I wasn't disagreeing with Lilith, just does the man realize he is thought of as a wus? I would hate to think that the saying, "Nice Guys Finish Last" is a fact. Have you told him to man up?

That is weird now that I think about it.

Damn, you sure call it like it is!!

You R right, I didn't know that. I'm just surprised to see so much of it.

I really expected more comments on this subject or does everyone else agree with putting your kids pics on here?

I'd flirt with U reydar

AZ, not to state the obvious but you look like 26 instead of 36.

I know everyone is proud of their children, I have two myself, but could someone help me understand why people would put pictures of their kids up on this site? I understand keeping them private and then showing to your friends but why put them in as public? Just curious??

Since flirting is allowed..I vote to flirt with Hockey Chick

I promise not to push. I see something there that forces me not to pull away, the eyes, the heart the genuine warmth that I feel even across this space. I want the whole package but I would love to just have you as a real friend since you are so close and so real.

Tuna sandwich with spicy mustard on rye with dill pickle slices.

Don't worry, you will get that dream job back.

MM hasn't been too effective in starting conversations.

Thank you ladies. Sounds like email 1st is a safe bet.

If I leave here tomorrow
Would you still remember me?
For I must be travelling on now,
cause theres too many places I've got to see

OK, ladies only, which way is better to strike up a conversation? Email or IM??

I see trees of green, red roses too
I see them bloom for me and for you
And I think to myself what a wonderful world

I hear Louis Armstong's voice in my head singing this song everytime I see, hear or read anything involving 9/11. I drove 800 miles on 9/12 to get home to my family and every NPR station @ every college town between Green bay and KC played this song.

That is classic TJN. Please tell me that is not true???

Find where they R coming in from the outside and stuff the hole with steel wool.

I haven't thought of this song in 25 years. Used to drink beer with my best friend listening to this one over and over. Some things never change

Eagles
Hotel California (1976)
Wasted Time

Well, baby, there you stand
with your little head down in your hand.
Oh my God, you can't believe it's happening again.
Your baby's gone and you're all alone and it looks like the end.

And you're back out on the street
and you're tryin' to remember.
How do you start it over? You don't know if you can.
You don't care much for a stranger's touch but you can't hold your man.

You never thought you'd be alone
this far down the line
and I know what's been on your mind,
you're afraid it's all been wasted time.

The autumn leaves have got you thinking
about the first time that you fell.
You didn't love the boy too much,
no no, you just loved the boy too well.
Farewell.

So you live from day to day
and you dream about tomorrow, oh.
And the hours go by like minutes and the shadows come to stay.
So ya take a little something to make them go away.

And I could have done so many things, baby,
if I could only stop my mind
from wond'rin' what I left behind
and from worryin' 'bout this wasted time.

Ooh, another love had come and gone.
Ooh, and the years keep rushing on.
I remember what you told me before you went out on your own:
sometimes to keep it together we got to leave it alone.

So you can get on with your search, baby,
and I can get on with mine.
And maybe someday we will find
that it wasn't really wasted time.