How can you love when you've been hurt?is live even real or is it just an illusion?

Wounds heal over time.

The best advice I can give is learn from your past and move on to a better future.

I wish you the best of good luck

Hi Likey, life is an illusion. And the illusion is that people can hurt you. Get up, dry your tears and aim high. All you need to do is be you, the real you. Forget the illusions you want people to believe about you.

That's another great way to put it Blue.
Forgive forgive forgive it will eventually file away in life's experience cabinet. Keep at it.

WHEN WE STAY STUCK AND NOT FULLY GRIEVE THE FEELINGS CAN BECOME FAVORITE
FEELINGS......THE GRIEVING PROCESS IS WHEN YOUR GET IN TOUCH WITH HOW ANGRY YOU ARE AT YOURSELF AND THE PERSON..THEN THERE IS THE SADNESS FOR THE LOSS YOU NEED

TO FEEL AND LET GO OF....THEN YOU WILL FIND SOME SCARE YOU HAVE DEAL WITH AND LET GO OF THE BELIEF THAT OTHER PERSON IS LIKE EVERYONE ELSE, THE TENDENCY TO BELIEVE OTHERS WILL DO SAME THING, AND YOU WOULD BE RIGHT EXCEPT FOR ONE THING ''WE TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT US BY WHAT WE WILL EXCEPT FROM THEM'' RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT ONE HANDED AND YOU NEED TO SEE YOUR PART SO YOU DO NOT

REPEAT......BOTTOM LINE ITS OUR BELIEFS ABOUT OURSELVES AND OTHERS THAT IS

RUNNING OUR LIVES......WHEN WE PUT THE RESPONSIBILITY FOR OUR LIVES ''OUT

THERE'' DO YOU REALIZE HOW POWERLESS IT MAKES US!!!!!!!''VICTIM''

bitter experiences hit the mind as well the body so much; its true; but it needs to cover up with the best effort otherwise it will keep killing us.
good things always come to those who wait and to good souls.

GOD always tested those whom HE loves, we need to remember this. and start moving ahead with the faith in GOD and encouragements.

It's the way life is...we live...we learn...we get hurt....with time it heals & teaches us something & perhaps one might become a lil wiser....then again you still a kid & life has a lot more coming