OK, since apparently I'm implicated in this whole concept somehow....

1. Intelligence -- I've spent most of my life in relationships with women who would have a hard time identifying the front end of a horse. The best gf I ever had was smarter than I am (although she still disputes this).

2. Creative -- I admire people who can draw or write or play an instrument or sing or paint or take pictures or whatever. I have a strong creative drive and tend to get along with others who share this.

3. Communication -- The essence of any good relationship, any good interaction. In my experience, good communicators are practically extinct -- assuming they ever really existed in the first place.

4. "Outside-the-box" -- I am never going to be conventional. If you want the Ward Cleaver type, you're in the wrong yard.

5. No drugs, no alcohol. Lost too many people to those already. They will not be a part of my life.

6. No kids. I take a lot of flak over this one, but the reality is that I would not make a good parent (or parental substitute) and I do not want to be involved with someone who is one. It's a preference, plain and simple. A mandatory preference. It doesn't mean I think you're a bad person, it just means that your priorities are, of necessity, going to be radically different from mine.

7. No preaching. I don't mind being involved with people who hold other religious views. We can talk about that as much as you want. But I am not here to be "converted" or to be condemned to your version of hell simply because I WON'T be converted.

8. Anything political bores me to tears. I'm an anarchist. I don't believe any flawed, fallible human being has any business being given sanctioned authority over other flawed, fallible human beings. If you do, that's fine. I just don't want to hear about it.

9. I can't cook without starting a nine-alarm fire or causing radiation poisoning in a twelve-mile radius. I don't expect you to cook. If you want to, fine. If not, there's Arby's or the microwave. I'm not picky. If it involves beef and/or peanut butter, I'll be fine.

10. If you want to say something, say it. I won't try to pull it out of you. I will ALWAYS be willing to listen but I will not hound it out of you.

11. I don't care if you make more money than me, came from a better family, in a better house, in a better state, or whatever. It's just stuff. If I like you, it's because of you, not because of stuff.

do Canadians count as European?

please forgive this man.......everyone damnit!!
ive done much worse bro..dont worry about it,
gypsys just fukcin with you... shes the coolest

public and private?>???? I didnt get your message.

And the next time you tell someone they wouldnt be worthy because of their pic.........maybe you shouldnt eat that sandwich eh???

cruel, cruel, cruel everyone is so hard on people

whew! good thing, 'Cause I bet your beating those Brunettes and Redheads off with a stick,

yea to bad she is across the pond