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Fri 11/18/16 09:54 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Fri 11/18/16 09:54 AM



PEOPLE TREAT US THE WAY WE ALLOW THEM TOO...THAT'S HOW WE TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO

TREAT US....THE BEST WAY TO DODGE NEGATIVE TREATMENT IS ''NOT BE

PREDICTABLE''.....THE BAD GUYS ALWAYS GO THE EASY ROUTE.....smile2 smile2 smile2

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Fri 11/18/16 09:43 AM

Love is special and should not be taken lightly. To find someone to truly love can take a life time. If you find someone to love never take them for granted.


AMEN....

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Fri 11/18/16 09:38 AM


LOT OF PAIN MOVING FROM BOX TO BOX....frustrated tears scared rofl .

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Fri 11/18/16 09:27 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Fri 11/18/16 09:30 AM

Evrybody here are only for dating no means What does it cost. Actually we should figure out meaning of dating.



it's not the monetary cost that can effect us the most....its the emotional

cost,,,fritz pearls wrote a book ''in and out of the garbage pail'' about his

life and his dating....yes sometimes its like dating in and out of the garbage

pail.....what hurts the most is paying for the sins of the one's who came before

me...very helpless feeling knowing i can't wave a magic wand and heal them from

there pain....

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Fri 11/18/16 07:39 AM

I'm a hopeful romantic, so yes - I believe it can happen - not like it does in the movies -- but, a more realistic version - sure!




THE REALISTIC VERSION IS SOMETIMES CALLED MATURE LOVE IT REQUIRES WORKING

THROUGH ISSUES WITH YOUR MATE TO GET THERE.....SOMETIMES PEOPLE WILL ''THROW THE

BABY OUT WITH THE BATH WATER'' VERY COMMON IN TODAYS WORLD.....

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Fri 11/18/16 07:30 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Fri 11/18/16 07:28 AM

I think it's harder because the pool is so much smaller. Most guys my age are married. laugh

I can see benefits too - as mentioned above.

It's never easy - and obviously, I didn't do it right the first time, or I wouldn't be divorced and single. shades


Patience....




THE RIGHT PERSON IS ALWAYS THERE AT THE TIME..........IT'S ALWAYS AN OPPORTUNITY

FOR GROWTH AND DISCOVERY OF DISOWNED PARTS OF ONES SELF......

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Fri 11/18/16 07:20 AM

is this possible???


FOOD FOR THOUGHT:....CONVERSATION IS 94 PER-CENT BODY LANGUAGE A 7 PER-CENT THE

ACTUAL WORDS.....

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Fri 11/18/16 07:15 AM

First date as in "Meet & Greet"?
Those shouldn't be too long. Most think they should spend an entire afternoon together, or have dinner together. Not smart.
A meet & greet should be short and sweet. Half an hour to an hour is long enough. It's just checking if there's a click, you don't need an entire afternoon for that. That would only make it awkward if there is no click.

Not having dinner together is for the same reasons. You don't want to be stuck with someone you clearly don't like or click with for some 2 hours over food. Desperately trying to make polite conversation. Horrible! Especially the moment the check arrives is going to be awkward in such a situation.

Apart from that, it can be good to have a bit of a plan. Not just sit at a table over coffees, but do something more active as well. A walk, shopping (just looking mostly) or whatever. That way you can find out much much more about the other and his likes and dislikes than whilst sat opposite each other at a table. That can quickly become awkward.




YOU REALLY WANT TO LEARN ABOUT SOMEONE OBSERVE THEM AROUND FAMILY AND CLOSE

FRIENDS....THEY ALREADY KNOW THE SHORT CUTS TO ALL THE BUTTONS.......I USE IT

ALL THE TIME AND GET GREAT RESULTS......

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Wed 11/16/16 09:46 AM

Ive been in tears since the discovery of the existence the american version of the iron curtain (among other things) around 40 years ago.



IT WAS THE DEMAGOD CURTAIN......

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Wed 11/16/16 09:04 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Wed 11/16/16 09:30 AM




YOU SAID LOGICAL,,,,''FIRST OF ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE'' ITS A EMOTIONAL

CHOICE NOT A LOGICAL CHOICE........WE ARE LOOKING FOR OUR IMAGO

MATCH..!!!smile2


FIND OUT WHAT ''IMAGO MATCH'' IS, DO THE RESEARCH AND YOU

WILL FIND THE ANSWER YOU ARE LOOKING FOR.....

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Wed 11/16/16 08:18 AM

We appreciate you waiting around....but your services will not be needed. We've decided to go in a different direction.

MAGA Y'ALL!!!



AMEN, RIP

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Wed 11/16/16 08:14 AM

You hve evrything but still you feel something missing in your life





WE ARE AND ALWAYS WILL BE A WORK IN PROGRESS.......

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Tue 11/15/16 02:22 PM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Tue 11/15/16 02:24 PM

no games something serious





you will not find anyone who is poo free..!!!!


WHEN WE FOCUS ON WHAT WE DON'T WANT, WE JUST GET MORE OF WHAT WE DON'T

WANT....''FOCUS ON WHAT YOU DO WANT''...WHEN WE BELIEVE WHAT WE HAVE ALWAYS

BELIEVED THEN WE GET MORE OF WHAT WE HAVE ALWAYS GOT.....ITS REALLY HARD TO HEAR

ANOTHER WHEN WE HAVE A LOT OF NOISE IN OUR HEADS....WHEN I HEAR PEOPLE SAY THEY

ARE GAME FREE OR THEY ARE LOOKING FOR SOMEONE GAME FREE I KNOW THEY ARE SETTING

THEMSELVES UP FOR A BIG DISAPPOINTMENT...GOOD LUCK..P.S.I REALIZE YOU DID NOT ASK FOR ADVICE,,,SO ENJOY IT'S FREE....

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Tue 11/15/16 08:43 AM

Been searching hope to final it here


YOU ARE YOUNG AND VERY ATTRACTIVE SO ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS SMILE ANYWHERE.....

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Tue 11/15/16 08:39 AM

What you think that Is their any possibility of Marshalla in USA?


THE RIOTS ARE MOSTLY THE YOUNG WHO ARE DOING IT FOR THE RUSH....THE PEOPLE OUT

WORKING AND ARE PRODUCTIVE DON'T HAVE THE TIME TO WASTE....

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Tue 11/15/16 08:33 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Tue 11/15/16 08:33 AM

What would i? if being a muslim, Christian, hindu or budist We hve no value of humanbeing. We are all selfish And looking for self intrest. I do believe that religion Means faith God and believe. We have paths different but distiney 1. Nobody can claims that im on the right track with and othe rare wrong.humanbeing are culprits, only God can decided. So we are uselessly pulling legs each other's. I believe that we are all beautiful and why we do not make world beautiful and with peace and happiness.




WHY BECAUSE SOME PEOPLE PUT OTHERS DOWN TO ELEVATE THEMSELVES.....OF COURSE WITH

TIME IT CATCHES UP WITH THEM....

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Tue 11/15/16 08:12 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Tue 11/15/16 08:19 AM

I want to let someone know I love them..but I am to scared to say so
it will probably never be said..we live in different areas of the country
Bad timing that's all..story of my life...has bad timing ever been a part of your life

Blueohwell



yes i have.....GO FOR IT..!!!!! ITS THE FEELINGS THAT ARE NEVER SHARED CAUSE US

THE MOST PAIN.....A LOT OF MEN CAN'T GET THOSE WORDS OUT OF THERE OWN MOUTH'S

YET LOVE TO HEAR IT.....MOST OF US DO NOT GET AS MUCH CARE AND FEEDING THE

FAMILY PET GETS.....THE ONE THING A MAN NEEDS IS TO FEEL VALUED...AND HE NEEDS

TO FEEL HE CAN WIN WITH YOU......GOOD LUCK.

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Tue 11/15/16 07:34 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Tue 11/15/16 07:34 AM

You know,
I use words to say things important.
You do not hear my words
or me.
You hear you and your words.

I can not respect one way.

So it seems we are at in impasse.
And goodbye is the only thing each other hears.
Fare the well my beloved.

If only we had really heard the unspoken
echoes.
The earthquakes aftershocks
of listening with the heart.

BOOM

NUMBER ONE ISSUE ''HE DOES NOT LISTEN'' HE CAN BE TRAINED, GET ANY BOOK ON DOG

TRAINING......smile2



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Mon 11/14/16 10:14 AM

thank you.. Now I have one person :)

I have tried that match thing for about 2 hours till the same people without any descriptions popped up again.

Yes I will search for another photo. There are hardly any decent ones of me, I am ususally behind the camera!


TWO HOURS...OMG....SOMETIMES PEOPLE ARE NOT ON HERE FOR DAYS...A LOT OF PEOPLE

HAVE A LIFE BESIDES THE INTERNET.....RELAX ENJOY THE SHOW......

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Mon 11/14/16 09:54 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Mon 11/14/16 10:06 AM

I think it's a mistake to have others define it for you


SOMETIMES A SECOND OPINION CAN BE A REAL EYE OPENER......FOR ME LOVE IS A

SPECIAL PLACE IN MY HEART FOR SOMEONE......

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