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Sat 01/10/09 12:37 PM
Edited by It_Gyrl on Sat 01/10/09 12:38 PM
I always dress to impress! It's a natural thing for me.



yeah, but I expect the same in return


blah blah.. I am evil, I know

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Sat 01/10/09 12:15 PM

I think i found someone that i really connect with. What do you all say to keep the conversation going? What do you start talking about after you have asked them all the basics???


That's just it......... I'm not really a fan of the "interview" date. The same questions are asked as if you're auditioning for something, then when the questions run out...there are crickets.

When I want to know about someone, I simply maintain a general conversation period...... when people are comfortable with each other just chit chatting away, they actually reveal a lot about themselves because it is natural and there is less pressure to try to answer questions "correctly" to impress the other person.

But then again, that's just my humble opinion...
but becuase of the way I converse, I've never run into those awkward--- the questions are used up..now what?--- moments.

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Sat 01/10/09 12:08 PM
I'd take him out shoe shopping with me!

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Sat 01/10/09 12:00 PM
Yes, but it's mainly because I'd want them to do the same because I just don't want to be bothered with their crap devil

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Sat 01/10/09 11:57 AM
Nope...

I don't even like to take perscription pills...
hell, I rarely take over the counter pain killers

My philosophy is .. if I have to defend/excuse something (whether it be smoking, being drunk, popping mad pills, etc) I'd rather not do that something... waste of MY time. I,however, do not beleive in lecturing others about their choices.

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Sun 01/04/09 06:13 PM
A lovely smooth glass of Pinot Noir

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Sun 01/04/09 01:40 PM
Why does Sociopath come to mind?



Actually I guess it would depend on the situation..


I prefer someone who has a VERY small circle of friends... perhaps one or two trusted individuals in their life

I don't want to be their SOLE means of company/entertainment/listening ears/etc....

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Sun 01/04/09 01:35 PM
Now, you know some of you are HOMEMADE porn stars...:angel:

the recording light is probably on now! laugh :laughing:

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Sun 01/04/09 01:32 PM

Both...
Challenge my brain but be sweet to my heart :)




Eureka!

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Sun 01/04/09 01:17 PM
All of my exes already know what my response is:


*SHRUG*


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Sun 01/04/09 01:14 PM
Oh I think I'll stay away from this one...

people will think my opinion is devil ...lol

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Sun 01/04/09 01:10 PM
Edited by It_Gyrl on Sun 01/04/09 01:11 PM
nah.... they were disappointing going in..

lol


j/k


answer... no, not really
because none of them were my "dream" guy laugh

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Sun 01/04/09 01:08 PM



smile2 Is conflict always negative?smile2



No, it can be a learning tool IF someone is willing to learn from it

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Sun 01/04/09 01:04 PM
Edited by It_Gyrl on Sun 01/04/09 01:06 PM
Yes I would..

My friends know that I am brutally honest...
Many of them preface their questions with "well I know you'll tell me the truth..."


I, myself, prefer the same brutal honesty from others...


and well if it hurts their feelings, that'll teach them not to bother me with their issues since I'm not charging them for my advice anyways.. lol

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Sun 01/04/09 01:00 PM
Edited by It_Gyrl on Sun 01/04/09 01:01 PM
Do looks matter?


Ummm... yes.
Thank you
The end!



but of course it's not the only thing..
there is a combination of sorts that makes up the entire individual and what is overall attraction...
that,however, was not the question... so I simply answered the question in my own less-than-humble opinion.

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Sun 01/04/09 12:48 PM
^^^^^

I'd still care..
if they went through all of that
but can't pick up things in one
little room... then NEXT!



If someone did not keep a kempt place, not only would I not date them, but I probably could not have them as a friend either. Those are the ones who try to come over to your house because it's not all trashy/sticky and there are clean dishes and places to sit down, and I'll be damned if I have someone trashing up my place..

What would I say to them?

"Clean that *ish* up and don't ask to come to my place!"

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Sun 01/04/09 12:34 PM
I now have a vision of people sitting around in a circle with the top of their heads being tapped (while saying "duck, duck duck duck"), then as soon as the word "date" is uttered.... two people take off running until the chasee runs around and sits in the chaser's previous spot...

oh sexxxy, let me tell ya!

(and somewhere, there is someone saying "don't touch my hair!"... are they disqualified?)

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Sun 01/04/09 12:25 PM
Not really a "dumb" question considering how many people lie about their careers as if it were top secret...


Wait! Shhhhhh! Is the CIA reading this?

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Sun 01/04/09 12:22 PM

well I have to be physically attracted. I know that may sound "shallow" but at least I'm honest. I'm not asking that he be attractive to everyone else, just to me :tongue: There's certain things that make me physically attracted to someone. Beyond that, the personality. I can be physically attracted all day long, however your personality can be a big turn off and I won't want to see you anymore. And # 3 is he has to have something going for him. Like a decent job/career, ethics, morals. I've worked hard my entire life so I refuse to date some slacker. I guess we just have to "match" if you know what I mean.



Co-sign...
What she said!!!

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Sun 01/04/09 12:20 PM
yes, yes I am evil, I am mean... whatever..pitchfork

if it stops the kid from crying and screaming sad tears , I don't care how they're fed in public


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