Topic: Email or IM?
KCFriend's photo
Sun 11/09/08 07:57 AM
OK, ladies only, which way is better to strike up a conversation? Email or IM??

laughsandgiggles's photo
Sun 11/09/08 08:00 AM
have you ever spoken to the woman before? if not i would say email

for me personally i don't IM but i do respond to random emails- im probably the only one who does lol

but this is just my opinion- im sure you will get plenty of differing ones.

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 11/09/08 08:02 AM
I email on here until I get to know them better, then I give them my IM. I don't use the IM on here though, leaves me wide open for the sex-maniacs to contact me. noway

mcattygarnett's photo
Sun 11/09/08 08:04 AM
Email first to see if you have anything in common. Then you can move on to instant messenging. Good luck to you.

no photo
Sun 11/09/08 08:11 AM
Email first. Many people don't like being IMed. I don't mind it, but most of the time, the guy just says hi, then waits for me to keep the conversation going for him. So, it does get annoying.

no photo
Sun 11/09/08 08:33 AM
To me it doesn't matter. I'll talk to anyone.

KCFriend's photo
Sun 11/09/08 06:54 PM
Thank you ladies. Sounds like email 1st is a safe bet.