I been dating this women for quite some time and I'm into her very much .. Now she is a bit insecure as she wants my password for my social media and I give it to her and still has issues with the fact that women like my stuff.. She's ok one day and the next she flips out about social media .. I honestly don't think social media should effect any real relationships .. Just need some guidance as far as am I dealing w a young broad who is extremely insecure m... And how to approach her about being so insecure about social media when she has my password ..

Change your password.

change your girlfriend..

Change your password and your girlfriend.

the replies are perfect....

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WOW, there is so much wrong with that I don't know where to start.

Good advice: Change your password and your girlfriend
additional advice: Remove yourself from the dating pool until you get yourself right.


You felt you could trust her. Okay, I'll give you that one. I made the same mistake with a woman, it happens.


I've a strong feeling she doesn't flip out just about your social media. Obviously you don't really know her because if she demonstrates that trait she demonstrates it elsewhere as well. Your inability to know her shows you have no relationship at all past what you want.


Sure it does. Come back to reality for a second. If you are in a relationship that is right, EVERYTHING about you matters.


This is where it really is. This is the thinking that prevents you from finding someone special. You have no respect for women. This prevents you from honesty with them. Find a way to fix this and you might find someone right for you. Do you want someone to wants you for your image or for you. Well, it works both ways.

Good luck!

SHE IS A WOMAN DOING WHAT WOMEN DO....WOMEN ARE ALL ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS, WE

SHOULD NEVER EVER GIVE THEM A REASON TO BELIEVE WE HAVE A RELATIONSHIP OTHER

THAN FAMILY WITH ANOTHER WOMEN....AND RIGHTLY SO, SO MANY MEN ARE CHEATING THESE

DAYS.....AND THEY ALL TEST US TO SEE IF WE ARE WHAT WE SAY WE ARE.....SHE WAS

MOST LIKELY HURT BY A GUY IN THE PAST.......BOTTOM LINE YOUR EITHER SENSITIVE TO

HER FEELING OR NOT.......I DO NOT BELIEVE SHE IS ''THE ONE'' FOR YOU.....

Hey OP ... if she is really Bi-Polar ... (this used to be diagnosed as Manic-Depressive, like a child raised in a dysfunctional family they run around screaming and then crash in exhaustion. In an adult they would be work-alcoholics for 5 days straight(no sleep on drugs) .. and then go sleep for 12 days all depressed ... as an example of behaviour.

With that said ... if she balks at the idea of Psychotherapy ... or couples therapy ... or any kind of professional intervention ...

well because she HAS NO PROBLEMs ...

then that is a good indicator that you got a Bi-Polar GF here ... for sure an addict.

Once a Bi-Polar gets disgnosed their favorite drug of choice out of the White Mans medicine is Wellbutrin .. it is a sort of Speed or Meth ... that buries their depression part of their personalty.

Cause a lot of Bi-Polar are suicidal (again no therapy but YES to drugs).

Just wanted to clear that up ... for the discussion and for your benefit.

sumbuddie wear blind sea

my advise... run

I dealt with a BP person for 18 years.. lets just say.. everyday was a adventure.