1. Intelligence... proven! by degree, training, job experience or intelligent conversation.

2. A life! Meaning a job, friends, and hobbies (other than computer/internet/game system related)

3. HONESTY HONESTY HONESTY.. this includes leaving out information that might make you look bad.

4. Open minded. I have friends from all over the world and from every different type of religion and sexual orientation.

5. Confidence, but not c*cky! You have to be secure with yourself in order to be in a healthy relationship. Someone that once I get going in my career will be able to walk into a formal party with their head held high and make conversation with strangers.

6. Secure. Meaning that you will be secure with any of the following: I may make more money than you. I may have a more powerful career than you. I may have close male friends. I may work many hours.

7. Family Orientated and Eglitarian. You must be willing to raise a family and have equal responsibility for family duties and home duties.

8. Communication. You must be willing to communicate. So, to talk out problems and not walk away from them. And you must be understanding that the way that I understand is to ask questions and continue to ask questions until I understand.


Ok! There are some traits that I am looking for in a real partner. Now what are the ones that you are looking for!

Oh and Where is my REAL person

WOW-that sounds just like me...

hello and welcome to mingle2

lets seee
1. nope
2. nope
3. nope
4. maybe
5. notsure
6. nope
7. possibly
8. nope

guess I'm out of the running

<--PLACES HER ORDER!!!

leave's me out !

Excellent post Tanyaann!

Lets see
1. yes
2. yes
3. yes
4. yes
5. yes
6. yes
7. NO
8. yes
Whoops 1 wrong

Its nice that you the guys want to answer to my wants... but it would be nice if everyone posted what they were looking for!

awww chittt, im cocky

It was inspired from lex's 'real' thread and lily's post! I can't take the credit lily started it!

Try " Mutual Match" News week raves it's the best matching system ever!!

I will be sure to do that!

Mutual Match Rules I Found a Beautiful Blond on it.

she must be short.....
have big bewb's.....
a red head is a big plus +++++
have a since of humor.....
like to cook.......
like to ride ............
other than that im open !

Thanks for posting yours, chevy!

It's in my profile. I know there are men out there that fit my bill, but apparently they are not interested in me.

One day we'll run across them!

There are all sorts of things that fit into the criteria of what I'm looking for in a person, but the thing is that we're looking for PEOPLE and not traits. I find that listing things we're looking for in a person is like putting an ad for a job. Of course we have standards, I'm just saying it's best to look at the individual for their personality and how well you "click" with them. Don't DISCARD the traits you're looking for, but don't overlook someone who doesn't fulfill those traits either. The only thing that comes of listing those traits for other people to read is to encourage the people you meet to put up a front pretending to be everything that you want, then you end up being disappointed down the road when you realize that person isn't what they pretended to be.