There is this girl I work with, I've liked her for a while. She's really really shy, she doesn't talk to anyone but when I talk to her she seems more responsive than to anyone else. So my friend a week or two ago tells her that I like her and she doesn't believe him apparently and gives him her instant messenger address for me to contact her with. She finally logged on and I told her that I had a huge crush on her and she replied with "I would have rather heard it from you than him because I thought he was joking". She then had to go.

So, I worked with her a few days later (this past Saturday) and I go up to her and say "I just wanted to say sorry for having my friend tell you that instead of me". She replies "Oh, It's ok." So then I say "This may not be the best place to ask but I was wondering if you wanted to go out with me?" She looks straight ahead and kind of away from me and takes a second and says "Where do you want to go?" I asked "What are you up to this weekend?" She says "Nothing." Then I asked "How about a movie?" to which she replied with "What's out?". Then I said "I'm not sure, there is a lot of movies that just came out, you going to get on instant messenger sometime this week I'll talk to you about it there." And then she replied "Oh, yeah."

She looked ahead/away from me the whole time, but like I said she is really really shy so I don't know if it's nervous or she doesn't like me. But I figure if she gave her instant messenger to my friend for me to contact her with and knew I had a crush on her and she didn't say "no" to my request she might be interested? She hasn't gotten on instant messenger from what I've seen but I think she has been on the computer. Maybe she is just scared or thought I meant this weekend to get on? I work with her in a couple of days and was wondering if I should follow up and ask her to the movies that night or is she not interested?

Edit: I am 19 she is 17

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