The subject says it all, I am mainly looking for peoples' views on whether they could work with such an arrangement, and how it would be possible. I am totally sticking to my guns on this one and need some input/advice/encouragement.

It worked for my parents and they've been married for 55 years.

It's a tough one.
There's a difference between sex and making love I believe.
Sex is to satisfy your own urge whereas making love is the ultimate way to show your love towards your partner. Sex is like bang, done finished I'm satisfied then there is making love which Is full of emotion and to prove your dedication to do whatever it takes to satisfy your partner.
I believe you should at least once to get a feel for each other.

I think there is a possibility that it may work. Depends on the person and the relationship that the two individuals share. That is a question that I have been wondering about as well. Not many people in today's society will even attempt to wait until marriage.

I had premarital sex and it did not work. This time I am going to try no premarital sex. I have a client that has a son. Her son and his now fiancee have dated for four years and have only kissed on the cheek. That would not work for me, but it does for them.

Yes.

It really isn't that difficult. Just don't have random sex.

Sorry, but no one can "accidentally" have sex. There are no "mistakes." Unless you're being raped, sex is very intentional and thus those who claim to have "accidentally" or "mistakenly" had sex are full of it and only wish to shirk their personal responsibility as consenting, allegedly conscious adults.

Just avoid putting yourself in situations in which you are tempted to have sex. It really isn't that difficult to avoid, unless you go out of your way to put yourself in situations conducive to such activities.

Simple.

I've done it for 29 years. No excuses.

You're welcome.

uhmmm well its 2013....nowa days its very very rare to find a virgin thats 20 yrs old, just my opinion. if people had morals and values like they did way back in the day i think things would be a little beter, if people waited to get married to have sex ( like were supposed too )i think things would possibly be different....but thats my opinion fellas, unfortunetly i already broke that moral lol :/

I don't care if it's 3013, morality is morality. 180 billion dollars are spent on illegal drugs in the U.S. each year, which no doubt amounts to millions of drug users, does that mean drug abuse is okay?

Your logic is flawed. If a man or woman wishes to abstain from sex, he or she can. It's a choice. Only an idiot is so blindly led by the masses' behavior.

IF YOU KNEW HOW TO COMPREHEND WHAT I WAS TRYING TO SAY...WHAT I WAS TRYING TO SAY IS THERE ARE NO MORALS IN TODAYS WORLD !! NONE "MORALITY" SO YOU SAY IS VANISHING AS DAYS GO BY

i never said people cant have sex....i was trying to say that people dont have morals anymore, females loosing virginity at 12 and having babys at 15.....and you want to tell me thats morality ??? only an idiot would think that has anything to do with morals.....people with morals would wait until marraige to have sex, not go opening there legs to anything with a dick.

There are morals. They may be rare, but they exist. And even if the majority lacks morals, is that an excuse to join them? That's what I'm saying.

i very much so agree with you on that one mr. and i believe what your saying is true. we dont need to join them, and yes it is very rare for people to still have virginity until marriage

Thanks.

I'm female, by the way. I just like Batman.

well , maa'm it was nice chatting a bit....im gonna go to bed, you have a good night on your "pure priest sheets " :))

Gosh, I will, thanks! "You too"!

I hate how stuff like this makes people so defensive. Just go with your own view on it. The worst person you will ever let down is yourself. The person you need to prove things to? Yourself. When stuff leaves you proud of yourself, is a good way to be.

But let's say you meet someone that is your ideal partner, someone that you would be able to be content with (looks, personality, intelligence, confidence, etc.). Would you be able to stick it out 6 months, maybe a year, and get to know them and be their friend before you finally sealed the deal and got married.

It might be too late for most of us here to save sex until marriage due to most of us not being virgins; however, in the spirit of keeping integrity in the relationship, saving sex as a couple.

I think it can work why not. It depends on the people themselves

No sex before marriage, is the best way to really get to know the person before you get married.