Topic: Do women need to be tamed?? | |
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Is freedom or order more important in a relationship//WILL
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i belive freedom 2 a certian point is in the best interest of the
relationship if there is no freedom then we will rebel and if there is 2 much we think u don't care but no tamin and try lettin lose w us we can b so much more fun if u just give us gidelines like no sleepin w other people but if we r just playin a harmless game of pool w anouther guy don't get all crazy bec u know who we r goin home w |
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LOVE IS A BATTLEFIELD..
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you are so right bliss as long as thay dont go crazy just because
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Well I think that most women like men already come with that inate
ability of order it's just when you try to push someone to do what they don't like that they become infused from lack of freedom. So, to answer your question both are very important. |
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well said!!
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i don't think that taming(changing)anyone ever works if you become
involved with someone and there is something that bothers you about them you have to determine if it is something that you can deal with. you have to accept people for who they are because if you can't live(deal) with that part of that person don't think you can change that part and live happily ever after, it rarely works that way in real life |
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Heres the thing everything will be just fine as long as she does what I
say!!!lol.. |
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here's what it boils down to..women marry hoping the man will
change..men marry hoping the woman won't |
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that is so true lol !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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But if you love a person enough to marry them, why would you want them
to change. They should be everything you want already, you should want them not to change. |
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I had a boyfriend who was next to me constantly and controlled all of my
free time. Lets just say that didn't last long. We need our freedom but generally it's only to an extent. You made a good comment about getting married, about not wanting them to change. In the end we do though, because we might not have gotten what we expected. Okay, I think I am a little of subject here. |
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i think people change regardless ...life experiance has a way of doing
that way.me personally i dont like not having freedom my ex didnt want me doing anything away from the house but she would go out with her freinds all the time there was definatly a double standard there not the main reason i wanted a divorce but it was a deciding factor |
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i think you should be able to see what they are like if it is heading
towards a serious relationship and if you aren't willing to accept them for who they are and you figure that you can change them over time, it's gonna get messy. people have to quit with the comquest idea if they can't accept it when the person doesn't change |
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If you except them for the way they are, why would you want to change
them. |
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i wouldnt want to change somebody but i would want to be with someone
who can see me for who i am and who i want to be and help encourage me and vice versa |
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I really think "tamed" is the wrong word to use. And why only women?
What about men? |
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that's interesting because my last relationship ended because of this.
she changed in to a person that i could not even be friends with(i wanted the girl i had years before)and even though she knew what i was like, she spent the next couple years trying to change little things about me. i eventually got tired of the bullshit and left her. |
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Anyone even THINKING of trying to tame this wildcat had better come with
a whip, a chair and better pack a lunch, too... |
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AWESOME!! WILL
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