Is there someone still willing to accept me, eventhough I have 5 kids in my past marriage, I am very curious, because after some changing message, they stop.

God bless

Hmmm, may be I would say those guys you have talked to were "scared" of the responsibilities to be an instant dad of 5, just my POV. I know most guys, especially those who have kids too from their previous marriage will probably get a hard time to figure out if they are ready to accept 1 plus 5 .

So, how about starting a conversation with someone like you are not looking for a person to father your kids rather you are looking for a friendship first, a nice conversation begins with respect, politeness and of course honesty. Along the way, when you feel like there's a spark just keep in touch and wait until he finally take the move then you may ask:"Do you think you are willing to have 5 kids in an instant?" Funny but true, then you will know if that man is really a keeper.

Goodluck

well, I wish you all the best of luck.

yap, your right, but I am not looking for a father figure for my kids, I am looking for a man that could love me and accept me no matter who I am, but thank you for your advice, I appreciate it a lot.

God bless

from a man's point of view, i believe this - you cant say your "not" looking for a father for you kid's? Any man is going to take into account that there are going to be kid's involved. whether 1 or 10 makes no difference. for instance i am looking for a pinay wife because i'm moving there next year or so - im 61 and i wan't a partner whom i can share the rest of my life with, but am to old to want to have another family, so even if a woman say's to me she "is not looking for a father" the bottom line is i would be responsable for there care. i will have limited money to retire there - pension only, it is not enough to take care of a wife "and" children'. don't get me wrong i love children, but at this stage of life, having already raised one family, i want the rest of my time to do and go and enjoy those thing's i want to do, with my future wife who hopefully will enjoy the same things as I to a great extent.

I also think it's nice to know from the woman that she is "god fearing" if that be the case, but to flaunt it and make it sound as if that is your life's desire will to some extent turn many away - not me - but many other's. Men who think that your religious ferver may interefere with there differnt belief's or non belief's is what i'm meaning. Marriage is hard enough with out spiritual conflict's being introduced into the mix so to say.

If a man thinks your all about "church" which many times the pinay women make it sound - there thought's are on you wanting them to be like you and going to church alot and doing a lot of praying and giving to the church, etc.. Most men have not known a pinay well enough to realize that this is not how most are when they talk about "god fearing" that they are pretty much just like everyone else - not negating like anywhere else there are those who are fervent daily church gower's.

hiding or not telling in your profile about the children is not a good way to start at all - I assure you - especially with those who have any children - you do not want to get someone interested in you and then spring the matter on them later on - honesty up front is the best policy. also make sure the respondant has READ your complete profile and you "their's" - I have found after talking to women that after a while I mention something that I stated in my profile like - I am a smoker - only tro find out there suprised when i mention it later on, also ask all the questions you can at the beginning about there personal life that they will discuss, do they snore? do they eat with there mouth closed - hahahha - i say this because there habits may be such that even though you like there words and sense of humor etc., their personal habits may be something that you are unwilling to accept or put up with. i had a girl i was talking to a few weeks ago like this - i and she were both taken with each other looks wise and attitude wise etc., but when i told her i was going to go smoke a ciggarette, she responded - " you smoke?" i replied did you not read my profile? it clearly states in there i am a smoker??? and then again that same time i sent her pics of me and her reply was sam - i dont like your long hair - will you cut it short please - at this point i knew this was not going to work - so i told her i would not change and if what i look like and do is going to be a problem - then it would be best for her to find another - so make sure you know as much about the man's habit's as he should know about yours - though most pinay's don't drink or smoke or have BF's with long hair, if these things bother you let them know right up front that this is not what your looking for ok?

most sincerely, sam/tribo

Well said Sam.

My bf's profile didnt say he smokes but says No Answer so when one time we were chatting and he was on cam I saw him with a cig, I sort of freaked out but then I tried to understand it was his habit and smoking for all I know is not an easy thing to quit but he promised me that once we are together he will quit completely. Frankly, I'm a smoke hater but this time I have to consider this: IN EVERY RULE THERE IS ALWAYS AN EXCEMPTION. True because even if he smokes a pack a day I never let it to be the reason for us not to click. We both make it work out despite lil differences but I am also happy that he is willing to change though I told him I'm not here to make him change his lifestyle, but he chose to do it himself for now he realizes his health risks. And I always tell him "I care about you a lot".

that's good to know, i wish you both nothing but happiness.

Why thanks

5 kids... I don't know...Good luck to you thou!

If im the man well to be frank i said n0,big n0!but if i l0ve u very much i will accept u who u are!and whatever ur past!that is the magic of being inl0ve!hahaha!padaan lng

Curious lang. That was in 08. Its 13 now. Did she ever get a man?

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Dont give up..my nakalaan para sayo..aim high pinay

Really it's true Sir!