to all the women out there guys cant be faithfull we can love but when a hot girl comes on to is we just cant say no!!!!god made us this way and yes we do think with are penis!to prove that hit on me and i'll have sex with you as lonh as something about you appeals to me..so in closing marriage is a waste of time it just turns us into liars and that's the facts

right and that is why you do not earn respect.

fortunately I have met guys who are not like you. but we do not respect guys like you. that is corect

marriage doesn't make u a liar

a lack of character and self respect makes you a liar and a cheater

nothing on god's green earth would make me want to have sex with you

most men really are not particularly good at sex any way

On the contrary my friend, guys can be faithful and that simply comes down to meeting that special someone which you can see yourself waking up to for the next 30+ years.

I can't speak for other males, but I can say that if I met someone which I consider would be the one (of course the feeling needs to be mutual with the other person) then being faithful isn't really hard.

Just have to meet that special someone first which is certainly the hard part and another problem comes about because we do live in a superficial world, and trying to find emotional and physical chemistry is quite daunting!!!

Speak for yourself you big fat doodoo head...!

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And the people at jello pudding...

oooo I could think of lotsa fun stuff we could do with jello pudding and a bath tub :)

That's what ***** me about liers and cheats they try to condone their actions by saying I'm a guy

lol
You naughty girl sweet !
I bet that would be LOTS of fun !

Guys can be faithful, real love is faithful and honest. If you really love the one your with then you shouldn't be tempted by anyone else!

f*cin' A totally true! I think actaully men tend to be very loyal

but then there are those like the OP....help

and taste good :)

I'm a guy and I am very faithful, plus it takes longer for me to trust a hot girl

lol...lmfao

This ^^^

Thank you Newbiechick.
When we're young, we're still trying to figure ourselves out. Different people mature at different ages. For those still developing, the lack of self-respect will manifest in different ways. In this case through cheating. I have sympathy with anyone who goes out with such a person believing in monogamy. There are plenty of people (men and women) who are comfortable with open relationships. If both people are fine with that, then go have fun (just please be safe). But if you are honest with yourself, then you'll recognize that you're not able to provide a a completely faithful connection and let the woman decide if she's okay with that.
There are indeed men who can be faithful. Love isn't about seeing a hot girl and getting a hard-on. It's about deciding EVERY DAY that you will be devoted to this one human being. I wish for all of you out there that you can experience this because it's an awesome experience.

Indeed!

The OP is talking with a guilty conscience that's why? I think with the brain in my head and I can be faithful

Pure BS....

Sir I believe you feel this way and are being honest. But believe me one day you will meet a woman that will sweep you off your feet. Your focus will be on pleasing her. When your being physical with her it will be making love not sex.Others will tempt you but you will not be willing to risk losing here for just sex.

Oh what nonsense.

What we have in the OP is a case of psychological projection.

It is like a kid trying to get out of trouble by exclaiming, "Everyone else is doing it!"

Being faithful is a learned behavior just like cheating.

If a child grows up in a home where a parent excuses being self centered and gratifying themselves at any opportunity at the expense of the family well when that craved for attention comes along it is irresistible. They see being dumped as inevitable so the idea of standing by someone when the going gets tempting or bumpy just isn't in their playbook.

Someone who has seen love and marriage survive over the years and sees what that sense of security feels like crave it enough to work for it. It does not mean that temptation doesn't come along it just means it is discounted as not worth degrading themselves or their family for the temptation. Especially if their parents teach them the realities rather than the pretty myths that they are little Prince of Princesses that deserve to be happy without making effort or sacrifices.

Often people have to learn about the costs of relationships the hard way. Sometimes that pain makes them determined to do better in their own life.

Sometimes it makes them paranoid, angry, and distrusting which is poor motivation for someone to be devoted to them. Usually then it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy when the partner gives up on ever earning better treatment and exit the abusive punishing relationship because the love they felt wilts under the pressure.

Good relationships take nurturing and love from both sides. Sadly not quick casual sex that means little more than temporary relief. And sometimes children that were not a choice but a side effect that grow up feeling unwanted and needed.