...when THIS is what gets women drooling...




...and THIS is what will have guys falling all over their own tongues...




...that the ' average ' looking person feels that the cards are stacked against them from the get go???

9 times out of 10, that " perfect for " you/me/whoever person has the " qualities " those two have.

At least in the fantasy land that a lot of people seem to live in these days.

" But it's just a fantasy ".....

Maybe. But if THAT is the " fantasy ", then how can reality compete?

Then you have to take a look at what you are doing that keeps bringing it back.

I know you don't know me but if you need someone to talk to, I am a good listener.

We use online dating? One of my "friends", who is no longer, and who I only knew online, ignored me for a long time. And finally I got through to her for some honesty and closure, and she just told me I was a freak for having a crush on her and never even seeing her, and that it was pathetic and i was a loser.

I politely responded that I don't care what someone looks like I liked you for your personality/interests...But that doesn't matter really, to her or to anyone but myself. I know who I am and I don't need her to tell me what I am or am not, only I know.

That said...How pathetic is it? How much of a loser freak am I for having a crush on someone I considered a friend that I had never seen?\

Or was she just the outlier and online dating has become pretty normal in the current times?

my name is Omar, I'm from Jordan, my job is writer movies stories and i have resort in Egypt on the red sea in taba area,i interesting you , if you interesting to be my friend please reply.

any females from london

I was not so lucky with my filipina :-( It was all about money from the start. I was taken in the amount of around $100,000 in a 27 month marriage, Brought her over to the US, she did not want too bring her 16 year old son at the time although I paid for him to come so I put him through 2 years of college. The first year he just goofed off and the 2nd Year was nursing and he still will not work as he never work before his cousins wash his cloths.
I remodeled her home and then she talked me into buying another home ( nice big home for us too retire at in the Philippines, Dumaguete City. She told me she likes the money in her pocket. Now she left me and her conditions are still on her card. Now she is working on getting the house I bought in the Philippines in her name only. She is 43 and I an 56 yrs. old.

The young woman at the bar: T.G.I.F
The young man at the bar: S.H.I.T
The young woman at the bar annoyed: T.G.I.F
The young man at the bar grinning: S.H.I.T
The young woman at the bar fuming: Thank Goodness Its Friday
The young man at the bar grinning: Sorry Honey Its Thursday

If you searching for a true love, we from the philippines is the one your looking for! We don't have a beautiful face, as an American women have, we're not fluent in your language, but we are willing to learn, we're not a perfect dream girl that you've wanted, but one thing that I could bragging about us, we have faith in God, and we can be a good wife as many men were looking for!

God bless

Why thanks

For every beauty there is an eye somewhere to see it. For every truth there is an ear somewhere to hear it. For every love there is a heart somewhere to receive it.

God bless

yep, i'd help, only i don't know what tagalog is.

If I'm that interesting to you, why aren't we each others' favorites?
No, this is a bona-fide mingle-member. I saw his profile, and he's nuts!
Funny, too. He was talking off the top of his bucket-covered head, something about becoming a super-hero when the Ferris wheel at the carnival came loose, threatening to crush people.
Kooky, but genuine...I like genuine.