If you can get hold of them where you are,try Pataks sauces.They only do Indian sauces,but they seem to be as good as you can get without starting from scratch

I just skyped myself for proof

Genesis

How do you get to know someone without dating or going on activities with them first ? Do you want to marry someone you don't know,or have only spoken about marriage with ? I notice you are divorced,did you date her? Or marry,have kids,and then find out that you weren't compatible ?

That's why i made the comment to start with Crystal. While i admit to my ignorance of the meaning of BDSM, i too had noticed that the majority of posts seemed to focus on S&M...

To a certain extent i agree with you about communication David. But i am talking as a 50 year old man who would be sharing that first kiss with someone who has some life (and kissing) experience. Perhaps as a 20 something year old,what you said might apply more,but this is about a first kiss that will either make you think 'oh god',or 'oh shi@'. There's no avoiding one of those feelings until it happens,it's human nature...

I disagree. We're not kids,the way that person kisses is natural to them and they have been happily kissing that way for years now. If i don't get light headed and weak at the knees with that first kiss,i am not going to want more,and i'm not going to insult someone by saying that their way of kissing is wrong.It's just not right for me...

Thanks Torgo,i thought BDSM was an abbreviation of bondism

Correct me if i'm wrong,but isn't there a difference between BDSM and S&M ? I know they kind of go hand in hand,but there are those that enjoy one or the other too. It's important to remember that there are extremes in most things we do,and i know it's already been said,but with a trusting partner,we do have a choice and can always say no...

And chocolate bars ! All we need now is Monica Lewinsky and Marianne Faithful,and the gangs all here

Kleenex and kitchen towel ? Shouldn't it be sandpaper with this subject ? Oe maybe not,my eyes started watering at the mere thought of that...

I lost interest in your post as soon as i read that you haven't tried much,or even care.So why bother ? Try being more positive...

Journey

Interesting,it's not something i thought about before..I'm going to hazzard a guess that i wouldn't mind if she wore them sometimes.Eyes are my biggest attraction to a woman,so maybe i have overlooked some ladies in the past without knowing it ? I do wear glasses for driving etc but am okay otherwise...so far.

I'm glad it's not like POF,i found that to be as much use as a chocolate teapot.But good luck on here

You didn't come across as being rude,that was just my sense of humour We all have to get used to the scammers on dating sites to start with,and those just wanting sex too.You will learn if you can be patient,but do look through the forums,there is good advice on old posts.Or do what you just did,and ask for yourself

I think you are talking about scammers,and that's the same on all dating sites. But this site is international,so you are a foreigner to me too Join in with the forums,the fakes don't last long here and there are lots of nice people to get to know.Some are even foreign (American) !

From what you just said Noa,it's wrong for you,and i accept that. But many people like Messi are lucky and in a trusting relationship. Hopefully you will find someone one day to restore your faith in human nature.There are quite a few in the forums that are in relationships,and are here with their partners blessing because they have trust and know the difference between chatting and having a laugh,and playing around. But i do hope you can work out your trust issues and accept that what doesn't work for you,often can,and does work for others

Go for it Crystal.I get those unexplained feelings sometimes and play my heart out,it's an amazing feeling.
You weren't the only one to get caught up in the moment last night,but at least we were in good company.I like those kind of side effects,and why not have a spliff before and afterwards to enhance the mood

That's great news Crystal.I have always found that motivation and inspiration affect me more deeply,and bring out the best in me when it's least expected.Enjoy yourself,and good luck with your exhibit