Topic: so much for first date sex
andreww38's photo
Tue 08/15/06 09:40 PM
i see a lot of discussion abt first date sex.


what about yr opinions on
a) sympathy sex?
b) breakup sex?

how was it?

ROCKY_F4X2's photo
Wed 08/16/06 10:48 AM
sympathy sex is wrong.there is no reason to hurt that person you were
with any more than she or he is hurt.the sex might be great,but
afterwords reality hits and makes the situation harder.if that is what
you mean on sympathy sex.break up sex is different.example.if woman
breaks up with man and she is willing to sleep with you.the man bretter
take it befor she actauly moves on.you never no.she may want you
back.but definatly grab it why it is avaliable.the girl breaking up
should think of the guys feelings on subject befor she gives in to
him.if you do not want to hurt him.you should just walk away.if nuetral
break up.have fun

dAviedAnger's photo
Thu 08/17/06 10:41 AM
I have to agree with Rocky on this one. Sympathy sex is wrong. I'm
guilty of doing it once, and I'm in a situation I wish I was never in.
Learn from my experience. It only makes a situation 100xs harder than it
needs to be. Break up sex. There's another good one. Everyone loves
break up sex. Again, I agree with Rocky. If it's there take it. If you
aren't ready for the break up, then do your best to leave a reminder of
what the girl is missing out on. Ya never know, she may come back. My ex
did for a couple more weeks, and now we're the best of friends. Funny.
Got to love break up sex!

no photo
Fri 08/18/06 06:04 PM
Sympathy doesn't work out for either parties. There's the guilt after
and the other person just gets a temporary fix.


Break up sex never works either. I think a clean break is best. Break
up sex just makes the situation that much drawn out.

wizardofahhhhs's photo
Fri 08/18/06 10:06 PM
how 'bout revenge sex??????????????i luv a woman with a passionate
vandetta!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

tallandtttanned's photo
Fri 08/18/06 10:07 PM
i agree with kamaSutra

andreww38's photo
Sun 08/20/06 03:41 PM
but what happens in the situation when the person initiating the break
up, is asking for the break up sex?

no photo
Mon 08/21/06 11:58 PM
Ey Andrew, are you the person that is asking for? Or you are asked for?
:-)

arthur3's photo
Tue 08/22/06 12:31 AM
sex has to much risk for emo so every one should be careful or at least
that is what i think

no photo
Wed 08/23/06 06:45 PM
breakup sex is a no no! i mean most of the time its just a fight and you
say its over and to have sex is a non no (remember ross and rachel lol)

sympathy sex is almost worse! come on who wants that>?

Cancer26's photo
Wed 10/04/06 11:51 AM
Never had sympathy sex.
Break-up sex yes, it was really good.

Cancer26's photo
Wed 10/04/06 11:53 AM
As long as your not with anyone else and it's not an on going thing,
it's not such a bad thing.

no photo
Wed 10/04/06 11:55 AM
break up sex.... its the best

Fyresyren's photo
Wed 10/04/06 12:20 PM
I don't know if I have ever experienced sympathy sex....*thinks about
it* No, I don't think I have...

I have to agree though, it shouldn't be practiced. Breakup sex is
another story however. If that person was good in bed, but you couldn't
stand them otherwise, have fun! I mean come on, you never know when
you'll get good sex again right? LOL Okay on a serious note
here...Breakup sex really depends on the situation.