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Thu 08/08/13 01:52 AM
grumble Revenge!!!rant
I'm the author of the thread "A Woman's Body"
The post was very entertaining until some young lady decides to attack the author saying " the notion of this thread is in poor taste!"
I just had to go there and get me some of that booty!explode
devil Sweet revenge! I gave her a piece of my mind and it feels so good!:banana:

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Thu 08/08/13 01:43 AM
Edited by tjulian4880 on Thu 08/08/13 02:18 AM
Im sure the notion of this thread was in poor taste too, since it pretty much celebrates the sum of a woman in her body parts. Women exist in a rape culture and this sort of thing is a reminder.

Normally, I'd just laugh it off, but now it's personal and you've just pissed me off. You've just crossed over the line, baby (we gonna take this thing a lil' bit DEEPER)!!!!oops
asleep Take some time and read the entire tread and you would notice, the author did respond -not to alarm or offend, but "to look at a woman's body secretly!" -pg 3.rant
This should tell you something. If it doesn't, then let me refresh your memory becoz you're totally out of context when you suggest the a notion of this thread is in "poor taste" :rant
Let me give it to you this way!rant
Speaking of body parts!!! Lets talk about the senses.
Sight, taste, touch, hear and smell. You got a problem with that????rant
Humans are critics/judgemental from any point of the view.rant
Tasting anything without looking at it first, we can't be conclusive, satisfied or ready to move on with it.rant
Touching without seeing what it is, we can't be conclusive, satisfied or ready to move on.rant
Hearing without seeing what it is talking or making noise, we can't be conclusive, satisfied or ready to move on.rant
To smell something without looking to see what it is, we can't be conclusive, satisfied or ready to move on.rant
When I speak in terms of move on, I simple suggests we humans always have to have the last word in anything. And without sight sweetheart, not much of anything means or is worth anything at all!rant
Shall I continue?????rofl
drinker You want some more of this or we can drop this and just move on!!!tears
Your apology accepted!
Have a nice day!

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Tue 08/06/13 02:18 AM

Patents have a right to take their children out without having to cover their eyes.

Showing PG-13 affection, hand holding, hugging, kissing, or holding or touching one another in a non-sexual manner is not something most people find offensive or hide from their children. Most find it endearing to watch a couple unashamed to show their love openly like that.


Yeap, it's all about the children!!!glasses

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Tue 08/06/13 01:58 AM
Edited by tjulian4880 on Tue 08/06/13 02:12 AM
Just as I figured!smokin
Most of us just don't have time to fulfill our physical/emotional needs or for that matter, matters of the heart.brokenheart
drinker I guess when you get my age, you try to get around all the humbug and focus on self-development.
In the long run, it'll secure a hardy relationshipflowerforyou based on communicationsrant , intelligencesmokin and status.:angel:
offtopic I have to admit, there is nothing more important in this society. shades Making time to relate to others is my main objective whether it be platonic or otherwise. Been there, done that ...just can't get enough of communicating. drinks I love communicating!!!:banana:
drinks There's nothing more exciting than being confronted with meeting the challenge of accepting differences, engaging with diversity of thought and culture as they motivate, encourage us to exercise volition and prepare our physical and emotional awareness to even higher, greater heights.drinker

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Mon 08/05/13 04:07 PM
Obvious, thinking to myself - it wasn't all that great, I'm Here!!! I really don't care. I do know this, if I look into the mirror right now I would say, I don't like myself to much right now. I'm ticked off, horny, desparate, confused!!!! But, I will bounce back. Always have and always will. Right now! I need me some!!! And I don't care who don't like it. Yeah, I use discretion. Always have and always will. But, still the fact remains, I'm horny as hell!!!

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Mon 08/05/13 07:27 AM

online: "What are you wearing"

uh huh.....how stupid do you think I am?


In Real LIfe: "stay right here while I go get my truck."

I went home...once again, how stupid do you really think I am .. lol


laugh drinker laugh whoa

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Mon 08/05/13 05:39 AM
flowerforyou That's what I need a little reassurance, brighten up my day
Talk to me, whisper softly, sweet words to change my way
If you care the love and security surenuff will come our way
Like a shadow on a bright sunny day, we'll never go astray

flowerforyou That's what I feel this feeling is real, can't find a better way
Spend my life wondering if you care, for that I can not stay
At times I go without your lovin' the day just past me by
Baby oh baby, gotta have reassurance, please don't ask me why

flowerforyou Can't you see we need one another, that's what I'm trying to say
Coz I don't know what it is oh baby, makes me feel this way
All I wanna do make sweet love to you, make you wanna stay
Baby oh baby, please give it to me, give it to me this way

Just....
:heart: Say you love me
:heart: Say you care
:heart: Say that love we have
Will always be there!:banana:

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by tjules 2013

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Mon 08/05/13 05:27 AM
What is her reason, purpose?
flowerforyou She is a creature of pure gratitude! Soft! Sweet!
Last, but not least...
rant When a man stands too tall, she brings him back down to Earth!
sad When he cries, she absorbs his tears, makes him smile again!
drinker When he dreams, she creates reality!
:angry: When he falls, she lifts his hopes!
tongue2 She...the woman???
A man's gift in life!:angel:
tjulesglasses

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Mon 08/05/13 05:17 AM



I consider any affection that the adult entertainment industry would not charge admission for as okay for public display. :thumbsup:




Oh,...So, in other words, you get what you pay for, right? glasses


Uhhh...no. Just saying while I'm perfectly fine with pda, I don't personally, nor would I appreciate when others, put on a peep show for the public. noway




drinker glasses It seems, you do have your limitations about what other people do in public. Well, I look at it like this: The things we might see other people do in public - for one... could be a good conversation piece, don't you think? With this in mind, I figure you might be concerned about what other people might think about what you do in public. Am I correct?bigsmile

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Mon 08/05/13 05:11 AM

You owe me a date now that you've ruined the idea of other woman for me. huh

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Sun 08/04/13 07:32 PM

I need my ME time whether I'm dating or not. But if I'm into him, I would suspect I should like spending time with him.

I don't know what you mean by "fling", don't imagine I would do a "fling". If I'm in a relationship, they are not likely to be shown the door unless they do something pretty offensive. :laughing:


Public displays don't bother me and I think it's about time I gave my neighbors something to talk about. tongue2


A fling is something you really don't pay much attention toyawn

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Sun 08/04/13 07:30 PM

None anymore...I got s* to do, I don't have time for much of anything else.


That's quite understandable. You're doing just fine. Usually, when we find ourselves getting involved, our world tends to change a bit. Doesn't it feel great to be free????:banana:

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Sun 08/04/13 07:15 PM

Im not desperate because Im pretty happy with my life these days in particular. I dont think it would matter tho if I was horny either.

Like you, I enjoy the quiet and peace of the morning to myself, not that company would make me crabby, but it is a great time of day for me.

I like manners and hope I reciprocate them adequately. I hope theres at least a peck on a first date just to break the ice, and Ive volunteered them on first dates.

Ive never been in the position of wondering how I got here because I had to fight hard to get here, after a difficult marriage. My singlehood/freedom is extremely valuable to me. I will be more careful giving it up if theres a next time. I am loving in general and freely have those feelings easily.

Downtime is difficult to quantify. I expect during the week there would be some kind of contact and hope that the weekend would hold some sort of actual plans of togetherness.


It's good to know others are thinking along the same lines we are.glasses

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Sun 08/04/13 07:09 PM
drinker The most ridiculous pickup line a man has ever tried on you.:banana:

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Sun 08/04/13 03:03 PM
glasses Three things works for me: Sex, Communication and Money
And you can't have one without the other.
grumble When all hell breaks loose, the drama, confusing takes over you need sex to come back to terms with life.frustrated
When we both stop talking to each othertears - If you ain't doing it, somebody else is!!!!:banana:
And finally, I can do bad by myself!ill

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Sun 08/04/13 02:44 PM
Edited by tjulian4880 on Sun 08/04/13 02:53 PM
How much time do you have to exercise this fling of yours? 24/7 or maybe, only when you're feeling desparate and horny.:banana:
After a lovely evening with this special someone, do you escort them to their car or just show them to the door?:angry: Obviously, we sometimes think our image is more important and would rather not publish our involvement with the entire community by kissing as you both stand there next to the car door.
I myself, I can't allow anyone to invade my private morning rituals. I do better getting out of the bed by myself. I don't need no company.noway grumble The majority of time, I need a few seconds to look around, see where I am and ask myself, how did I get here?noway However, I do feel I can learn to love someone again 24/7,drinks but that is something that will take some time.
How much downtime do you have for your mate? 24/7 or living for the weekend?:banana:

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Sun 08/04/13 02:32 PM
Firstly, people come together for various reasons. I don't really think you can consider yourself in a relationship until you come to a mutual agreement and/or understanding. Furthermore, we live in a fast pace society where we are consumed by many other forces. Family, friends, our own personal downtime and the upkeep of our comfort zone, the cleaning and maintenance of, etc. Then you have to keep in mind, some of us find ourselves involved, yet still, we live in two separate homes. Just exactly how much of a relationship are you in when you share two homes? How much downtime is there available to exercise this relationship you so call it? I think once we become intimate with that person we automatically assume we are in a relationship. Yeah, it's better to practice monagamy for health reasons, but, just becoz you jump in and out of the sheets together, that doesn't necessarily mean you're in a relationship. I think a relationship is primarily based upon mutual understanding. You have to be able to observe upcoming crash zones. You must be able to fluxuate with differences. There are so much involved in making a relationship work. My point is: if you feel uneasy about something in particular with an individual, you should have the opportunity to sort things out by speaking your feelings. If the other person is receptive and versatile, willing to compromise and maintain longevity, then your relationship can only go forward.glasses

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Sun 08/04/13 09:05 AM


What you have to realize is: flowerforyou Men are on the chase when they first lay eyes on you. After awhile, they began to lose interests becoz they have no further reason to chase - they've won the prize. No need to hustle any further.yawn And before you both know it, you're sitting in one big dull, boring environment.frustrated Love is like a burning log! You have to keep adding to the flames!whoa

Ohhhh! So now I should keep running to keep you chasing what
Well the bright side is that I will keep in shape :banana:


Why not??? Keep running, you might find it very exciting!glasses

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Sun 08/04/13 08:54 AM




So what do i have to offer? I was once a terrible individual, drank too much, ran around, did lots of drugs. I went to prison for 9 years for my actions. I found spirituality there, completely changed my life. Now that Im free Im trying to rebuild my life from scratch, I work ,but its going to take awhile before I get everything I lost. Now the women and wealth part, do i have to wait until I can offer her the world, or are there women out there that will give a person such as myself a chance?


If it makes you feel better; Men have made me feel like I have nothing to offer them merely because of my age.


In each particular instance, have you considered discussing your feelings with that person? There is a slight chance we could make things seem most likely rather than what they really are. Then, the object is to sit down and communicate about what we feel, right? Do you think we fail most of our prospect relationships as a result of our not being able to negotiate our feelings with one another?


I don't think any of that matters. Men are visual and want a younger prettier woman. There is nothing I can do to change how I look. Its just life and there is nothing I can do about it except for accept it.


Maybe it has something to do with how you look at a situation. We sometimes have to play different roles in a relationship. Sometimes we have to teach, persuade and encourage people's actions. Really, it's all about negotiating. If you really think you can convince someone, all it takes is courage and strength, the belief that you can influence. Sometimes a man needs a push in the right direction.smokin viceversa

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Sun 08/04/13 08:47 AM







The ability of not giving up, always striving to better yourself regardless of your situation.


flowerforyou If you can make people learn that, Hippie, you need to take your act on the road. This country needs a lot more of that! :thumbsup:




Sometimes giving up is another means of bettering yourself.rant




Can I ask for an example of such a situation? what


Simple, basic and very common - when to give up during an argument!rant


This I understand. I definitely agree with this! Most arguments are not worth fighting over. People tend to let their emotions carry them too far into an argument and making a practice of not doing so is most certainly a step toward growth. :thumbsup: flowerforyou



...well said!!!glasses