Topic: I want to know why
Christinac8008's photo
Fri 08/02/13 11:02 PM
Why is it when I am nice and cuddly and sweet do men think I m stupid but if I am direct and sorry to use this word but a ***** do men fall at my feet. I just want to meet someone as normal as me! lol!

no photo
Fri 08/02/13 11:17 PM
you have got to learn who you are dealing with. boys will act and react totally differently than men. being all cuddly and sweet is cool, and being direct is cool too. there is a time and place for all those. i guarantee i guarantee nobody likes a beotch

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Candiapples's photo
Fri 08/02/13 11:25 PM
Yes, you can be sweet but you also need not be a pushover. You may call it being a B..ch, but men respect a woman whos strong and knows her own mind and isnt afraid to let him know that..

EdwardCB's photo
Fri 08/02/13 11:39 PM
It's not a good feeling, coming home from work etc and thinking, oh shiit I wonder what she gunna be like today. Be y.ourself and nothing but, if u generally are a b itch, good luck.

Candiapples's photo
Sat 08/03/13 12:08 AM
I honestly dont know why men do this..maybe you are picking the bad boys

krupa's photo
Sat 08/03/13 10:01 AM
Hehehe....."normal woman".....that's a good one!

Anyhow....try picking grown up dudes.....they are rare but there are a few of them in existence.

Dodo_David's photo
Sat 08/03/13 01:39 PM
I just want to meet someone as normal as me! lol!


I am related to Abby Normal. bigsmile

no photo
Sat 08/03/13 01:48 PM
Opposites attract...

navygirl's photo
Sun 08/04/13 08:21 AM

Why is it when I am nice and cuddly and sweet do men think I m stupid but if I am direct and sorry to use this word but a ***** do men fall at my feet. I just want to meet someone as normal as me! lol!


Normal? I haven't met any normal men in my life time. Sorry but there is no such thing as a normal man. Sounds like these guys like abusive behaviour. laugh

1Cynderella's photo
Sun 08/04/13 08:30 AM
Maybe they don't trust nice and cuddly because they're not used to it?

I'm the warm cuddly type myself and a man I dated a long time ago once told me it took him a while to relax with me because he was in suspense for a long time waiting for my time bomb to go off or something. He said he used to try to provoke me to make it happen...which explained a lot after the fact. It turned out I'm not easy to anger, choose my battles for their actual merit and fight them like a calm adult willing to compromise.

It concerns me that this is considered strange behavior nowadays. what

tjulian4880's photo
Sun 08/04/13 08:41 AM
What you have to realize is: flowerforyou Men are on the chase when they first lay eyes on you. After awhile, they began to lose interests becoz they have no further reason to chase - they've won the prize. No need to hustle any further.yawn And before you both know it, you're sitting in one big dull, boring environment.frustrated Love is like a burning log! You have to keep adding to the flames!whoa

Candiapples's photo
Sun 08/04/13 09:01 AM

What you have to realize is: flowerforyou Men are on the chase when they first lay eyes on you. After awhile, they began to lose interests becoz they have no further reason to chase - they've won the prize. No need to hustle any further.yawn And before you both know it, you're sitting in one big dull, boring environment.frustrated Love is like a burning log! You have to keep adding to the flames!whoa

Ohhhh! So now I should keep running to keep you chasing what
Well the bright side is that I will keep in shape :banana:

tjulian4880's photo
Sun 08/04/13 09:05 AM


What you have to realize is: flowerforyou Men are on the chase when they first lay eyes on you. After awhile, they began to lose interests becoz they have no further reason to chase - they've won the prize. No need to hustle any further.yawn And before you both know it, you're sitting in one big dull, boring environment.frustrated Love is like a burning log! You have to keep adding to the flames!whoa

Ohhhh! So now I should keep running to keep you chasing what
Well the bright side is that I will keep in shape :banana:


Why not??? Keep running, you might find it very exciting!glasses