't just be discarded and ignored. She's a big part of my life and schedules for single parents are different. They'll be times we can't go out because she's sick or because I made plans with her or whatever. Hope this helps.

Boys can't be faithful, men can and are faithful.