Anyone else having the same issue? Because of tired of being in the situation.

It's difficult to have a strong connection with someone.

It's even harder when you hit 50

Finding the right one is never really easy. I think it is actually easier to go for the right one when you're older because you have far better knowledge of who is/could be the right one than when younger.
After all, you live and learn and get wiser as you get older.
When younger, the pressure can even be higher, because you still want to get married and raise a family. You see friends getting hitched, having babies, and you want that too. You may even feel left out when you're still single.
At least you don't have that same pressure anymore when a bit older.

Getting a strong connection, I think that is easier to achieve when you are older too, for the same reasons.
You have far better understanding what commitment is all about -or at least should be- when older and wiser. And knowledge of what you want in a partner and out of a relationship, making chances of a strong connection much higher.

Maybe it doesn't work this way for everyone, I know it does for me.
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it depends what kind of connection youd want

That's very true. It just seems like it's harder these days to find the right person. But that is true the older you get the more define things become.

the older you get the more you realize that most things are not quite as it seems

Isn't that a good thing? When younger things were not quite as they seemed either, only you weren't wise enough yet to notice it. Meaning chances of getting hurt cos you fell for the wrong person were much higher.
The more you are aware, the wiser you are, the less you have to sift and sort. You can leave the pile of chaff to one side and focus on the wheat. Maybe the pile of wheat is smaller, making it only easier to find that one that is right for you.

Just all depends how you look at things: the glass is half full or the glass is half empty.
The latter will likely lead you to the pile of chaff, as like is drawn to alike.

I think it's harder because the pool is so much smaller. Most guys my age are married.

I can see benefits too - as mentioned above.

It's never easy - and obviously, I didn't do it right the first time, or I wouldn't be divorced and single.


Patience....

THE RIGHT PERSON IS ALWAYS THERE AT THE TIME..........IT'S ALWAYS AN OPPORTUNITY

FOR GROWTH AND DISCOVERY OF DISOWNED PARTS OF ONES SELF......

you only get back what you put in to a relationship
if you are not finding any serious connections then try going out of your comfort zone and approaching a different kind of woman with a new style
peace

Hell yes!

Hell yes, I keep having younger men hit on me and want to talk to me while I don't know what the hell is wrong with the older men!

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thats true

by communicating it is easy to get idea

its vv because old like new n new like old

you want a strong connection?

switch from Crazy glue to Gorilla Glue... you will both be bonded together for life.

It's strong stuff

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